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Copulo -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/1/2007 2:43:43 PM)
Like Thetammyjo I don’t consider anything un consensual BDSM so its not worth a mention. Scat, diapers, adult school kids, brats, sex with male subs unless of course its me doing it to them with a strap-on!

slaveboyforyou -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/1/2007 3:23:25 PM)
As far as hard limits go....Anything involving bodily waste, so I have no interest in being a toilet or being pee'd on. I just find that disgusting. I don't have an interest in cross-dressing. I don't think I would make a very attractive woman, and I wouldn't be able to stop laughing if I were doing it. I have no interest in adult baby play; as with cross-dressing, I couldn't take it seriously. Needles and being cut also hold no interest for me either. I just find that type of play to be dangerous. Many dominants tell me that they use sterile needles and know what they are doing. However, I doubt if their play room or dungeon is as sterile as a doctor's offfice or hospital. I don't mind knives as props, but I will not participate in being cut. I also don't have an interest in extreme breath play. I don't mind a hand covering my mouth and nose briefly, or slight pressure by a hand on my throat. But I don't want to be strangled or participate in play involving plastic bags and the like. I have just heard to many horror stories where that type of play has ended badly. I have no interest in sexual activity with other men. I'm not a homophobe, but I am straight and I am not ever going to find other men to be attractive sexually. I also don't bottom or submit to other males. I have nothing against dominant males, and I am respectful and polite to everyone within reason. But I do not subscribe to the practice of being submissive to everyone that chooses the top/dominant role. I shouldn't have to add this, but I will. I would never participate directly or indirectly in anything involving the exploitation of minors, animals, people that are unable to make adult decisions (ie. mentally disabled persons), and non-consenting people (ie. rape, kidnapping, etc.). If someone approaches me asking about those types of activities, they run the risk of me beating the hell out of them and reporting them to the authorities.

MissBetty -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/1/2007 3:34:07 PM)
I agree with you (and love the pics) Copulo! Although I would personally add to that sissification... I am bi, so if I want a girl I will get a girl. Just my personal preferences.

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/1/2007 3:35:42 PM)
quote: I have what I call the 3D rule, no death, dogs, or diapers. that leaves out dead dogs in diapers, huh? LOL

Vendaval -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/1/2007 4:01:42 PM)
Suffocating or "breath play", animals or underage, dead, any form of bodily waste. I have cleaned up after too many critters and unmentionables to find anything remotely erotic about pee and poo.

petdave -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/1/2007 5:59:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyDominaX I have what I call the 3D rule, no death, dogs, or diapers. I have no interest at all in scat, age play, necrophilia or bestiality. i read somewhere about the "4 C's Rule": No children, critters, corpses, or ca-ca [:D] quote: Edited for typos. Need more caffeine. [:D] Caffeine deprivation?? Safeword! Safeword!

DianeB269 -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/1/2007 6:11:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Copulo Scat, diapers, adult school kids, brats, sex with male subs unless of course its me doing it to them with a strap-on! Same to all the above................Plus pets, needles, blood and fire play... Diane

FelinePersuasion -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/1/2007 6:17:28 PM)
Well see now, here's the thing. Most of bdsm is against the law, spanking whipping flogging could get you charged with domestic abuse, no matter if the person consents or not, if it's reported police have to take action. even if it's just filing a report. Sodomy, in some places is against the rules, so to say nothing that would get you in trouble with the law is rather vauge, and in a litteral sence would rule out just about most everything. Ast o who thinks what's unsafe, who cares. If you and a partner are being safe, and playing with in range of your abilities, why care less if most on collarme think. quote: wonder about the following....... quote: ORIGINAL: liks2plzlf Anything that would get me into serious trouble with the law. Anything that would be considered unsafe, by most of the posters on cm.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/1/2007 6:24:45 PM)
I don't do scat, poly, food play, such as food in the vagina or ass, high heels, public play in any non lifestyle venue, breaking the skin, bondage, bondage might change if I found it comfortable and it was on my terms, I don't do chest beating I am dom hear me roar personalities either. Don't do forced sex or blow jobs either. It'll my descion and my choice when I fuck or suck. And I don't do the whole you're not allowed to say no thing either. I don't do any one with std's, and I do not play any more with any body with menta; disorders, I've had my full share of people who're mentally messed up and should be or are on medications* no not retarded, but like chronic depression, suicide attempts, personality disorders* Mommy boys, or girls, people who still have to ask parental permission after 18, like oh I have to ask mom if you can come over for the night, unemployed, or not on some form of other, non illegal income, kind of hypocritical, since I live at home, but grown men who live with family, men who's said families try to run life or interfear with realtionship. Anybody who hates animals or hates kids, or hates charity work, because I am doing all 3 right now. I volunteer twice a week after school, and at animal control, and I do tons of other charitable work in my other time. No children don't need to be stated in my opinion, cause well my partners wouldn't want to fuck play with or expose kids to bdsm. It's just not an interest, plus I don't think kids are bdsm, I think it's just plain out abuse.

wewalkamongyu -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/1/2007 6:46:05 PM)
The standard Scat, animals. Plus needles. I am also really squicked when a sub calls her dom Daddy. That just gives me the wrong kind of chills. And it seems that half the women on collarme are using that term right now.

MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/1/2007 8:39:10 PM)
I used to have a long list of no-gos but it dwindled over the years. If your partner really loves a particular festish or play, his or her enthusiasm can rub off on you. Try it; you might like it Things I once feared (blood, breath, medical play) have become pleasurable. Fireplay and needleplay are forms of artistic expression. breathplay is a physical and mental challenge. I rightly was wary of trying them and asked pro-dommes to teach me how to do it. Things I once found a turn off have become a turn on (with the right person). Cross dressing is one example. Who would ever have thought I would ever find molesting my cross dressed french maid sexy, but I do!! Things that were once a great turn on (flogging, spanking, cages) have become a big YAWN. Our likes and dislikes evolve over time. My only real limit is the usual one: its no fun with an unwilling participant or person/thing unable to give informed consent

MsKatHouston -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/2/2007 8:14:46 AM)
Oh food play...I forgot about that one but that's a big no for me too. I love food. I love play. Ne'er the two shall meet.

LadyPact -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/2/2007 8:24:47 AM)
After reading some of the responses (and thank you all for the input), I realized there were a few things that were on My list that I skipped as well. I actually forgot to say no animals. Oh, heck no animals! (The four legged kind) <chuckle> I also forgot to say no diapers. Funny how We don't think of those things right off the bat.

TigressFL -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/2/2007 9:21:09 AM)
Good thread, LadyPact The following are my personal limits: 1. No minors – pedophilia – Should not be an option for anyone! 2. No animals –bestiality - Should not be an option for anyone! 3. No mentally challenged adults 4. No death - Should not be an option for anyone! 5. No castration, amputation or things that are intentional permanent damage (outside of a brand, tat or marks of that nature) - Should not be an option for anyone! 6. No necrophilia - Should not be an option for anyone! 7. No scat, toilet service, enemas or Infantilism 8. Breathe Play – The risks are to great. 9. Female, Race or any kind of Supremacy – Simply Idiotic and pathetic 10. Brats, SAM’s, princess attitude or any “gift” of submission (they can keep it to themselves) The following are things I am not interested in: 1. Sissy boys – It is all about them and if I want a girl I will get one. 2. Forced Fem 3. Forced Bi 4. Strap-on play with males (there have been a couple of exceptions but it is the exception rather than the rule) 5. Fisting a male 6. Golden showers 7. Flesh Hook suspension 8. Role-Play rape 9. Dilation 10.Suturing and cutting ------------------------------------------------------------ slaveboyforyou, The only room in a hospital or a doctor’s office that is even close to being sterile is an operating room. I suggest you do some research, as you will find that to be true. I went to the doctors yesterday and I got blood drawn. There was no way in hell the room was sterile and the nurse used one alcohol pad on my skin before putting the needle in to draw blood yet nothing afterwards. She took much less precautions then I do when I do needle play and I am not even trying to hit a vein as they are. Pay attention the next time you go and get blood drawn, ask them if the room is sterile. I think you will be surprised what you find.

MiladyElaine -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/2/2007 9:28:06 AM)
I have no interest in scat either or feminization (I would have to be VERY bored) or medical or electric except maybe a bug zapper or adult baby or the use of animals or knives or burning or spitting.

MsKatHouston -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/2/2007 9:38:22 AM)
Some of the things I won't do I don't even bother to list. I don't think they are BDSM so don't bother to even list them as if they could be acceptable for someone as a lifestyle choice. Some common sense goes a long way. Yes, I know...that uncommon thing called common sense. But if a potential partner doesn't have it, they have no business with me.

wewalkamongyu -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/2/2007 1:40:30 PM)
One other thing, Medical play. There is nothing sexy about a hospital to me.

slaveboyforyou -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/2/2007 4:33:56 PM)
Ms. Tigress, I see your point, and I'm sure that is the case with general rooms in doctor's offices. I don't exactly have a needle phobia; it never bothers me to give blood or get injections. But, I do have apprehensions about needle play, tattoo parlours, piercers, etc. I imagine it is a deep seated trust of medical professionals and a prejudicial mistrust of those that I mentioned. I know that most people that engage in needle play; along with tattoo artists and professional piercers are probably safe and mindful of the risk of infection. However my fear of cntracting hepatitus, HIV, etc still lurks in the back of my mind when I think of these activities. It's certainly not a condemnation of folks that enjoy those activities.

WyckedMystress -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/2/2007 4:41:36 PM)
Mine would have to be blood, animals, age play, scat and cross dressing/feminisation WyckedMystress

hereyesruponyou -> RE: What's not your thing? (6/2/2007 5:33:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TigressFL The following are my personal limits: 1. No minors – pedophilia – Should not be an option for anyone! 2. No animals –bestiality - Should not be an option for anyone! 3. No mentally challenged adults 4. No death - Should not be an option for anyone! 5. No castration, amputation or things that are intentional permanent damage (outside of a brand, tat or marks of that nature) - Should not be an option for anyone! 6. No necrophilia - Should not be an option for anyone! 7. No scat, toilet service - Do not tell me this is safe, i won't ever believe that 8. Breathe Play – The risks are to great. Stealing your list mostly Tigress because i am too tired to retype. These are limits, which i didn't think this thread was about....but it's gone there so ok. As for things that are bdsm that are just not a turn on to me personally but that i have no problem with others doing: Any age play, but especially Adult babies, bottles, diapers. Just not a turn on Humiliation - a little of the kind that happens during any play may be ok, but i am never going to be someone who goes out of my way to embarrass and make someone feel bad about themselves. Feminization as ritual or full time thing. Maybe for fun sometime, but to do it all the time, just not a turn on. Forced anything if it is really forced. Yes, i can tell you that you MUST do _____ and you will be a good sub/slave and do it, but i find you will not do it well, you will not enjoy it and therefore neither will I. Micromanagement - yeah, my thought is you're supposed to make my life easier, not make more work for me to have to keep track of exactly what you are doing all the time and keep you on task. Anything medical. just find it boring and not a turn on....

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