JustaDom -> RE: ownership marks (5/21/2005 12:44:41 AM)
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I may be a dominant, but I hope you won't mind if I add to this discussion. I've been thinking about the subject of ownership tattoos as well this week and perhaps you might find some value in them. Just to play devil's advocate, a tattoo is intended to be a permanent mark. Is this going to be a permanent relationship? If you both deeply intend to be mistress and slave forever, I say go for it. A tattoo can be permanent in a way that no wedding band or collar can be. Even a metal collar can be removed with a good set of bolt cutters. If you ever want to get rid of a tattoo you have to either undergo extensive treatments or get a cover up tattoo over it. I'm all for permanent marks as long as the relationship is going to last. Maybe she is choosing this tattoo as a way of displaying her commitment to you? Ownership marks such as tattoos or brands can be a very intimate way of showing that commitment. It certainly can make you feel more submissive if it has a significant personal meaning for you and preferably, both of you. A tattoo is painful but bearable. They would not be so popular with vanilla folks if they were excruciating. If she wants the tattoo on your right buttock, that shouldn't be too hard to bear. Generally speaking, the closer an area is to bone or the more nerve endings an area has, the more painful it is. The buttocks have a good amount of tissue and relatively few nerve endings. You may find the pain meaningful, like a rite of passage. If you can look at it like that the pain will be a positive thing. Good luck! Joe
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