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Sinergy -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/9/2007 3:14:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Level

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ORIGINAL: SirDominic


Nonreligious governments have had their share, of course, but they are pikers compared to religion.



I don't know about that...... add up the horrors done by Hitler, Pol Pot, Stalin, Mao, etc......


On the other hand, the ones you named were active after people started keeping score. 

Islam and Christianity and Hinduism and whatever have had several thousand years where nobody was adding up those wiped out.

Sinergy




Level -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/9/2007 3:42:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

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ORIGINAL: Level

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ORIGINAL: SirDominic


Nonreligious governments have had their share, of course, but they are pikers compared to religion.



I don't know about that...... add up the horrors done by Hitler, Pol Pot, Stalin, Mao, etc......


On the other hand, the ones you named were active after people started keeping score. 

Islam and Christianity and Hinduism and whatever have had several thousand years where nobody was adding up those wiped out.

Sinergy


True, but in those thousands of years were non-religous butchers, as well. [:D]




Sinergy -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/9/2007 7:27:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Level

True, but in those thousands of years were non-religous butchers, as well. [:D]



Not arguing.  Simply pointing out that the people posted, Hitler, Pol Pot, etc., were the greatest killers of humanity of all time, I was simply pointing out that lots of people have been killed since the dawn of man, but nobody was keeping score.

Sinergy




slavegirljoy -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/9/2007 9:48:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ObedientYYC

I have great respect for Christians and their values.  I just don't think that you can arrive at any kind of faith through a process of logic.   It has to just be pure faith.



my beliefs in God and in Jesus are based purely on FAITH.  The statement that you quoted was from a reply to the following post:

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ORIGINAL: HybridMoments

In regards to the whole quote on asking our "lord Jesus" for forgivness, I really dislike the whole deification of Jesus and find it questionable, and to a point distasteful  (Notice I say distasteful, not wrong) Would anyone explain it more to me?

This person asked for information.  i posted a response that i have read many times in many different places and have no idea who originally wrote it but, i thought that it might be something useful for this particular person's question.  Since they asked for more information, i thought this could give them something to think about.  It isn't anything that i need.  my faith is based on what i feel in my heart and i don't need anything more.  my faith isn't based on any logic or anything other than what i believe to be true.  Each person has to find their own path to what they believe in.
 
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slavegirljoy -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/9/2007 10:07:05 PM)

The Bible i use is the New King James Version, "Translated out of the Original Tongues and with Previous Translations Diligently Compared and Revised", published in 1977 by Thomas Nelson INC, Nashville, TN. 
 
What i stated about the Book of Revelation is taken from my Bible.  All the words in quotations are attributed to be direct quotes from Jesus.
 
Of course, there are many different translations and versions of the Bible and, in the end, each person decides for themself what they believe or doubt.  i have cited the Bible and quoted from my Bible in response to questions about Christian Domestic Discipline and to state what my beliefs are with regard to Christian Domestic Discipline for those who have questions about it.
 
slave joy
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ORIGINAL: Aswad

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ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy

The Book of Revelation was written by the apostle John.  It documents what Jesus revealed to John. 


The Apocalypse of John (ΑΠΟΚΑΛΥΨΙΣ ΙΩΑΝΝΟΥ) relates a vision that John had, which was supposedly given to him by an angel, sent by G*d. As such, it does not in any way document the life and teachings of Jesus, although it does claim that the vision sees him bear witness to what G*d is saying.

It appears that the first vision is little more than a message to the Turkish communities of Christians, specifically the churches in Epheseus, Smyrna, Pergamos, Thyatria, Sardis, Philadelphia and Laodicea; given that the Third Ecumenical Council took place in the church by Epheseus, it could well be that this is a warning to the churches that they are straying from the path (which historical evidence tends to bear out).

Either way, the book is fairly controversial, and several argued against including it in the canonical books of the New Testament. Of course, it has also been suggested, even by many Christians, that it may well have been a sign of mental illness, rather than divine inspiration.

If you wish to include the Revelations in the Bible, why do you not count the Apocalypse of Peter and the Gnostic Apocalypse of Peter, for instance?

Also, there have been serious contentions that John of Patmos, the author, may not be the apostle John.

If one is to include the apocalypses, one might as well include the Apocalypses of Abraham, Baruch, Daniel, Elijah, Ezra, Hezekiah, Mary, Paul, Peter (both versions), Thomas,  Sedrach, Stephen, Zephaniah, and so forth, along with the Assumption of Moses, the Gospel of Thomas, the Gospel of Mary, the Gospel of Iudas, the Gospel of Peter, the Book of Enoch, the Book of Noah, and more.

Or even start including the original sources from the Zoroastrian faiths...

In short: Inclusion of the Apocalypse of John of Patmos is entirely arbitrary, and it does not deal with the life or teachings of Jesus.

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This book was written by the apostle John when he was a captive on the island of Patmos


Been a while since I studied the revelations, but WP notes that he was exiled, not a captive.

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Christ says about this congregation: "[...]Jezebel, who calls herself a prophetess, to teach and seduce My servants to commit sexual immorality and eat things sacrificed to idols[...]"


Idolatry and adultery were among the three unforgivable "sins" of the Jewish faith, and Jesus was a Jew, let's not forget. It does, however, seem that he's taken on more of an Old Testament G*d personality if these are his words, for in life he was not as violent.

Or, of course, you could just view it in the straightforward manner: he's saying that she'll get STDs and die, which is a huge part of the reason for the sex-related laws in the Bible.

Eating the remains of sacrifices might not be too healthy, either.

In short, it could very well be seen as him saying: "this woman isn't a prophetess, but a madwoman, and she's messing herself up while leading others astray; this will kill her in the end, and probably her children, too, along with whoever is stupid enough to follow her. do something about it."

Note also that the idolatry could be the dawning practice of using the cross as a form of worship, in effect making the cross an idol. It may not have taken the same form as the modern cross, especially given that Jesus appears to have been crucified on a pole, and that the cross has been regarded as an intersection of the physical and spiritual worlds long before that time (the earliest I know of being the ),  and was featured in the Coptic churches.

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The gospels and the letters of the apostles were all written after Jesus' death.  They are written as firsthand accounts of what each saw during their time as a discipline of Christ and they quote what they heard Jesus say.  Jesus often taught using parables.


Indeed, Jesus often taught using parables.

And trying to read anything literal into parables is missing the point.

As for the gospels, they weren't writing them down along the way, so this is essentially the story of the part of his life that they find relevant, to the extent they are familiar with it, and going by memory alone. They are rather divergent, as you probably noticed.

One would also point out that one of the main themes of the Gospel of Mark- the first one recorded according to Brown, and the source for much of the other Gospels- has profound implications:

The disciples don't "get" it.

Given human history, I'm not surprised that the ones who didn't "get" the message are the ones who went on to shape mainstream perception of what the faith is about, and that they suppressed the views of those who did.





slavegirljoy -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/9/2007 10:42:17 PM)

For those of a christian bent....
 
That is the title of this particular forum.  i wonder why people who obviously do not have a Christian bent and some who have a very anti-Christian bent would even be interested in reading and participating in this discussion directed "For those of a christian bent.... "
 
As far as Christian Domestic Discipline is concerned (which was the topic of the OP in this forum and the reason for the title of this forum), its just a group that's there for one particular sector of society.  It isn't for everyone and it isn't trying to be.  It's just there for the people who do follow their beliefs.
 
i joined an online Christian Domestic Discipline group in 2002.  i was very interested in it because i am a Christian and i do believe in the principles that they support.  It fit for me.   No one within that group, that i knew of, ever said anything derogatory about people in kinky or BD/SM lifestyles.  They just didn't concern themselves with that and only addressed the issues within a Christian DD lifestyle.
 
Like i said before, Christian DD is about a lot more than simply a husband being able to spank his wife.  And, like i said before, there is nothing wrong with being a person who believes in Jesus and admits to being a sinner to also believe in the husband, as the Head of Household, to be the disciplinarian of his wife or even enjoy spanking his wife or being a wife who enjoys being spanked by her husband.  Some people don't think of spanking as being erotic or kinky or having anything to do with sex.  Its just a disciplinary tool.  But, for people who do find it erotic or kinky or sexy, that's fine too.  It just isn't always the case for everyone.  But, its also okay to be erotic and kinky and sexy within a Christian DD relationship.  That is allowed.
 
slave joy
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Aswad -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/9/2007 11:25:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy

For those of a christian bent....
 
That is the title of this particular forum.  i wonder why people who obviously do not have a Christian bent and some who have a very anti-Christian bent would even be interested in reading and participating in this discussion directed "For those of a christian bent.... "


I am of a Christian bent, and find most of the contributions here so far to be interesting.

And I have debated the point about DD in the context of the Bible, though I'll admit to indulging in some side tracks that are only partly relevant to that, although entirely relevant to the topic ("For those of a Christian bent...").

Seems most have been having a good time with the thread, though.




RCdc -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/11/2007 3:01:52 AM)

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That is the title of this particular forum.  i wonder why people who obviously do not have a Christian bent and some who have a very anti-Christian bent would even be interested in reading and participating in this discussion directed "For those of a christian bent.... "

Because this is a message board full of people from all faiths, beliefs, non belief, scientific belief... etc and that is why everyone responds and why shouldn't they?  I have a deep faith, but I believe it is good to have it questioned as well as reading others POV on subjects.  It is probably interesting just like any other dynamic within BDSM because all dynamics cast an effect on all of BDSM and makes for good discussion.
 
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  But, its also okay to be erotic and kinky and sexy within a Christian DD relationship.  That is allowed.

 
I disagree.  Yes it is ok to be kinky and erotic and sexy in Christian DD - but not because it is simply 'allowed' by God - but because as christians we have free will - and we choose to live our lives in an informed way - accepting our responsiblities and not using our religion as a scapegoat.
 
Peace
the.dark.




slavegirljoy -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/11/2007 9:54:54 PM)

i wasn't referring to your posts, Aswad.  i was just asking, in a general sense, why it is that a discussion about a particular group that is dedicated to and follows a certain philosophy, suddenly becomes a forum about the "evils" of religion and Christianity, interspersed with posts that return to the discussion about the original topic.   i just wanted to make the point that when a topic is posted that concerns something very specific, such as an online group, known as Christian Domestic Discipline, which is what was originally posted on this forum, it would be nice if people could stick to that topic and if they want to debate religion and Christianity that it would be more useful if they would simply start a new thread for that topic, so that the two issues could be dealt with individually. i also wonder, if the title and topic for this forum had been "Gorean Domestic Discipline" or "Wiccan Domestic Discipline" or pretty much anything other than "Christian Domestic Discipline" would there still have been the same sort of animosity and viciousness from a number of the responders, like there was in several of the posts in this forum. Open discussion and debate about any issue, including religion and Christianity, is important but, when the topic posted is something very specific and narrow in scope and not a general discussion about religion or Christianity, i just think that it would be nice if the responders could stay focused on the topic at hand. slave joyOwned property of Master David




slavegirljoy -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/11/2007 10:07:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark 
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  But, its also okay to be erotic and kinky and sexy within a Christian DD relationship.  That is allowed.


I disagree.  Yes it is ok to be kinky and erotic and sexy in Christian DD - but not because it is simply 'allowed' by God - but because as christians we have free will - and we choose to live our lives in an informed way - accepting our responsiblities and not using our religion as a scapegoat.
 
Peace
the.dark.
 
i didn't say "allowed by God".  i said "That is allowed", referring to the sentence directly before that one, which said that "it's also okay to be erotic and kinky and sexy within a Christian DD relationship".  And, that statement followed my other statements that said "Some people don't think of spanking as being erotic or kinky or having anything to do with sex.  It's just a disciplinary tool.  But, for people who do find it erotic or kinky or sexy, that's fine too."  
 
i hope this clears up what it was that i meant by "That is allowed".  It wasn't a very well written sentence and probably wasn't even necessary to include with the rest of my post.  Thank you for helping me to make this point more clear.  i appreciate the fact that God created man with "free will" and that is something that is either forgotten or not recognized by many.  It's a good thing to keep in mind when discussing what it is that some Christians sometimes do.
 
slave joy
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Aswad -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/12/2007 1:03:40 AM)

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ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy

i also wonder, if the title and topic for this forum had been "Gorean Domestic Discipline" or "Wiccan Domestic Discipline" or pretty much anything other than "Christian Domestic Discipline" would there still have been the same sort of animosity and viciousness from a number of the responders, [...]


I would assume that, yes, there would have been.

Goreans tend to draw quite a bit of flak, particularly when they describe their principles of maledom (analogous to the oft-ascribed maledom tendencies of Christianity, for different reasons, but still bearing some similarity - e.g. the philosophy originating in a series of books which are often quoted in such contexts).

Wiccans do not, as far as I know, support the notion of domestic discipline at all, and some would even go so far as to say that it is more femdom-oriented, given the unequal attention often paid to the Horned God and the Godess' three forms. Hence, one would assume some of the pagans on the forum would argue the point extensively. In such a context, quotes from Gareth Gardener and similar figures would probably be exchanged.




Aswad -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/12/2007 1:21:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy

i appreciate the fact that God created man with "free will" and that is something that is either forgotten or not recognized by many.


Indeed. The way I've always read things, that was the greatest gift of all, and even the authors of the various scriptures sometimes tend to miss this point. Certainly most of the organized churches seem to. This has been a significant part of my own faith, and the main reason why I consider submission to be a sacrament, and voluntary slavery to be a kind of divine calling.

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It's a good thing to keep in mind when discussing what it is that some Christians sometimes do.


Yes, if Christians did not have free will, and always lived in accordance with G*d's wishes, then it would be reasonable to ascribe to G*d and the faith all the misdeeds of the people who commit these deeds in that name. Since they do, however, have free will, it is more reasonable, IMO, to ascribe them to the people who commit them instead; such people have fallen from grace, and are in fact committing acts of blasphemy in invoking G*d's name when doing such misdeeds.

One would imagine that the bit about taking the Name in vain would apply; I can think of no greater vanity in such a context as the vanity of presuming to know G*d's will well enough to violate the tenets of the faith in G*d's name without having vertical transmission to support it.

Of course, some, like Adolf Hitler, have effectively claimed such a thing. In his case, it would be hard to validate or invalidate the point. Certainly his inspiration, whether divine or not, was part of his appeal for his followers. And there were things that one could consider miraculous, such as surviving the bomb that killed many of his close friends, as well as things which some could have considered beneficial outcomes, such as the establishment of a Jewish state (if one holds that G*d looks out for the tribes of Israel), near-abolishment of antisemitism (ditto), solidification of support for democratic government, restoration of Germany, creation of ethical guidelines for medical research (clearly needed), abandonment of eugenics as viable (paraphrased, suffer all the children unto me), abandonment of fascism as a legitimate model of society (clearly a concept that is incompatible with any view of human free will as holy), and so forth.

Not that I'd defend his actions, but there was a flipside to that coin, like all others.




slavegirljoy -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/12/2007 4:17:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aswad

Goreans tend to draw quite a bit of flak, particularly when they describe their principles of maledom (analogous to the oft-ascribed maledom tendencies of Christianity, for different reasons, but still bearing some similarity - e.g. the philosophy originating in a series of books which are often quoted in such contexts).


You are right, Aswad, Goreans do get hit with a lot of flak on these forums.  i've seen some posts concerning Goreans that were very negative and included a lot of ridicule and put-downs and disagreements about the Gorean lifestyle but, i have never seen anything posted about Goreans that even came close to the type of vitriol that was expressed about Christians and Christianity in a lot of the posts on this forum.

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Wiccans do not, as far as I know, support the notion of domestic discipline at all, and some would even go so far as to say that it is more femdom-oriented, given the unequal attention often paid to the Horned God and the Godess' three forms. Hence, one would assume some of the pagans on the forum would argue the point extensively. In such a context, quotes from Gareth Gardener and similar figures would probably be exchanged.


i only used Wiccan as just an example of a group that doesn't seem to get the same hate speech that Christianity gets.  i have no idea what they follow.  i was just inserting the name of another group in place of Christian.
 
Actually, there are Domestic Discipline groups that include females as the disciplinarian and Head of Household and aren't based on Christianity.  Instead of using the term "husband", they use the term "Head of Household" so that they aren't specific to gender or sexual orientation.  These groups include people from any or no religious background and they simply believe that, in a comitted and loving long term relationship, the use of corporal punishment by the Head of Household helps the relationship to stay strong.
 
As an example, the Yahoo group, 1domesticdiscipline (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/1domesticdiscipline/), which began in 1998, states:
 






This mailing list is dedicated to those who practice genuine adult Domestic Discipline as an essential part of their loving, long term, committed relationship. It is connection and physical correction from one who truly cares. Our list members come from diverse backgrounds and those backgrounds are reflected in the various discussions. However, the common denominator of those members, and the primary focus of this list, is the loving, consistent use of Domestic Discipline as a positive vehicle for enhancing communication, deepening intimacy and reinforcing commitment, as well as improving the relationship.

Although discipline may at times have an erotic component this is not a discussion group for erotica.

i really think that had this forum been about  "Domestic Discipline", and had been titled as such, rather than about "Christian Domestic Discipline", there would not have been the scathing and hate-ridden remarks posted on it, like there was regarding, not the forum topic of Christian DD but, about Christians and Christianity, in general.
 
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slavegirljoy -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/12/2007 4:27:30 PM)

Aswad,
 
Your points are well-taken and i agree with what you have stated here.  i would just add that our "free will" is what holds each of us accountable for our actions and is the reason that an entire religion can't (or shouldn't) be held accountable for the actions of some who claim to be a part of that religion or claim to be acting in the name of that religion, regardless of which religion it is.
 
Also, evil has come in many forms throughout history.  It isn't specific to any one religion or nationality or ethnicity.
 
slave joy
Owned property of Master David




Duty2Please -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/12/2007 5:02:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Some here need to look up the word MOST.  I have no trouble with followers of Christ, hell if the guy came back I would consider joining him.


What population, anywhere, of any category, would you consider better behaved than typical Christians? Take any mass of people and you'll find that a vast number, maybe a majority, maybe even a big majority, are just assholes (some hide it better than others). So unless you can name some groups that act better than most Christians, you''ve got a finger on the scale.

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The UnChristian right is who I have an issue with.


Then just say that. Your brush was originally quite a bit broader.

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 If you believe ignorance about sex is what we should "teach" our children, then yes, I "hate" you.  If you believe that science is anti-religious then yes, I "hate" you.  If you think AIDS is any sort of punishment from god I do think you are evil.  If you opposed distrubuting condoms and providing sex ed in Africa is wrong, then yes, I think you are a fucking nut job.


This describes "MOST" Christians? Obviously not. What's the point of putting "hate" in quotes? Do you hate 'em or not? There's no need to hate people you just disagree with. Some of them can be brought around. Some hold their beliefs for good, sincere reasons. Some are just pathetic. There's no point in hating them, and when you calm down you'll realize that.

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Again, as I have already said, if your idea of a good Christian is Jimmy Carter or his ilk then I think you are probably a damn fine human being.


No, if somebody's idea of a Good Christian agrees with yours, it means that person agrees with you, not that that person is a damn fine human being. If that person DISagrees with your opinion, that person may ALSO be a damn fine human being. Damn fine human beings don't always agree with you. Your position is untenable and you're a smart guy who will realize it later, which I guess means I'm really wasting time pointing it out.




Duty2Please -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/12/2007 5:27:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

[...] Most [Christians] are happy enough to walk around breathing through their mouths and mumbling about intelligent design, "curing" homosexuality," voting republican, and in general shitting on any and every tenant that Christ espoused and in fact would beat the record held by the Roman's for killing another Christ for being an annoying radical.


Damn, that's offensive. When you calm down, you really ought to take that back. And if that's what you believe when you're calm ... well, it's good for the rest of us to know.

I don't really think it's such a good idea to be exhibiting hatred at the same time that you're presenting yourself as an ally of Christ against the Christians. As for shitting on Christ's teachings, as I recall there was one guy who was quite close to Christ and did that -- by pulling out a sword when Christ was arrested, and then by denying he ever knew Christ. That was the guy Christ himself made the first pope, Peter, and his transgressions were recorded in Holy Writ for everyone to see. Unlike your cartoon version, real Christianity is made up of people who realize they've been sinners and can always fall back into sin again, and do sin again and, hopefully, repent again. As one sinning Christian put it, we're all in the gutter, looking up at the stars (Oscar Wilde).

Find me that group of people who are consistently better than Christians. And while you're at it, show me what in Christianity makes the Christians so bad.




themischievous1 -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/12/2007 11:54:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

I think Christians like Jimmy Carter are worth looking up to but he is clearly a VERY VERY SMALL minority of Christians.  Most are happy enough to walk around breathing through their mouths and mumbling about intelligent design, "curing" homosexuality," voting republican, and in general shitting on any and every tenant that Christ espoused ...


Whoa.. I haven't read this entire thread all the way through but determined to stop right here as I had to express my surprise and disappointment at your point of view, Michael. It seems as if you've decided to stereotype and generalize all of us "Christians" into one mountainous lump of vitriol and your distaste for us is intensive.

What you aren't seeing, imho, is that though we may fall under the label, (ahh...more trouble with that pesky labeling problem again -sigh-), it doesn't mean that we all believe and act alike, as if we're all some kind of freaky clones or something.

I, for example, am bisexual, which means I can love a man or a woman, and love according to the person not the gender. Contrary to your stereotypical notion presented here, I'm not the judgmental Christian you think you despise.  I have rarely ever voted republican, and I don't believe I go around shitting on anything that Christ has espoused; instead I tend to pay attention to it and attempt to emulate Him as best I can, though I readily admit I frequently fall short. Progress not perfection, thank goodness.

Perhaps you'll want to reconsider lumping all of us in under the label. It's ignorant, insensitive, and not characteristic of your usual interesting perceptions on things, (from what I've encountered of reading you in the past, that is..)




Aswad -> RE: For those of a christian bent.... (6/13/2007 2:34:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy

Also, evil has come in many forms throughout history.  It isn't specific to any one religion or nationality or ethnicity.


I haven't found any use for the concept of "evil" so far, but apart from that, we agree.




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