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Fantasies - 5/21/2005 12:36:01 AM   
BeautifulDoll


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Status: offline 		Just curious as to what other Doms/subs fantasies are? Any your Dom will not comply with that you have? If so which ones and why? Which ones are okay? How far is too far with fantasies?
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RE: Fantasies - 5/21/2005 4:18:52 AM   
chickie


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Status: offline 		My Dom is a total GIRL about the fact that he wont lie down and be ass fucked by a group of rabid pygmies wearing frilly undies.

I have tried to talk to him about this but he just isnt willing to play ball on this one.

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RE: Fantasies - 5/21/2005 6:53:56 AM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		There's no such thing as too far with fantasies.

There is such a thing as too far with making them reality.

I have fantasies I know damn well never would and never SHOULD happen in reality, but they sure do get me turned on.

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RE: Fantasies - 5/21/2005 8:37:18 AM   
Lepidoptera


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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

I have fantasies I know damn well never would and never SHOULD happen in reality, but they sure do get me turned on.


Same here. There are some stories on bdsmlibrary.com that I've enjoyed but shudder at the thought of happening to me in real life... like getting flayed alive, lol.

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RE: Fantasies - 5/21/2005 10:19:45 AM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		Hell yeah.

I have those too :)

I wouldn't ever want them to occur to anyone. Ever. But damn are they hot.

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RE: Fantasies - 5/21/2005 2:11:42 PM   
fourpeas


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Status: offline 		I wonder what the word is for a fantasy that you have, where you could/can see yourself doing something, but

a) it doesn't really turn you on
and
b) you are like "whoa, what's that all about....?"

Weirdness, maybe it's just me being a worst-case scenario type person. I have visions all the time of doing things that really and truly don't turn me on but it's just like I can envision them happening.

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RE: Fantasies - 5/21/2005 8:05:38 PM   
Lepidoptera


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ORIGINAL: fourpeas

I wonder what the word is for a fantasy that you have, where you could/can see yourself doing something, but

a) it doesn't really turn you on
and
b) you are like "whoa, what's that all about....?"

Weirdness, maybe it's just me being a worst-case scenario type person. I have visions all the time of doing things that really and truly don't turn me on but it's just like I can envision them happening.


Yeah, I've had those as well. The most common one I had when I was a child was when we are all driving in the car... and I'd imagine a terrible car accident... every detail of it, including which body parts of mine were crushed by which parts of the car. Depending on how long the car ride was, I'd see it happen 2-3 times. In different ways, of course : )

When I was seven I wrote a series of essays about what it would be like to die in every way I could imagine... I had one for being burned at the stake, one for being pushed off a cliff, one for being buried alive...

I was a pretty morbid child.

(Now, the ones where the school was taken over by terrorists and I was raped by them... THAT was a sexual fantasy)

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RE: Fantasies - 5/21/2005 10:28:14 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Generally I'd call it an active engaging imagination.

BTW, something interesting to note is that such fantasies, when unwelcome, unbidden and causing distress to the person, are a symptom of OCD. I have moderate OCD so I've done some research and have such flashes myself. It was comforting to know that it's is related to something I can understand and that it's not uncommon.

I remember at age 11 walking home being very angry at some kids at school for teasing me and getting a huge flash of them shackled to the wall with me beating them bloody with whips and spiky things. This really upset me because I'd NEVER actually seen anything like that before so I had no idea where it came from and I certainly would NEVER actually want to do that to someone. But you move on, realize it's just ideas in your head, play with them if you want, figure out how they work with who you are and continue on.

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RE: Fantasies - 5/21/2005 10:53:22 PM   
BeautifulDoll


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Status: offline 		What is OCD?

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RE: Fantasies - 5/21/2005 11:01:22 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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ORIGINAL: BeautifulDoll

What is OCD?

Sorry- its Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

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RE: Fantasies - 5/21/2005 11:09:42 PM   
BeautifulDoll


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Status: offline 		oh okay. i am like that with shopping. lol.

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RE: Fantasies - 5/22/2005 7:31:23 PM   
Lepidoptera


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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

Generally I'd call it an active engaging imagination.

BTW, something interesting to note is that such fantasies, when unwelcome, unbidden and causing distress to the person, are a symptom of OCD. I have moderate OCD so I've done some research and have such flashes myself. It was comforting to know that it's is related to something I can understand and that it's not uncommon.

I remember at age 11 walking home being very angry at some kids at school for teasing me and getting a huge flash of them shackled to the wall with me beating them bloody with whips and spiky things. This really upset me because I'd NEVER actually seen anything like that before so I had no idea where it came from and I certainly would NEVER actually want to do that to someone. But you move on, realize it's just ideas in your head, play with them if you want, figure out how they work with who you are and continue on.


Really? It upset you?

I remember that when I was little and I got angry at my mom, I would stare at the floor and imagine I was looking at her bloody, severed head. I found it very comforting.

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RE: Fantasies - 5/22/2005 10:00:04 PM   
proudsub


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Status: offline 		Most of my fantasies are to be bound in the positions i see on hogtied . I know at my age i can't get into most of those positions but it's fun imagining it.

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