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making the difference - 5/29/2007 7:23:14 AM

phoenixinchains

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there are just days when you don't feel good. you wake up all sinussy, you hear the sound of company, and you know the house is still a wreck from the bar-b-que the day earlier. so you dress, and stumble through the sinus funk down the stairs and WOW the house is perfectly clean, your guest are suitably intertained, and your Mate/ (insert your own word) is being a perfect host.
yes, i love doing all the things i do for Him, but i just melted at this. i felt the littlest bit bad because He had done it in my place, but went with the warm fuzzy feeling that my Mate did something to please me.
my question is, what's the kindest gesture your Dom/me has ever made?

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RE: making the difference - 5/29/2007 8:41:52 AM

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One past parnter sent me flowers at work, just because. It was a hell-of-a-week and he sent a dozen roses, just to cheer me up. The clients smiled and it immediatly made the rest of my Friday better. I called him up to thank him; I had the biggest smile on my face for the rest of the day.

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RE: making the difference - 5/29/2007 8:46:24 AM

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Master does so many sweet little things, that I can't name just one. But, yesterday he did the dishes while I cleaned up the detrius so that we could just get outside and enjoy the sunshine.

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RE: making the difference - 5/29/2007 9:02:48 AM

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i saw a little sign at a fair reading; "No man was ever assinated while washing dishes," i loved it.

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RE: making the difference - 5/29/2007 1:22:22 PM

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I had started getting addicted to Lindor truffles back in November. Around mid-January, he took me to the store for some light grocery shopping and slipped a small box of them into the cart when I wasn't looking, saying that had been the reason he really wanted to go. Turns out he was also scouting for the big bouquet of flowers, the teddy bear, the watch, and the 2 DOZEN truffles he wanted to get me. I woke up on Valentine's Day with the presents scattered across our dresser.

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RE: making the difference - 5/29/2007 1:46:01 PM

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My Dominant who i was married to, at the time i was heavly pregnant already had one child in tow and had been out doing food shopping, arrived home to find on my door step the biggest bunch of flowers i had ever seen, with a note saying, (Thank you for been you, love you lots) i arrived home feeling like shit, and feeling fat and horrible, and just feeling yuck, but this lifted my heart and made my day so much better.

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RE: making the difference - 5/29/2007 1:49:46 PM

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Too many to list. It's not really the things that He does for me that makes my day though, it's what He says. One day He told me that i was His sunshine and that i took all His cloudy days away. i couldn't stop smiling that whole day. i ended up giving out a ton of random hugs to my coworkers because i was so happy which cheered them up too. It was wonderful.

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RE: making the difference - 5/29/2007 3:16:43 PM

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He allows me to be who I am and loves me for it.

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RE: making the difference - 5/29/2007 3:28:30 PM

sambamanslilgirl

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if Daddy has time between patients, He will call me even though it will be a fast 5 to 10 minute - i cherish every minute spent on the phone. it seems the world stops spinning just for us while we chat. my secondary Dom surprised me on Mother's Day by beating everyone to wish me a "Happy Mother's Day".

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RE: making the difference - 5/29/2007 6:26:47 PM

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Once I had such a bad day that he drove a hour and a half, just to see me and brought me some jelly belly beans which for future reference are the best jelly beans alive. (in particular---strawberry cheesecake)

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RE: making the difference - 5/29/2007 8:06:26 PM

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He came over and played handyman for a day -doing all kinds of little repair jobs I needed to have done. Meant the world to me..and made me feel very well taken care of.

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RE: making the difference - 5/29/2007 8:17:46 PM

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He drives 700miles, (uphill) both ways, to come see me at least once a month. Talk about knowing how to make a girl feel wanted!

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RE: making the difference - 5/29/2007 8:20:05 PM

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A couple months back, I was helping Sir and Ma Lady with some of their work and Sir surprised me with a beautifull cloth quilted backpack I had been wanting.

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RE: making the difference - 5/29/2007 9:25:57 PM

denika

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There has been many, one of the most poignant I wrote about earlier in the year, it was my birthday and I was having a terrible time coping with the fact it was also a year to the day since I had last heard my Mothers voice and I pretty much fell apart while taking a bath. He sat with me, bathed me, held me and didn't say anything the entire time, he didn't have to.
Rob, like my Top and his family inspire me on a regular basis to be a better person, but still love me thru all my flaws

denika

Rob also lets me sleep in when we are home together and puts the dogs out in the morning

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RE: making the difference - 5/29/2007 9:52:37 PM

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My Daddy lives over looking the ocean. I can see the sunrise over the Pacific from our apartment, but I cannot see it set. He lives at the mouth of the Harbor, so we see the sunrise... which is a novelty in California.

I wanted to see a sunset over the Pacific with him. We could have driven down the street (actually it is close enough to walk), but instead he took me to this restaurant with heaters (this was last winter) outside so I could watch the sunset in style, over a very nice dinner and cocktails..... it was very sweet, and it is things like this that make him the most thoughtful Daddy I could ever wish to have.

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RE: making the difference - 5/29/2007 10:16:17 PM

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One night we were swinging with another couple at Master's house. We were playing late and the other couple ended up spending the night. Master got up early and did the dishes and made coffee!! I have never seen Master do dishes and the coffee machine confounded him (he doesn't drink the stuff). It was such a loving gesture, I was speachless. But at the same time I felt guilty that I hadn't gotten up earlier than him...lol

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RE: making the difference - 5/29/2007 10:24:25 PM

slavegirljoy

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quote:

ORIGINAL: phoenixinchains
my question is, what's the kindest gesture your Dom/me has ever made?

my Master makes me lay down when i'm not feeling well. He makes me something to eat & brings me water & hot tea & medicine & a blanket & takes my temperature & checks on me to see how i'm doing.

He makes me take my prosthetic leg off and stay off of it when my leg is sore. He brings me ice packs when my leg is swollen.

He talks with me and asks me what i think about different topics. He listens to me. He understands what i am saying and what i am feeling. He remembers things i've told Him, that i haven't even remembered.

He makes my birthday special for me. He makes Mother's Day special for me. He makes every day special for me.

He makes me feel good about myself.

He reassures me that i will always have a home with Him.

He cares about me.

slave joy
Owned property of Master David

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RE: making the difference - 5/30/2007 2:51:03 AM

swtnsparkling

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quote:

my question is, what's the kindest gesture your Dom/me has ever made?

There were so many! but here are a couple .
Cook for me- lovely dinners
Give me the bed all to myself so I could get a good nights rest and if
I happened to sleep in really late I was allowed to. No one woke me up

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RE: making the difference - 5/30/2007 9:59:55 PM

phoenixinchains

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thank you to everyone for sharing, it's not often when a girl/guy gets an oppertunity to gush about the Other, i just wanted to see happiness in the world. lol, it helps me brave the evil Sprawl-Mart knowing there really are good people out there. you might think me crazy now, but it's best to find a coping method before the holidays hit

phoenix

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RE: making the difference - 5/31/2007 1:42:10 AM

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"my question is, what's the kindest gesture your Dom/me has ever made? "

Oh gods. So many.

Cared for me when I was sick including taking care of some really gross stuff...

Drove us back from San Francisco using the Pacific Coast Highway and other coastal roads for long stretches so I could enjoy the scenery, even though it took twice as long as the 5 would have.

Let me hide my face during the scary parts of movies and told me when it was safe to look again.

Built me my very own special cubby/loft in his house which is my special place.

Bought me a Salvador Dali Tarot deck (I collect Tarot and this is an expensive one I have wanted for years)

He is the kindest, most generous, sweet man.

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