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strapon sex - 6/2/2007 9:07:45 AM   
ohiomalestraponl


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Status: offline 		How many mistresses out there find men that are straight and would never want anything up there ass like your strapon use strapon sex on them as a way to punish them?
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RE: strapon sex - 6/2/2007 9:19:14 AM   
stef


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RE: strapon sex - 6/2/2007 9:24:09 AM   
HeavansKeeper


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Status: offline 		As I understand it, his wants are nothing more than a footnote to what she feels is right.  Anal stimulation can be very exciting.  Many men are fearful about admitting it, but they can enjoy it.  Even if they hate the acts, they could be wonderfullu aroused by the humiliation. Nothing like "You like taking my cock in your ass, you pathetic fag." to get your homophobic submissive on the ropes.

If it's a hard limit for him, then that's a question of ethics, where doing it should be avoided, working with the idea to make it tolerable is ideal.  That's a whole other bag of cats.

I'm sure that a good submissive male would take the pain, pleasure, and possible humiliation if Mistress told him too.  Personally, I think it would only be fair to use something his size.  No fair going with The Great American Challenge.
http://www.pleasuremenow.com/productimages/great_american_challenge_LG.jpg

But then again, that's not his choice.

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RE: strapon sex - 6/2/2007 9:35:14 AM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		I don't use limits as punishment.  If it is not a limit, I do it because I enjoy it, not as punishment.  Every man I have done it with, even those who claim not to like it, always have.  If done right it can be extremely pleasurable to a man.  Anal sex with a man has nothing twhatsoever to do with being straight.

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RE: strapon sex - 6/2/2007 10:08:41 AM   
AAkasha


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ohiomalestraponl

How many mistresses out there find men that are straight and would never want anything up there ass like your strapon use strapon sex on them as a way to punish them?


I've never used it as punishment, but I have used it to humiliate a guy.

Akasha


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RE: strapon sex - 6/2/2007 10:54:10 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I would never use a strapon as punishment, nor any other hard limit. Strapon sex is to be enjoyed on some level by both partners and that is what makes it hot at least to me.

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RE: strapon sex - 6/2/2007 9:07:22 PM   
LadyDominaX


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Status: offline 		The only punishment I use is removal from my presence.
If a slave pleases me, I will continue to use them as I see fit. If they do not, they are not worth my time and effort.

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RE: strapon sex - 6/2/2007 9:36:35 PM   
pixelslave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HeavansKeeper
I'm sure that a good submissive male would take the pain, pleasure, and possible humiliation if Mistress told him too. 


It's my opinion that anal play should never be painful, and there's absolutely no reason it has to be!   Strap-on play between a Mistress and her sub can be an incredibly intimate form of sharing that can also be very pleasurable for both!  
 
The thought that it would be used as a form of punishment greatly disturbs me as in my mind, it would be akin to rape.   
 
To me, that is abuse of one's submissive, but that's just my opinion as I'm sure there are those here that would disagree.
 
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RE: strapon sex - 6/3/2007 4:33:55 AM   
Politesub53


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Status: offline 		i would think anything painful, thats to say forceful, to large or not enugh lube, could cause harmeful tears. i see that more as stupidity than anything else. For me to indulge in anal play i would have to know the Domme involved knows exactly what She is doing.
The idea of any play as punishment varies from person to person. Something that a submissive hates would indeed be seen as punishment, so i guess it all depends on the couple involved. i was told i wold never get spanked as punishment as i like it too much.

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RE: strapon sex - 6/3/2007 5:47:37 AM   
LaMistressa


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Status: offline 		Strap on play isn't punishment, lack of strap-on play is. 

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RE: strapon sex - 6/3/2007 5:49:51 AM   
MsSonnetMarwood


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Status: offline 		We have had a rash of "how many mistresses like activity xyz" posts lately, haven't we?

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RE: strapon sex - 6/3/2007 5:54:30 AM   
LaMistressa


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Status: offline 		Yep, maybe it's something in the water. I'm looking forward to the "what about strap-ons as punishment while wearing vinyl clothing and painting your toenails" question in the near future. 

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RE: strapon sex - 6/3/2007 6:10:33 AM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		love strapon sex   love bending over for a woman wearing a strapon ...i think they look very sexy wearing one ...my mistress does this too me now at least 2 times a week   and after she has said hello to my ass with her strapons ..love the 10 in one the best   out goes the strapon and in goes her fist   she has trained my ass well and i love when she takes me ..my ass and everything i have is hers to play with whenever she sees fit to do so ..love a woman in control   have fun and enjoy ..mal

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RE: strapon sex - 6/3/2007 6:16:36 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Yes, there have been a number of activities asked about recently.  Check the anti thread.
 
I don't see strapon play as a version of punishment.  If I'm enjoying it, exactly how is he being punished?  He's serving Me and that can be it's own reward.  Oh, and just a quick biology lesson....  The nerve endings in the anus are the same on men and women.  Pleasuring those nerve endings doesn't change depending on gender.

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RE: strapon sex - 6/3/2007 6:52:28 AM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		Strapon sex is not a form of punishment. It's my way of letting a male know
that I'm in charge.
Whem I'm doing a male in the ass with a strapon, bigger is better!!!!!!!


Diane

< Message edited by DianeB269 -- 6/3/2007 7:00:38 AM >

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RE: strapon sex - 6/3/2007 7:24:19 AM   
OrangeJulius


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Yes, there have been a number of activities asked about recently.  Check the anti thread.
 
I don't see strapon play as a version of punishment.  If I'm enjoying it, exactly how is he being punished?  He's serving Me and that can be it's own reward.  Oh, and just a quick biology lesson....  The nerve endings in the anus are the same on men and women.  Pleasuring those nerve endings doesn't change depending on gender.


Yeah, but guys have prostate glands, and women don't, so I think it would feel different depending on your gender.

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RE: strapon sex - 6/3/2007 7:24:54 AM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		A real sub would just shutup, bend over and take it like a man.


Diane

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RE: strapon sex - 6/3/2007 7:26:46 AM   
chiaThePet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Strapon sex is not a form of punishment. It's my way of letting a male know
that I'm in charge.
Whem I'm doing a male in the ass with a strapon, bigger is better!!!!!!!


Diane


Diane! There You are You little Minx! Have missed You so.

No "hard" feelings i hope.

i do have to agree with most here, that if it all ends up being a pleasurable
experience, it can hardly be defined as discipline or punishment. Of course
as Dear Diane points out, bigger may indeed alter the scheme of things,
stretching a boy's devotion beyond even that which he might consider
a fun time. If the application ventures into a painful presentation, then
discipline or punishment may indeed be the thrust of the purpose.

ch ch ch chia* (the pet)

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RE: strapon sex - 6/3/2007 11:44:35 PM   
Red82


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quote:

Strap on play isn't punishment, lack of strap-on play is. 


HA! Love It!

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RE: strapon sex - 6/4/2007 2:17:14 AM   
Cuckme4Life


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Status: offline 		on my way to  DianeB269s!!!!!

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