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personal question - 5/27/2007 2:33:01 PM   
KenDckey


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Status: offline 		Hi everyone
 
I am wanting your opinions. I am 58, single, live alone, and looking for a younger submissive, slave, or couple. First let me define younger for you. I am 58 so younger has to be at least 18 and not past their 58th b-day yet.

Even though I know that I am fat, I am also looking for someone no larger than say 150 give or take. In the past I have been married to or dated women that were older than me and/or heavier than me for the most part and I am trying to make a change

I am serious in my search. I have been in the lifestyle since 1978 - ask and I will tell you how I became more than courious via e-mail - I think it is a funny story. I spent 14 years in a vanilla marriage during that period and have never cheated on a wife. Although I do have a tendency toward reckless eyeballing - lol.

I ask that you review my profile and provide me your opinion on what would make me more attractive to the one I am looking for.  I do chat here and on Yahoo and if you e-mail me I will provide you the screen name.

Thanks for your thoughts
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RE: personal question - 5/27/2007 2:56:50 PM   
earthycouple


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Status: offline 		*SMACK* and another troll hits the wall. 

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RE: personal question - 5/27/2007 2:59:13 PM   
MsLadySue


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RE: personal question - 5/27/2007 3:01:01 PM   
ennaozzie


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Status: offline 		Hello KenDckey
 
Hope you find what you are looking for, best advice I can give is be yourself, I know that sounds corny but its true.
 
You will find what you are looking for I found when you least expect it, when you are not looking, but the best way for others to get to know you is be yourself.
 
I found I came across someone when I was not looking, just making friends been my only intention, if you end up finding someone that is a bonus but if not you can never have too few friends.
 
All the best to you
 
beanie

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RE: personal question - 5/27/2007 3:04:40 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		Ken is a bit goofy and too right wing for me but his heart is in the right place so don't be mean.

The guy dated older women and doesn't cheat, based on what we read here, that definitely beats some.

Ken, you get to ask for what you want but getting it isn't the same thing. 

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RE: personal question - 5/27/2007 3:05:36 PM   
velvetears


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Status: offline 		i am curious as to why you want to make these changes? 

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RE: personal question - 5/27/2007 3:11:41 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		The more criteria that you have for a submissive causes your pool of potential to get smaller and smaller...Seems to me you are now going into seeking eye candy mode, going through a bit of a midlife crisis?..Tempting

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RE: personal question - 5/27/2007 5:06:11 PM   
Quivver


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Status: offline 		Ken, I would like to suggest you go read the thread in the General section about older Submissives. 
Now I dont mean to piss on your parade but 150 depending on fitness of the individual your weight limit may just toss out much of what your wreckless eyeballing is glued to.

I did review your profile.  Although I am younger then you by a decade I do not fit what you seek cause I weight more then 150.  But if I did fit?  You profile is bland.  I appreciate your honesty in sharing your physical limitations which would remove you instantly from any list I may have made.  I think a rewrite is in order. 
Show your personality, temp someone to answer. 





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RE: personal question - 5/27/2007 5:33:29 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		I am going to be as sincerely helpful as possible (even if you are a right winger)

 
quote:

I am looking for a younger slave or submissive


This is at the beginning of the profile. "Younger" is a word that anyone over 45 is going to take notice of and perhaps it will put some of us off... at least it would me if it was at the beginning of the profile... perhaps an age range toward the middle of the end, but it seems a little superficial right there at the beginning of the profile

quote:

To me a slave would be required to submit in all ways that I desire.  A submissive has more priviledges and would submit to me within her limitations. 


If I read this, it might be informative in some ways, but I find that I tended to be more appreciative of this sort of info developing in conversations. My personal taste perhaps? It is just that sometimes it is the developing relationship that defines my submission, not the terms.
quote:

 
 am a pretty level headed guy and rarely lose my temper - I am way to ugly when I do and I don't like me then.


This would raise a red flag for me.. perhaps it is too much information about possible anger management. I am not saying you are an angry person, but to state this the way you have would give me pause... Perhaps it is unnecessary?
quote:

 
I prefer someone that is younger. Been married to women that are older than me and want a change.   Younger means someone born after me and old enough to be legal.



See, you bring this up again... it is only necessary once. I have to ask, exactly how many subs are out there that are older than you? I am just wondering if you have had an avalanche of senior citizens emailing you or something.


quote:

 
I like to keep my slave or submissive in a minimal number of clothes - panties are out most of the time.   I also am into white thigh highs   mmmm



Perhaps this would be better discussed once you get to know someone?

These are just my subjective thoughts while reading your profile.. others might have different thoughts all together.

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RE: personal question - 5/27/2007 5:49:48 PM   
Emperor1956


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Status: offline 		Ken, julia, with her usual grace and tact, has given you a lot to think about.  I was writing my own reply, but she said most of it for Me, and better than I would have.

"earthycouple" why do you feel the need to show us how rude, selfish and dismissive you are?  I have rarely seen a more unflattering post done in one sentence. 

E.

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RE: personal question - 5/27/2007 6:00:57 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: earthycouple

*SMACK* and another troll hits the wall. 

Ken has been here for awhile; I would never look at him as a troll.

As to the OP...just be yourself; that's all anyone can ask for.

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RE: personal question - 5/27/2007 6:02:38 PM   
KenDckey


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Status: offline 		I do appreciate the comments.    Michael is right   I am conservative  LOL  We (inculding Julia for that matter) often disagree on political issues.   That is what makes us good citizens.

Oh and yeah   I have gotten a lot of recent 60+ e-mails lately for some reason.   And no I am not looking for eye candy.   but wouldn't turn it down.    LOL  

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RE: personal question - 5/27/2007 7:30:58 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		i like julia's breakdown of your original op ...should give you lots to re-think and consider

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RE: personal question - 5/27/2007 7:56:14 PM   
shyinini


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

"earthycouple" why do you feel the need to show us how rude, selfish and dismissive you are?  I have rarely seen a more unflattering post done in one sentence. 

E.


*sigh
 
It is rather demonstrative of other responses.
 
You are right on IrishMist... right on !!

Sir's slut, who sometimes notices

< Message edited by shyinini -- 5/27/2007 8:10:58 PM >

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