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milkmaid42dd -> RE: Busty slaves/subs (6/2/2007 10:02:43 AM)
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I do understand what you are saying here, but for me it occurs a little bit differently; frequently no matter WHAT the guy claims he's really into (breasts, going down on you), all they really are interested in is the fucking or being sucked. Those are the 2 biggies, and anything else is just to get the girl amenable enough so she'll "do" him.
For me, I have very sensitive breasts, it is *definitely* my erotic zone. In fact, it's my major erotic zone, and most guys (yes, even the self-proclaimed "breast" men), don't spend nearly enough time there to get my fires lit (provided they even care, which mostly they don't). So for me, finding a REAL "breast man" is imperative, even mandatory. I'm sick to death of not having MY needs met, and yet expected to have "cum" to stoke a guy's ego. Sorry, maybe I've just had back luck. But I AM looking for a man with a real obsession... because that's the only way I'll finally get the breast attention that I absolutely adooooooooooooooore *yesss!* and that is also essential for me to be able to be really turned on, and become putty in his hands <laugh>
Is it that alone the basis for a relationship? of course not. I want him to care about the rest of me, too, inside AND out. And vice versa, of course :) But it must be the starting point... because if I am not *enjoying* sex (which I do NOT if the man is not absolutely crazy for my breasts), then the relationship just is not going to work in the long-run.
Oh... you know all those guys whose wives don't like sex??? Well, it's MY personal opnion that about 95% of those wives don't like sex because the MAN never either knew, or cared, what it was SHE liked and needed, and she got tired of being a hole (or 2 or 3) for him to fill. And 10 or 20 years later, he's all over the Internet or in the bars looking for no-strings sex because his wife is "frigid" or "doesn't like sex" or otherwise somehow fulfilling HIS needs, because she got tired of just feeling used. And yes, I've been there! And it is NOT happening again.... give me a BREAST MAN and I guarantee he'll never be trolling because he doesn't get any at home! (of course, he may be trolling for a pain slut, because I don't do that, but he's welcome to do so... heck, I'll even help him find her if it'll save MY backside! ROFL!)
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
Unfortunately I've only had bad experience with breast fetishists. Basically, no matter what they say, when they get them in front of their faces, I suddenly become not much more than a body to hold some hot breasts for them.
There's some enjoyment of objectification in there, but like most men who say they love going down on a woman but it really means they are willing to do it for two minutes and then want to move on- I have found that most men who say they are really into breasts, simply mean they want to touch them and obsess over them without really thinking much about the woman they are attached to.
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