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LadyHeart -> RE: Just asks the question but doesn't expect any answers (6/25/2007 7:09:07 PM)
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Here's a little scenario to ponder. A man is bored with his marriage. He doesn't really want to leave his marriage, but he would love to talk to another woman, to get a bit of interest and excitement in his life and feed his parched ego. But he doesn't want to be found out, so it needs to be on his terms - someone who will be waiting when he wants them, never criticises him (or can be put in her place when she tries it) and will do some of the sexual things his wife won't even talk about. Where could he find such a fantasy person? As luck would have it, while he is surfing the net one night, he stumbles into a site called "ChainMe" or some such, and clicks on the Chatrooms link. He wanders into a world he's never heard of before, where women do all the things he's only dreamed of. His first few attempts at "Kneel down before me and worship me!" meet with derision, but he reads a bit more, gets a bit better at it, and before long, he has the woman of his dreams at the other end of his web cam. And when her attraction fades, or it's all getting a bit intense, well there are plenty more fish in that particular pool...
Does it sound familiar? Who WOULDN'T try it, if it appears to be exactly what the other person wants too. Self justification is something most people are good at. It's not surprising that it happens. What is surprising is that it doesn't happen more.
Hugs to all those who have been drawn into his fantasy. We've all been down that rabbit hole a time or two, with a few variations.
:))
LH
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