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naughtynick81 -> RE: Bi sexual women (5/31/2007 2:41:49 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen
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ORIGINAL: naughtynick81
I am after any woman who is straight or bi.
Perhaps this might be an interesting snip to focus on Nick. Please dont think I'm getting at you over it, as its not anything peculiar to you by any means, but rather a widespread notion amongst the male population.
There's an old feminist slogan that runs something like "women are people too". Now, thats easy to say and easy to read and understand I know, and easy enough to repeat. But truly comprehending that simple phrase is something that I find guys genuinely seem to have a problem with. Perhaps it was unintended, but the way you wrote the snip above, indicates that you fall into the majority of males to my mind, who do not comprehend it. I'll be honest - it was only when I transitioned that I comprehended it fully.
What it amounts to, is that a woman is not a life support system for boobs and a vagina. She does not exist as an accessory to the life of a man, and neither is she a baby making machine to provide heirs. She is a full person in her own right, in exactly the same way as you might regard other men, except that this person is female, and is just as autonomous and entitled to respect as an individual rather than as one amongst many. Every woman is different, just like every man; she has her own likes and dislikes and preferences, her own interests and abilities and ambitions, her own character and behaviours.
What this means is, that when you say you are looking for "any woman", it indicates to women that you do not value them as people at all, and that doesnt inspire their interest very much I'm afraid.
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Yes women are people to but what women don't understand is that men think different about sex than women, we are wired different, we approach sex different, we need sex more than women. Its' in our instinct to constantly seek the next root. Why should a male be shamed just because of his instinct? He was born with it. It's just like shaming a black person for being black and having his or her ways for being that race. But I know that most women will refuse to understand what I just said so its pretty much useless.
One of the main reasons why a male is more open to have sex with most women and not just some is because a male does not get sex as easy as a woman can. A woman can get it in the click of a finger while a male can only wish for that. Most women get what most men can only wish for. A male appreciates what option he can get because his options are limited. As for a woman, her options can be pretty much unlimited and it makes her more picky. She can reject anyone she wants.
What you are trying to say is that males are not seeing women as people, but the way I see it is that males appreciate 2nd, 3rd , 4th best and so on while a woman will only appreciate 1st place.
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