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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 10:02:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty
First off I have strong views on AB and littles {bites tougue}, yet, I think its funny how those on here think that colouring in a colour book, watching Disney movies, using products made for children, etc, consider those things to be part of AB or being a little. I do that stuff an I am NOT way near being an AB.

*shrug* I think it's funny how people think wearing collars has anything to do with being part of slavery.

It's not about what you DO, it's about the intent and how it makes you FEEL.  Putting on a satin formal ball gown provokes a feeling inside me which would be far less likely in jeans and a tshirt.  I'm still the same person, and it's not impossible for me to feel the same wearing different clothes, but the external trappings enhance the experience I want to have in that moment for myself.

Now, the feelings that I have wearing a satin formal ball gown might be completely different from what you feel when you wear a satin formal ball gown.  The doesn't mean the "satin formal ball gown" is what makes the feeling what it is or is not, it just means it's one possibility to employ or not as you desire.

As always, do what works for you, leave the rest.

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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 12:50:13 PM   
chellekitty


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Status: offline 		before i answer my questions i have to point out, for those of ya'll who have not seen me mention that i have DID (formerly mpd),  which means when i refer to my littles i am actually talking about alters (other personalities) that have the mental age of a child...i have a 4 and an 8 year old...neither of them are allowed out while doing anything sexual or bdsm related...or durring horror movies or while i am reading romance novels or smoking a cigarette...thats adult stuff...
that being said....answering my questions in order
there are crayons and coloring books and disney and pixar movies and stuffed animals and bubbles all over my house cause when they come out thats what they want to do, so i have age appropriate things to do for them available...
one of my house hold members has multiples too and she has one little the other house member who has multiples had her little "go home" or integrate around christmas (her UMs are very sad that shes gone)...
and my littles interact with her UMs because they understand and will even take care of my 4 year old if there are no other adult bodies in the room...they are really the only ones i am around on a regular basis...
i don't allow my 4 year old out when there are men outside our leather family around...this includes our bio father and our brother...the 8 year old is pretty good about letting people know shes out and only comes out when appropriate people are around....
anywho...i am tired now...suddenly hit a wall so i'm gonna quit while i can
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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 12:52:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		You're equating ageplay with pedohlia. Pedo and ap are NOT in anyway the same, for most people. Now true there's some people who use it to mask desires of pedophilia, but most do not.
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edited to add i would much rather see two consenting adults age play than have someone acting out His/Her fantasies with a UM. So i say to each Hhis/Hher own and live and let live!


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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 1:01:47 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		See, I consider myself an inner child of two, And I don't come out or go away. I might feel less child like than other times, or sometimes I am very fussy and tired, and I act younger than 2, being all clingy and needy, but it's not an aspect of me I can put away or take out when apropriate. It's just me, who I am a part of me. If I am regressed, I am regressed, I can make attempts not to act to badly, like in Kraigens Daddy says don't touch and I try, but I get bored and quickly forget or find something neat an wanna touch everything neat.
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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

i have a 4 and an 8 year old...neither of them are allowed out while doing anything sexual or bdsm related...or durring horror movies or while i am reading romance novels or smoking a cigarette...thats adult stuff...

i don't allow my 4 year old out when there are men outside our leather family around...this includes our bio father and our brother...the 8 year old is pretty good about letting people know shes out and only comes out when appropriate people are around....
chelle
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< Message edited by FelinePersuasion -- 5/31/2007 1:02:55 PM >

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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 2:18:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

before i answer my questions i have to point out, for those of ya'll who have not seen me mention that i have DID (formerly mpd),  which means when i refer to my littles i am actually talking about alters (other personalities) that have the mental age of a child...i have a 4 and an 8 year old...neither of them are allowed out while doing anything sexual or bdsm related...or durring horror movies or while i am reading romance novels or smoking a cigarette...thats adult stuff...
that being said....answering my questions in order
there are crayons and coloring books and disney and pixar movies and stuffed animals and bubbles all over my house cause when they come out thats what they want to do, so i have age appropriate things to do for them available...
one of my house hold members has multiples too and she has one little the other house member who has multiples had her little "go home" or integrate around christmas (her UMs are very sad that shes gone)...
and my littles interact with her UMs because they understand and will even take care of my 4 year old if there are no other adult bodies in the room...they are really the only ones i am around on a regular basis...
i don't allow my 4 year old out when there are men outside our leather family around...this includes our bio father and our brother...the 8 year old is pretty good about letting people know shes out and only comes out when appropriate people are around....
anywho...i am tired now...suddenly hit a wall so i'm gonna quit while i can
chelle
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that makes it  a WHOLE nother ball game.  yep, i have two dear friends who are diagnosed with MPD, and it can be a train wreck at times.    having alters/internal "littles" who need nurturing and care is not the same thing at all as an adult who desires to retreat into that child-like state every once in a while.

me?  i am Daddy's lil girl, although i normally refer to him as Sir.  i still have stuffed animals on the bed, at the moment its two bears and a rabbit.  sitting here in the computer room there are 5 small stuffed animals AND a blankie.  i own a bunch of disney movies, and i regularly haul out my coloring books, even banned my own yardapes from messing with my crayons!  (granted, the yardapes are now 24 and 13, but you get the idea)

kitten, who isnt above asking to sit on Daddy's lap, he describes me as an adult swirled with child, and loves the way i go back and forth at any given moment.

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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 3:04:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		At my old club in Ct there was a good size group of adult littles...they had fun meeting together.

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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 3:48:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am not an adult little, bit since I have a Daddy Dom, people will generally assume that we engage in age play. But, I have been pleasantly surprised by all of the encouraging things that people will say, even off-handedly. "You know, we don't mind if you color.", or "Don't be embarrassed to bring a pacifier or bottle." When someone says something like that it just seems so thoughtful and welcoming.
 
He calls me little girl, but I've never needed that space that adult littles seem to thrive in. But, acceptance has come a long way in just a few short years. I remember, not so long ago, that I went to a party where age-players were not welcome as littles...not the case at this annual party anymore. It seems to be becoming more mainstream D/s...whatever that means.

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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 4:23:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		i'm not an age-player/role-player, nor am i an adult little(because i don't regress into a frame of mind that i'm not aware of ), so perhaps you don't feel my response is worth while, but i will say this: the day i stop acting like a kid; swinging from rope swings and beating on my chest like tarzan; enjoy calling my partner daddy, and stop having fun like a child in general, is the day i hope i'm dead!

as for the little people that i know and interact with, they wish their parents were as much fun as me; it doesn't interfere with my day to day life and business matters no matter how i act or dress. i am myself, woman/child, 100% of the time, and people have come to expect me to be a little different

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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 7:01:34 PM   
subsnow


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Status: offline 		i just have to say, i love this thread. Everytime i think of, interact with, or talk about ABs or littles, i get a warm fuzzy feeling inside. It's so nice. i really want to go to a place where i can be my "little" self with others.

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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 7:05:47 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty

First off I have strong views on AB and littles {bites tougue}, yet, I think its funny how those on here think that colouring in a colour book, watching Disney movies, using products made for children, etc, consider those things to be part of AB or being a little. I do that stuff an I am NOT way near being an AB.


It's not the activity, it's the mindset that accompanies it.  We might do some of the same things, but we do them for different reasons.

And I just wanted to add that as a few others have mentioned, I find my so-called 'little' is very integrated in my day to day self/life.  I'm always like that to varying degrees.  It's just a matter of how much I have to give the reins to my inner adult in order to function in a particular setting.  And like you, FelinePersuasion, if I'm very tired or don't feel well...fuhgeddaboutit!  It's very difficult not to be a total clingy 4yr old then if there's any chance of getting away with it! lol

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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 7:24:14 PM   
Elorin


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Status: offline 		hey chelle...didn't know you were DID.

Personally, I am not but I do engage in pretty strong persona play from time to time and my 5 year old internal lil girl has a lot of fun.

When Sir wants to encourage me, he calls me by the name I chose for that persona (Marie), he calls me baby, he says silly things to me, and he buys me little girl type things like cotton candy, popcorn, anything pink, anything mirabou, tiaras, or princess wands. Most of the time Sir lets me do the guiding and will allow me to indicate when I'm ready for age play, though.

When I am feeling ageplayish my voice gets "younger", my grammar slips, I call Sir Daddy almost exclusively, my eyes tend to widen a lot more, and I cuddle my stuffed animals a lot more. When a good friend showed me her My Little Pony collection I went straight into little girl mode recently, and Daddy rolled his eyes and said yes, I can buy more ponies. ~grinnin~

Things I love to do as Princess Marie (Little Girl Top) include carnivals, eating popcorn, snuggling my daddy, cuddling my stuffies, eating cotton candy, playing games, playing my little pony, having my hair brushed and braided by my daddy, eating kettle corn, eating caramel apples, playing with my kitties, oooohing over new puppies or kittens, looking at pink or sparkly or pink sparkly things with my daddy, dressing up, and sometimes coloring too.

I have known and worked extensively with two people who I truly believe had DID, and have known a number of people who did age play.

I don't actually go into my persona with my daughter. Part of my persona has to do with letting Daddy be in charge and be in control, and when I'm parenting I am the one who is in control. I don't let my guard down like that when I'm caring for my daughter.

I'm sure M can think of funny stories, but they don't come to my mind just now.

~E


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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 8:09:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		One time I was so tired and my feet hurt,  we'd walked all over the mall, and he's like I want to check this book store out And Daddy wasn't ready to go home yet and I was dead tired at end of my rope,  I started crying and fussing  flailing, and kind of not stomping but shifting left to right ot left again right in the book store, which tells you how damn tired I had to be, as I love book stores. We got in the car, and I was just so tired and so wore out I started crying, because I wanted my stuffed stegosaur spike, but spike was at home, I'd wail Daddy I waaaaaaaaaaaant spiiiiiiiiiiiiike I want spike, and he's like Iknow baby but spikes at home honey, and we'll get you home to him soon I prommise, and I'd just whimper spike,  I want spike and I am ti ti

And one time my mom* not ageplay* brought home orange chicken in stead of sweet and sour, and orange chicken burns my toung, and I come back to my room in tears, and Daddy wants to know why and I sob out mommie got orange chicken and it's to spicy and I can't eat it, and it's the only thing besides chow meign. Daddy took me back to bed and laid with me an let me cry, gave me our stuffed puppyd oggie, and then we ate the orange chicken anyway, but daddy was so sweet and offered to run out and get me sweet n sour instead, and I said no daddy, I'll just put up with the orange chicken.
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ORIGINAL: mythi

And like you, FelinePersuasion, if I'm very tired or don't feel well...fuhgeddaboutit!  It's very difficult not to be a total clingy 4yr old then if there's any chance of getting away with it! lol


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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 8:10:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		While I am not an AB by anymeans. I do have a little, and she confuses me because she cant deside what age she wants to be as how little I feel depends entirely on my emotional state. Master does do the daddy thing he is good at it. We even actually have a different name for my little it was an easier way for Master and me to communicate eachothers needs about this type of interaction, all I have to say is "Charollette wants to come out and play" and then he knows Im feeling little and can deiside weather or not she can come out and play, he has never told me no on that, though he has said things like "can Charollette wait an hour" it is easer for him and me to controll that part of me better if we treat her somewhat like she is a totaly different person. And in many ways she is. When I am in little head space when I am Daddys lil girl I am very different from the way I act when I am Masters slave. It helps me a lot when im really stressing as well. I am very pretective of my little I didnt even introduce her to Master untill I had already been his collard  slave for over 6 or 7 months though he did know I had a little side to me. As even more protection we had an entire discussion as to weather Master was going to be Daddy as well it was a bit transition for us to add that dimention on to our relationship.

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RE: adult littles? - 5/31/2007 9:45:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

i was wondering how many other adult littles there are out there? what do you (and possibly your partner) do to encourage the little part of yourself? do you know others in real life with littles? do your littles interact with your UMs? how do you protect your littles? any funny stories your littles would kick you in the shins for telling?

i will answer my questions later...

oh and my deffinition of a little - a part of your personality or a role that you play that has traits or acts like like a child after you turn 18

chelle
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The interaction between Mommies and adult littles is quite endearing.

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RE: adult littles? - 6/1/2007 5:53:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		Interesting thread. I have never thought of the word "littles" but I like it. I call myself a little gurl and my inner persona is 5. *holds hand up with ALL five fingers displayed* In the beginning Daddy thought for me to be a little gurl I would need little gurl stuff. He made me a lovely little room that was all pink and I had coloring books, stuffed animals, and bubbles among my goodies. But, over time those aren't what make me five. It's attitude and what is happening at the moment. I find my five year old comes out really strong when were having coffee at Starbucks with our two good friends. One of them is a boi, who has a persona of a 12 year old boy. He is like my big brother and we have fun getting in trouble.

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RE: adult littles? - 6/1/2007 6:10:46 AM   
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Using a colouring book is relaxing, its a way to get my creative energy out when I can't get my writing brain working. Products made for children don't [normally] irritate my skin, I have extreamly sensative skin {my seatbelt gives me an allergic reaction, so I have to be carefull}, and children's products don't usually cause my reactions to act up. Also, I am a single mother, so having children's stuff around all the time is normal


It's all in the way you use it, though... handcuffs are a common symbol of BDSM interest, but police have them too... you shouldn't take it too personally, won't do you any good.

That being said, there are also people who are "young at heart" without having a "little" persona... my wife loves stuffed animals and all that is cute. Between my toy cars and her plushies, anyone who came to our house would immediately assume that we have at least one UM, but it's just us... and age-play never comes into it (kinda squicks me, actually).

She recently discovered the "Tot" toys that are being put out by the Sonic fast-food chain, and we had to go on a quest for them... when my mother-in-law was out searching with us, she had to lie and say it was for her grand-daughter

...dave

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