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sarbonn -> RE: Male Inferiority (5/30/2005 9:40:40 PM)
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However, when it's time for me to "be femdom" (whether it be for 10 minutes or 2 days over a weekend -- although most of the times is an hour or two or three) -- then it's *all about me*. In that context, I'm putting my needs above his, and he understands that, but he knows he is not going to be neglected.
Outside of that time, I spoil my partner rotten.
For some, specifically me, the previous sentence is how to spoil me rotten (not outside of the time).
I always find male inferiority and female supremacy very interesting topics because I'm on the record as being a strong advocate of both activities, yet quite often I'm addressed from extremist viewpoints and then forced into conversations where I have to defend absolutes that I have never spoke about.
For me, what Akasha describes here, and what she has described many, many times in the past (not necessarily just here in this set of boards, but over a period of a number of years where I have followed the evolution of her commentaries) is exactly what I have always found to be something I would seek. Unfortunately, I've never really been able to achieve the type of activity that she indulges in, but at least I can take some comfort in knowing that someone down the line has benefited from the types of activities that she purports as the type in which she partakes. And that, in itself, is pretty cool.
I have been a member of a number of organizations and groups that advocate really extremist, dogmatic viewpoints in the concept of female supremacy and superiority, and being someone who has bought into this lifestyle from that perspective, it is somewhat of a humorous observation that most often when one tries to achieve such a status within greater group communities, such activities tend to usually fail. I was once a member of a commune type of group that put forth the belief of female supremacy where males were treated on multiple submissive levels, but the group fell apart because the women in charge began bickering amongst themselves until they gutted the group and splintered it into about ten other groups that all died their own silent deaths. I have been involved with women who have claimed to be female supremacists, and it sounded great until the relationship actually became serious and then they revealed they were really good at talking about it, but weren't actually all that interested in pursuing it for long term reality. Other times, it has sounded so great, only for one to finally realize that you were turning yourself over to a toxic individual who could talk the talk and play very well until it became serious, and then suddenly the toxicity started to rise up in levels.
For me, I don't feel I'm inferior in any way. But in a one on one relationship, I feel more comfortable in becoming the inferior in the power struggle, which quite often is misinterpreted by the one wayism that exists in this area of the demographic. I place women on a higher level than myself, but only the women to whom I feel out and believe I would be comfortable being in an inferior position to them for a long term relationship.
Quite often, someone from my perspective is interpreted by one wayists (who make great critics more than great participators) as weak, boring and too easy in a relationship. We're treated this way because it is easier to make this claim without actually ever involving oneself in what we actually are. I have a great sense of humor, a wonderful personality, and I can sometimes be a very hard slave to completely tame to a particular woman's directive. But once that struggle has been broken through, I make a great slave because I take great pleasure in pursuing the pleasure of the woman who has enslaved me. People like me are vibrant, strong personalities that completely participate with 100 percent energy, yet those who know nothing about us tend to think we're doormats because they know nothing about us and it's so much easier to stereotype a group of individuals than to actually get to know them.
I have always been a fan of Akasha's way of thinking, even if she tends to criticize me almost every time I post. One day, I hope to find someone like her as both ends of that bridge have been burned down a very long time ago.
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