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Naked mind - 5/19/2005 4:46:43 PM

dmarc

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I have been looking into techniques and ways of working with a sub, and how to own their mind, her thoughts (I have heard this as being called a "Mind Fuck" although not completely sure if that is the right title for it).

Although I would say that some people may not agree with a desire to have there mind opened up and exposed and allowing there deeper thoughts (cognitive thoughts) to be worked with, I do feel it really brings the level of intimacy a step deeper (especially in the trust issue) in a D/s relationship.

I wonder what your thoughts were on this...So please drop a line in this thread....as it would be very interesting to know your view...thanks!!

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RE: Naked mind - 5/19/2005 7:42:42 PM

LaMspeach

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I can't say I agreed to let Master into my mind but over time it happened. He knows me better then anyone ever has. He understands me often better then I know and understand myself. He seems to know what I am thinking before I do. All of this took time, a lot of communication and both us being totally honest with each other, which helped us build a strong bond and a great amount of trust. Lately we even seem to say the same things to each other or someone we are chatting with and have allot of the same opinions.

Master also does something I calling planting a seed... He mentions something I might have a fear of or something I have never tried and he might be interested in. The next thing I know I am trying to find information on that activity, rolling it over in my mind and before you know it, I am wanting to try it...

I believe a mind fuck is totally different then what you are talking about (if I understood correctly) my thought of a mind fuck was being able to make someone believe you were doing one thing while in fact you were doing something else... IE you make them believe you are cutting them with a knife and the whole time you are using a credit card and some warm water for the blood.

I hope this helped.

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RE: Naked mind - 5/19/2005 8:09:13 PM

EmeraldSlave2

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A "mind fuck" is a specific exchange that occurs in which you place the other person in a vulnerable mental state such that you can manipulate it however you want.

Simply having them laid open like an open book is more a state of affairs.

I've seen subs and slaves capable of the highest forms of mind fucks on people (yes, me included, but I top as well).

It's usually good for a top/dom to understand where the slave is coming from and what their perspective is. But they aren't psychic and simply talking to them about it is the best way to go. Long term relationship building isn't about fancy jedi mind tricks, likely your sub/slave will become almost as intimate with you and your workings as you are with them.

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