Lockit
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Hello Everyone, I noticed this thread earlier and didn't come take a look as I was busy. I also wanted a bit of time for some personal thought. I would like to say that I came to some conclusion, but I haven't yet. Maybe you all might be able to assist me with that. I don't know much about hyjacking a thread and I don't know if what I am doing is hyjacking, but I hope that it isn't. If it is, I am very sorry! I know this topic is all part of the kick of the lifestyle and people really like the thought of it. A friend even wrote a story about a stranger rape and even then I wasn't sure what to think. A part of the struggle I had to deal with when I learned of the lifestyle, was in the work I did as a career and to help others. I worked in domestic abuse/some rape/ lay counsel/religious retraining and the like. I was personally raped more than once and was held hostage once for a couple of days and kidnapped off the street once. I had to see the difference and what a big difference it is! And I love it! lol I take this topic from a completly different place in life. On one hand I can see the complete thrill and on the other, I can only see the dangers that playing this out could cause. Already some have mentioned the police being called having had a witness that didn't understand what was going on and an innocent tow truck driver that will never forget that day! lol I do wonder if one was to get caught somehow, if charges could be brought against both parties for wasting the police officers time. If someone were to come to assist and someone got hurt... well... I am sure things could get real legal, real quick. In some ways I don't see how the kick could be worth the punch one could get. A part of me wants to say something about how playing this type of thing out might somehow belittle what some have experienced in real life, but I know that none of you are doing that. I just wonder if others here had been through the real thing, might be upset and how. ( I am not upset, just curious and wondering if I might have some hidden issue somewhere that I might need to address.) I guess this is where I get stuck and maybe where you can assist me, if you would. Can you help me understand the feeling you desire and why you wish to go through this experience? There is no way to know the fear, the anger, the sheer not knowing what was to come of you in a real life situation, but I can see in part how it could be a thrill because of the not knowing, yet being in safe hands. Thank you for any responses. Again, if I am hyjacking the thread, I don't mean to and am sorry. Just let me know and I will not do it again. I am just unclear on what is hyjacking in some situations. Lockit
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