subitodolce -> RE: kidnaped (6/24/2007 10:31:26 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster Umm...if there are safewords, seems to me it's staged. But whateva floats your boat. It can be looked at like that, but think about if something happened during the scene that actually HARMED the sumissive. That should never happen therefore safewords, in ANY situation, should be in place. My Dom and I have a default safeword regardless of the situation. He knows that if I say "peanut butter" (which is the sort of thing that makes you stop whatever you're doing just to process what anything would have to do with peanut butter), regardless of what is going on, he stops or releases me. It happened during a goof-off moment, and he twisted my shoulder wrong. I yelped and said "peanut butter", and he instantly released my hand and apologized. Isn't so bad to have a pre-agreed upon word. Saves planning a new one for each time.
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