MsKatHouston
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Joined: 6/7/2006 From: Houston, TX Status: offline
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Well the reality of it was this was a pretty tight knit circle of friends. All of us knew each other for years, had seen each other play numerous times, played together numerous times and trusted each other. There was a lot of communication and the slave's domme was very much aware of and in control of everything going on. It wasn't like random people off the street whacking away at someone willy nilly. Now, the reality of it and the planning that went into making sure it was a safe and fulfilling experience for the slave to fulfill a fantasy might not be all that sexy. But in the moment when the plan was enacted, it made it that much more intense for him. It was a lot of fun but it was not done at the drop of a hat without some discussion either. It was a fantasy of his. We allowed his fantasy to come true. But we also did so in a way to ensure his safety also. Because he was with his domme for 20 some years allowed him to trust that she would take those precautions without over thinking the reality of it. Thus the fantasy became more "real" to him and he could just go with it.
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-Kat ~If you can't be a good example, you'll just have to serve as a horrible warning~
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