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alexander1934 -> bdms (6/5/2007 7:36:29 AM)
how do i choose the right mistress

MsKatHouston -> RE: bdms (6/5/2007 7:37:53 AM)
You figure out what you want. Educate yourself. Protect yourself. Use that uncommon thing called common sense. Find someone compatible who compliments you.

MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: bdms (6/5/2007 7:53:12 AM)
Same way as you would choose the "right" person to be in any other relationship with.

zero69u2 -> RE: bdms (6/5/2007 8:00:38 AM)
I'd start with making a checklist of what i want and desire in a woman. (sub, domme,switch) I don't let roles or decided roles ruin who i pick. pick a top 10 list of gals that are within say 400 miles of you or within a reasonable distance. now you get to write letters to everyone and please protect yourself.. meet in public, take safety measures, cell phone safe calls, no getting in strangers cars or driving long distances without getting to know the person on phone.

LightHeartedMaam -> RE: bdms (6/5/2007 11:50:11 AM)
I thought this was a thread about bondage discipline for multiple sclerosis.:) (bdms) Never mind.

earthycouple -> RE: bdms (6/5/2007 11:55:13 AM)
lmao...too funny Light.

littlesarbonn -> RE: bdms (6/5/2007 12:44:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsSonnetMarwood Same way as you would choose the "right" person to be in any other relationship with. Okay, can you help me with that one, too? [:)]

alexander1934 -> RE: bdms (6/5/2007 12:59:30 PM)
I have never attempted any oif this before but am curious to experience new excitements

MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: bdms (6/5/2007 1:07:45 PM)
If you're just looking to experience kink, your best bet is to see a prodomme - www.maxfisch.com has a listing of pros by country & state Otherwise - buckle up and settle in for a while before you go looking for someone. Invest time and energy in learning about the lifestyle and figuring out not only what you are looking for in all of this but what you have to offer (just showing up ain't enough).

maledave7 -> RE: bdms (6/5/2007 1:29:11 PM)
You need to find out what you are looking for in a Mistress. What do you hope to get from the relationship? You also need to let them know what you have to offer them. A person’s profile needs to have as much information as possible. This will help a Mistress to know things about you.

KaramelGoddess -> RE: bdms (6/5/2007 5:06:12 PM)
Read read read as much as you can. Be prepared to wait. Or as MsSonnetMarwood wrote, see a Pro Domina and talk to Her about your fantasies/ideas. You have to know what you want before you go looking I might add. ~Kara

LadyDominaX -> RE: bdms (6/5/2007 5:53:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LightHeartedMaam I thought this was a thread about bondage discipline for multiple sclerosis.:) (bdms) Never mind. Oh, I am so glad I wasn't the only one thinking that!

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