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Friend server - 6/3/2007 10:53:16 AM

pantages

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Recently i've been "loaned" out to several friends of my Owner. She says i need some diversity in training. While i perform the usual services like maid and oral for these Women, it does become a bit confusing to know just who to obey.So i end up being punished more than usual. and one Woman likes to use electrial stuff on me.

Is it commong for Domme's to loan out a sub or slave?

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RE: Friend server - 6/3/2007 11:13:15 AM

Politesub53

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Hi pantages..... i have no idea how common it is, but i would think that if you have agreed for your Domme to loan you out, then you should accept what Her friends want to do.
Im thinking your Domme would have told Her friends how far they may go, and maybe even told You what lines cant be crossed.
If you are really confused by all thats happening you need to explain how you feel to Her.

Edited as i was confused when spelling confused.

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RE: Friend server - 6/3/2007 1:13:14 PM

chiaThePet

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ORIGINAL: pantages

While i perform the usual services like oral for these Women

Hey pantages, i'm in serious consideration of the poly lifestyle, i can "sub"
for you when you get all tired and stuff.

Seriously though bro, a relationship will allow what it allows, and the relationship
is the combination of two individuals. You are not a prisoner here, you are a
submissive, thus you are just as much responsible for your happiness as is
your Domme. i'm not sure if you are complaining or simply asking if this is
common. If there is complaint in your concerns, speak with your Domme,
sharing all your feelings and emotions about how such requirements make
you feel. If you are comfortable overall in your "Hazle" role, and are simply
asking if this is common, i have heard such to be true, but i still haven't won
the lottery yet myself.

ch ch ch chia* (the pet)

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RE: Friend server - 6/3/2007 1:37:56 PM

earthycouple

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There is a slim to none chance that I will loan out Robert. I am VERY picky about the health, safety and well being of my ward. I own him, he belongs to me and to send him somewhere is only asking for trouble.

The closest I may come is if the dominant is someone I know VERY well, I am present and Robert is being used as a bottom for some sort of demo and I am in control (read: if I say quit then the dominant quits).

There will be no cleaning of houses, no oral worship no nothing in which I am not right there and I am always the one in control so there is no issue of who is in charge.

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