GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Non-smoking smokers! (5/30/2005 8:31:11 PM)
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ORIGINAL: perverseangelic As I see it, someone who smokes a cigarette a month is someone who smokes, not a smoker. Most assuredly, I smoke. I do -not- fall into the category of "smoker" because as I see it, one of the criteria of "smoker" is regular, frequent use of cigarettes. You're defining the category of smoker as "someone who has, at any time, smoked a cigarette." Fine, but again, language is -not- as black and white as you're trying to make it. Simply because it's used by such a variety of people, there are shades of meaning and connotative interpretations of words. Language, in this kind of use, -can't- be black and white. Yup. "smoker" means "someone who smokes." Cool. The cultural category of "a smoker" is up for debate. I agree with perverse. And yes, I normally think of a "smoker" as being one who regularly lights up in any legal area as the need for nicotine warrants. And that need is usually much more than once or twice a month. But, in this day and age, I s'pose I need to adjust My thinking and not ass-u-me that most people still view the habit in this manner. However, I will say that I am a smoker, and if a boy needs clarification on that, I am more than happy to give it to him. If he feels he doesn't, then I think it is alright to ass-u-me that he is aware and cigarette smoke is not particulalry offensive to him So for those who need to know: 1. I expect a boy to be ready to flick his bic for Me. 2. When I go to a restaurant I always say "smoking, please" 3. I may ask you to carry My cigarettes in your coat pocket when W/we go to the theater. 4. During intermission I will immediately exit the building and head for the "designated smoking area". 5. All boys have permission to send Me a carton of filtered, non-menthol, ultra light cigarettes in lieu of next week's tribute. Ah, ya know, I just had to add that last little part!
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