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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 1:10:51 PM

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Oh dear. Mike, you're a tad irrate, aren't you? Have you considered yoga?

Or even yoghurt?

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 1:22:58 PM

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     You have been on this site for many months, and have concluded that there are "no" genuine people here? Well, since "you" are on this site, logic tells Me that you yourself are not genuine then.

    I have been on this site for a few months, and on others (vanilla and kink) for many years, and it's SSDD. People lie. People play games. Is that such a new discovery??

    I have met liars and players from here in R/T, just as I have met them from other sites as well. It is aggravating. It is frustrating. It is puzzling as to why people feel the need to lie and play games, when being truthful is so much easier and uncomplicated. And it is DAMNED discouraging.   So discouraging, in fact, that in the 7 years and 8 months that I have been seeking a compatible sub male partner, that I have just walked away from this several times. But something always draws Me back, and I start looking again.

    I have met waaaay more than My share of liars, players, wannabe's, cheaters, and fakes -- and those are the *better* ones among the men I have met. You don't even want to know about the worst ones I have met. *shudders**    Yeah, it royally pisses Me off that such characters abound in a lifestyle where honesty is such a critical factor. But what are ya gonna do?   Give up and quit looking? Nope, not Me. Because if I do, that means that the liars have won, and that is NOT an option for Me. I'm just going to *snap* on those latex gloves, and keep digging through all the crap until I find My treasure. I *know* he is out there somewhere.....

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 1:25:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: SweetCaleigh

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THERE ARE NO GENUINE PEOPLE HERE.

Sir, IMHO there are many genuine people here, maybe it's the ones You choose to associate with are the ones that are not genuine or it could be that You are to suspicious and You don't give them a chance to be themselves. Getting to know people on line takes time. More time than most people have patience for. Maybe You don't have the patience to really sit down and get into someone's mind and really get to know who they are. Maybe You have a personality that is just way to pushy for some to even feel comfortable being able to open up to You. i think You really should look at Yourself before You judge others on this site. i have met MANY genuine people here and i am honored to have had the chance to even meet some of them for real. Think really hard about what You say to these people when chatting and where it starts to go sour. Again, i highly doubt it's everyone here.. You need to take a good hard look at Yourself, and not be vain about it (after reading your profile) and see where the problem may lie within You.

Submissively,
*sweet caleigh*

Oh my what a lovely girl you are....had to say that, maybe now I can concentrate on reading your post to the OP now....*trying hard to read vs. stare at picture*

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 1:27:01 PM

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I have been on this site for many months and spoken to lots of people.I have come to the Conclusion That THERE ARE NO GENUINE PEOPLE HERE.THERE ARE FAR TOO MANY PEOPLE THAT ARE ALL TALK AND NO ACTION.I HAVE YET TO SPEAK TO ONE GENUINE SLAVE OR SUB THE ONES I HAVE SPOKEN TOO ARE LITTLE MORE THAN LIARS AND PLAYERS.THE PURPOSE OF THIS LIFESTYLE IS THAT PEOPLE ARE MORE GENUINE THAN VANILLAS YET I FOUND MORE GENUINE VANILLA PEOPLE THAN HERE.I AM DISILLUSIONED IN A LIFESTYLE THAN PROMISES MUCH AND DELIVERS LITTLE

Phone line: $23
Internet Connection: $27
Computer: $1,145
New guy to the boards whose first post tells us we are all fakes: Priceless

and now I need to clean the screen damn spit takes...thanks Gauge.

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 1:27:50 PM

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Oh HELL...here we go again!!!!!

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 1:29:25 PM

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SAME POST

DIFFERENT DAY

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 1:30:48 PM

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yawns .... is it that time of the week already??

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 1:33:03 PM

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<runs up to Mike and snatches his DOM I.D. away, and hands him a sub card>

Ok I don't know about everyone else.... but I feel better now.

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 1:35:32 PM

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I will have to make sure to tell the slave I met here and now lives with me that he better run away fast like a bunny because I'm fake and just posing. That I am a liar and a cheat and and and this really isn't a house it's a space pod and my family of 4 (now 5 with Robert) are really all taking part in my shenanegans and that my love, respect, and adoration of my lovely Robert is really just for funsies til I'm bored and send him packing. I'm as genuine to a human being as cubic zirconium is genuine to diamonds. That for every promise I make, I will begin to deliver less...I promise to love him....so by this time next week I should loath him so much that I will seethe at the sound of his voice.

Poor poor Robert...so misled....*running to warn him now*

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 1:38:49 PM

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Well, as far as my experience goes, some of the Doms I have met don't want to hear the truth. Like for instance the example that I keep running into is that they are men who wouldn't not do well for me. They are fine individuals on their own, (well except for one) but because they are not a match for me, they think I am not submissive when I won't become their slave. Just because you are a Master doesn't mean a slave should automatically become yours, and when she tells you thanks but no thanks...that doesn't make her a liar or a wannabee....that makes her somebody who knows her own mind and body and that she can only submit to the right individual. What is the point of submission if you can do it for just any old bloke who comes along?

I have met plenty of good people in my short time in the life, and plenty of people I wouldn't choose to have in my everyday life no matter what lifestyle I was in.

The simple fact is, if I wouldn't want to be with them in your vanilla life what makes anyone think that a sub/slave can pledge devotion, and obediance to someone she doesn't want to be near normally?

And blanket statements such as the OP made are just a sign of ignorance, who wants to serve an ignorant Master?

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 1:43:11 PM

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I wanna know why there are so many whiny ass piss and moaners that feel it is the internet's responsibility to get them a freakin life!

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 1:43:13 PM

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<walks off humming.....

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Every sperm is great.
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God gets quite irate......>

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 1:46:27 PM

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you cant judge thousands of people based on x amount of people that youve talked to and they happen to be fakes. i cant read your post and rationally conclude that EVERY Dom complains at the drop of a hat, now can i?

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 1:54:27 PM

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I have found real people on here, I have two new female slaves now that I didn't have before. True, there are some that just want to get you to talk to them and tell them things so they can go to bed alone and play, but there are also those that truly seek a great Master, wish to be collared by a great Master. you just have to look and talk and chat until you find the one that suits you, or can put up with you, stand you. because you claim to be a Master does not make you one, no matter how much you want it to be so. A good Master has to have much patience, to learn of his sub or slaves wants and needs. to learn how that individual thinks and reacts to certain stimuli. A good Master has to know how to bring a slave along, to teach and nurture until the slave is all he or she can possibly be. this has to be done the right way or neither the Master or slave will ever be happy.
So be a good Master, don't give up on your quest to find and create a good slave. They are out there and if you are true and honest with them you will find the right one(s) for you, without slaves there are no Masters, Master Robert

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 2:45:40 PM

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I'm entranced by your nickname, Pet

Enchantee.

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 2:46:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: IEvolve

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Every sperm is sacred,
Every sperm is great.
If a sperm is wasted,
God gets quite irate......>

HAHAHAHAHA! Great reference.

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 2:54:46 PM

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did the op whine about something just like this yesterday ???

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 3:06:11 PM

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Where exactly does the lifestyle promise anything? When does ANY lifestyle promise anything?
If you are so miserable and disllusioned, then maybe it isnt everyone else... maybe its you? EVer consider that idea? Rather than posting a few threads about how horrible everyone that writes back to you is, and how horrible you find the lifestyle and how horrid this and that... why not go find something that makes you happy. Maybe you arent cut out to be a Dom. Maybe the internet meeting sites just dont work for you. Maybe you have no interest in putting the time and effort into making a connection and you think that the D in your title means you are entitled to something. Reality check, you arent. None of us are. Becasue we call outselfs Dominant or submissive doesnt mean we are now entitled to be served or to serve. We are still interacting with real live people. When you buck up and realize that, youll have better luck. You have to impress a submissive or a slave before they are ging to want to serve you, and whining to anyone who will read it sure isnt going to do that. But, if whining works for you, then go ahead. Just dont be surprised when no one takes you seriously as Mr. Big Bad Domly Guy when al thy see in the forums is a whiny little man.

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 3:09:13 PM

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First off, dude CHILL OUT. You have been on here for months, then DAMN, you MUST have met EVERYONE on here. I have been on here for over 3 years, an I may have posted on boards and emailed with a decent number of people on here, yet, I have NO where NEAR talked to everyone. Just becuase you have not spoken with one 'genuine' sub or slave means nothing to me. Have you spoken with me? I can list a LOT of 'genuine' submissives and slaves on here, you have have posted on the same boards as them or emailed them, just because they don't fit into your 'perfect little mold' doesn't mean they are not 'genuine.' Hell, by most people's standards, I am not 'genuine' lol. I am ALL slave though, ask past partners; I ONLY care about what the man I am with thinks; friends opinions matter as well, but strangers, not a bit.

Get off your high horse and join the rest of us HUMANS here on earth, your little 'fantasyland' is old news around here. Take the capslock off, no one apprecaites the overinflatedegosized font and bold or capslock, its rude. It just SCREAMS 'I'm a fake and a troll.'

Online has made it easier for wannabes and fakes to infultrate, thats true, yet, I would have a VERY VERY hard time counting how many people on these boards that ARE real and genuine, regardless if we agree with eachother or not. I piss off a decent number of people on these boards and 'debate' with them, yet, their is a level of respect that is there regardless, too many to count.

If you want to talk about being disillusioned, then take a number. MANY of us around here go through 'burn-out' on occassion, we leave the boards of cm for a time, then come back. Heck, I have only back on here for a few weeks, after being gone for about a year, the reasons are my own, yet, part of it was I was frusturated with the fakes I ran into, yet, I KNOW their are MANY quailty people on these boards and on thise site.

Put on your big boy underwear and act like an adult.

Open your eyes and LOOK. I see plenty of real and genuine people on this very thread. If you don't like the view, then see'ya. Don't let the door hit you in the ass when you leave.

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RE: WHY ARE PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE LESS TRUTHFUL - 6/5/2007 3:12:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: HarleyKitty69
I am not real ... no realy I am an alien ..... no realy I am I am ..... wanna see my alien card ??

I KNEW it. That explains soooooooooo much.

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