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RE: Canes, a beginner's guide - 6/2/2007 1:00:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: ennaozzie

So spikey feels uncomfortable about asking questions (which is ok some people are private or shy) so you put his user name in the forum saying (hopefully he will reply) one hopes that he was aware that you where going to reveal what information that you have.

I am only going on what you have written as to why I have doubts that it should have been done this way.

But it sounds like plenty of good advice was given, and I hope the best for spikey.

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I asked his permission to post the thread on his behalf, he agreed.
I informed him I would be posting his nic as part of the thread, he agreed.
I sent him a draft of the thread so he could agree the wording, he approved.

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Disregard the Noise on the Thread - 6/2/2007 3:10:25 PM

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DONT FEED THE TROLL

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RE: Canes, a beginner's guide - 6/2/2007 3:29:35 PM

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Thanks no need to answer but thanks it has set my mind at ease, was just concerned but now know you where just looking out for a friend and helping.

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RE: Canes, a beginner's guide - 6/2/2007 5:34:56 PM

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Which type of cane is best to begin with?
How should they practice using it to begin with?
The health and safety conditions (eg not striking kidneys etc)
How do they begin to train each other into this kind of play?

My Dom used the rattan cane on me and he at first showed me what the cane looked like. He also rubbed it on my exposed rear and gave it a couple swats to let me know what it felt like. My Dom will stand on either side of me and swat the cane that way, so either backhand or forehand works well. i would say just to start off slowly with a couple swats on each cheek and work your way up to a few more and go from there. Best of luck

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RE: Canes, a beginner's guide - 6/2/2007 6:13:10 PM

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When we start someone off with the cane, we use it to give a purely sensual massage. We choose a thick rattan cane, have the subject lie down comfortably on a massage type table, then drop it with nice thuds over the back, buttocks and thighs as though giving a massage. It doesn't take long to work out just how hard to wield it to get a nice "punch" and it's great for getting your eye in and improving your aim. You use the cane at a very gentle angle so it thuds rather than stings, varying the force according to the subject's feedback - as they warm up they'll be able to take a bit more, just as happens with a flogging. After a while, work your way down and concentrate on the buttocks, warming them up gently with concentrated small taps, then head for the crease where the buttocks meet the top of the thighs. In this area, the cane acts like a rattan vibrator - female subjects in particular have been known to come through it. This establishes a very nice relationship with the cane, improves accuracy, and is one of the best places to begin with a cane - then work up to the stingier applications. Enjoy!
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