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Mission Accomplished - 5/21/2005 8:08:02 AM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		Because my pet has finalized a divorce with her X, she has moved back in with her parents untill we get an apartment together. So when I vist we get a hotel for play and sex. This time though we had sex in her bedroom where her parents watched TV in the living room.

Last time pet was at my place pet accidently left a pair of ear rings that I had given her. This was the perfect opprotunity to punish pet with orgasim denail. During our time apart I sent naughty e-mails and spoke on the phone of ravishing her and such.

After teasing pet for a bit in her bedroom druing a movie, she gave in and we fucked on her bed.

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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/21/2005 9:50:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't get the "she gave in" part? As in she was so horny she didn't care that her parents were there?

Did you care that the parents could hear? Have the parents stated any preferences?

Why can't she stay over at your place?

How did orgasm denial coupled with hot sex help her to be less forgetful and more tidy in the future?

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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/21/2005 10:05:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		Question number one: YES

Question number two: A. I don't care. They're TV is always loud and you have to talk loud for them to hear. But we where also very quiet. B. They never stated any to me. Mom knows that she's an adult but she has the typical old fashion dad who allowed his son to have who ever he wanted in room when he lived here but not her daughter. But he seems to like me.

Question number three: She does stay at my place but we take turns driving to see each other. We are in a 2 1/2 hr drive LDR. Because of our work schedules we only get to see each other every 2 weeks.

Question number four: She's already as neat as tidy as I need her to be. I don't care if it helps her be more tidy and less forgetfull. I just used her mistake as an excuse for the big picture.

NEXT?

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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/21/2005 11:01:27 AM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		Sounds as though you need to learn respect for her. Also your elders.

What do we care how your little sex scene went anyway?

Most of us are in the lifestyle..plain old boring sex does not tantalize very often.

Sorry but I just don't see the point of the post.

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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/21/2005 11:08:32 AM   
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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/21/2005 12:35:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Just something different than someone asking another how to question and maybe I thouht others would post there experiences with similar ordeals. Plus I may have wanted to bring out a piece of a growing journey. Most ppl have an idea on what they want in the relationship and if there will be a stoping point in where the journey may end. I entend to keep going with this relationship myself. However, as everyone has an idea for this that and the other, I was merely pointing out the idea of thinking the steps to get there. We have already had threads dealing with past experineces includeing most embarassing moments and journey's for relationships. At any rate it's a Saturday and I haven't started a thread in a while. I'm not looking for a trouphy nor a job well done response. Is it so wrong to act out an old teenage fantasy every once in a while and make a small lil post about it?

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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/21/2005 12:56:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nah, do what you like, but I'd appreciate it if you'd title the post with something a bit more descriptive- scene report or the like.

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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/21/2005 7:01:59 PM   
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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/21/2005 7:11:54 PM   
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quote:

Is it so wrong to act out an old teenage fantasy every once in a while and make a small lil post about it?


I never knew you were a teenager. You look much, much older in your photo here.

I think your original post would fall under the category of a non consensual scene.
Sure, while some would want to read about it. Most other's would not. You are not new to the board's so we just assume you would know better.

I know people here look up to me even when they do not agree. How do I know this, well because I've gotten mucho e-mails from various people. Therefore I put a certain code of conduct on myself when on these board's.
Frankly I can care less what you do as I assume you can care less what I do. I come here to be a better person within the scene. To learn..hear other opinions rather than my own.
The post just seemed so out of place.
Also told us a whole lot about your character we never knew before.

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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/21/2005 9:11:22 PM   
Calmtype59


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Status: offline 		Perhaps next time you should start your post with 'Dear Penthouse"...

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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/22/2005 8:27:41 AM   
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Greetings F&F...

whilst I can understand why someone might desire to give a 'progress reposrt' on a relationship - maybe this forum wasn'y the best place - it is probably more appropriate for the 'Positive Experience' boards - seeing as your relationship began though a meeting via here.

That said - I would have to add that I agree with Gloria - that the scene in a sense was very unconsensual. When participating in wiitwd, it is vital that we take into account the people around us, especially when they aren't into wiitwd. Kinda goes back to the 'pissing in public' thread - Whilst I understand that you probably didn't anticipate a negative reaction to your 'update' post - like anyone else, your gonna have to accept that not everyones going to agree with your 'don't care' attitude (public forum an all that).

Maybe - if you assumed people might post similar 'ordeals'(not sure why its an ordeal though - could you enlighten?) it might have been a good idea to suggest other people might enlighten yourself?

Nothing negative here - I always enjoy your posts(usually) - just observation.

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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/23/2005 9:20:53 AM   
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quote:

I think your original post would fall under the category of a non consensual scene.


It was not nonconsensual. I had never specifically said that I would not under any circumstances do...that. I could have at any time asked him to stop and he would have.

That said, the thread makes me mad. What we do is our busuness and if he feels like sharing it I wish he would at least speak to me first. I would prefer that this not be shared with any person that happens to read it.

Not to mention..MISSION?! That's what I am? GGRRRRR

Maybe stressed out, getting ready to take a test and hopefully get an interview was not the best time to read/respond to this but OH WELL.

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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/23/2005 9:26:30 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: liltxsubby
That said, the thread makes me mad. What we do is our busuness and if he feels like sharing it I wish he would at least speak to me first. I would prefer that this not be shared with any person that happens to read it.

That's the problem with misunderstood expectations.
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Not to mention..MISSION?! That's what I am? GGRRRRR

Apparently the mission was to make you so horny for him and his cock that you wouldn't care about your previous statements. You aren't a "girlfriend," you're a submissive, so it would make sense that he has missions to accomplish in regards to you.

I guess that's a nice hot fantasy, to be able to turn someone on to that degree. But, if he wanted you to fuck him, why couldn't he just order it? Why the big contrivance?

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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/23/2005 9:41:12 AM   
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It was not non consensual. I had never specifically said that I would not under any circumstances do...that. I could have at any time asked him to stop and he would have.


When we said it was non consensual that referred to us. Nobody asked us if we wanted to be part of it.
It is like being forced to watch a porno. Does that make sense?

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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/23/2005 9:55:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not really, this is a bdsm discussion group, when you read a thread you know it's going to include some bdsm, and likely sexuality.

You could say we were misled, but the subject doesn't really say anything about anything so it was more a case of "anything goes" when you decide to read the topic.

I would say that saying it's non-consensual is going too far, after all, we agree when we sign up to this site that we will be exposed to adult content.

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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/23/2005 9:56:19 AM   
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It was not nonconsensual. I had never specifically said that I would not under any circumstances do...that. I could have at any time asked him to stop and he would have.


I saw it non consensual in two aspects.

Non - consensual ie - Your parents did not consent to it happening in their house (at least thats how the thread reads), so we draw our own concluesions without having the full story. Its a thread - this sort of thing happens.

Also non consensual in the fact that the board is now party to your private scene. When I came to read it - 'Misson Accomplised' The title didn't seem a thread about a personal scene - it also wasn't in the personal experiences section. Now it could be argued we didn't have to read all the thread - but then again - it was already too late, even if the whole thread isn't read. OK... so we don't have to participate - but then, if we disagree, we are able to verbalise our thoughts, disappointments and perception.

Now, as I read the thread more - I see a third non consensual act - that the submissive didn't agree to the public knowledge of the said act - thats miscommunication.

Not trying to tear apart what was obviously an enjoyable scene at the time for you both - but it has been brought into a public forum to be discussed. And for me(only my opinion - lol - disclaimer) - consensuality and communication are keys to a good scene.

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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/23/2005 10:06:13 AM   
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Non - consensual ie - Your parents did not consent to it happening in their house (at least thats how the thread reads), so we draw our own concluesions without having the full story. Its a thread - this sort of thing happens.

Also non consensual in the fact that the board is now party to your private scene. When I came to read it - 'Misson Accomplised' The title didn't seem a thread about a personal scene - it also wasn't in the personal experiences section. Now it could be argued we didn't have to read all the thread - but then again - it was already too late, even if the whole thread isn't read. OK... so we don't have to participate - but then, if we disagree, we are able to verbalise our thoughts, disappointments and perception.

Now, as I read the thread more - I see a third non consensual act - that the submissive didn't agree to the public knowledge of the said act - thats miscommunication.


Exactly

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RE: Mission Accomplished - 5/23/2005 4:35:57 PM   
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When we said it was non consensual that referred to us.


Sorry I misunderstood. You're all right in there was a definite lack of communication. Maybe he put it up to embarass me, he liekes that sometimes.

There will most definitely be a discussion between the two of us. I think he was going more for embarassment than my beiong upset by the whole thing. If I don't let him know, it's my own fault.

Sorry for airing dirty laundry out in public, but sometimes venting to uninvolved parties does help.

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