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looking for info... - 6/5/2007 1:10:01 PM   
PamperMe1


Posts: 3
Joined: 5/25/2007
Status: offline 		hello...i would like to chat with someone that could tell me all about this sub lifestyle and what is expected in it.  and, does anyone know how to change the wording under your screen name?  I am not owned or anything so it shouldnt say "vanilla".

thanks
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RE: looking for info... - 6/5/2007 1:17:04 PM   
AquaticSub


Posts: 14867
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quote:

ORIGINAL: PamperMe1

hello...i would like to chat with someone that could tell me all about this sub lifestyle and what is expected in it.  and, does anyone know how to change the wording under your screen name?  I am not owned or anything so it shouldnt say "vanilla".

thanks


The vanilla thing refers to your post count.

As for the topic, I would recommend reading the boards for awhile instead of talking to just one person. There are many different kinds of submission. If you have a specific question, you can either pose it here or ask someone whose opinions you have come to respect.

Edited to correct spelling

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RE: looking for info... - 6/5/2007 1:27:16 PM   
Aileen68


Posts: 6091
Joined: 8/2/2005
Status: offline 		You didn't get the official Submissive Handbook when you joined collarme?
Oh I would complain to the management.

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RE: looking for info... - 6/5/2007 1:40:18 PM   
MagiksSlave


Posts: 2768
Joined: 9/11/2006
Status: offline 		ERM.. no offence but the first thing to look at as you nick here, I would never peg you as a sub with a nick like that, no offence or anything but most Doms arent looking for a sub who only wishes to be pamperd. The same thing goes with people who have overtly sexual names and such (like fuckmegood) it turns people off.

Magik's slave

< Message edited by MagiksSlave -- 6/5/2007 1:41:36 PM >

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RE: looking for info... - 6/5/2007 1:43:35 PM   
maledave7


Posts: 142
Joined: 8/4/2006
Status: offline 		The vanilla refers to the number of postings you have on the message boards. I think the message board would give you a better view on submission than any one person could.

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RE: looking for info... - 6/5/2007 1:46:12 PM   
MsOpal


Posts: 244
Joined: 8/31/2006
Status: offline 		I'd also think about changing your profile to reflect why you are interested in being submissivem, what you seek or what attracted your attention to this life.  Unless just finding guys to party with really is all you want.  No one is going to take you seriously with your current profile.

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and I did.

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RE: looking for info... - 6/5/2007 1:57:14 PM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

ERM.. no offence but the first thing to look at as you nick here, I would never peg you as a sub with a nick like that, no offence or anything but most Doms arent looking for a sub who only wishes to be pamperd. The same thing goes with people who have overtly sexual names and such (like fuckmegood) it turns people off.

Magik's slave


I would peg you...Whip you,  fuck you. choke you and piss on you....Even though your name might need a tad bit of tweaking.....ERM....Sexual names ...ROCK!  So good luck on the forums "assand throatgal42" ....If you are tough enough, smart enough and like to have a few laughs you will be just fine.

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RE: looking for info... - 6/5/2007 2:34:35 PM   
earthycouple


Posts: 4462
Joined: 2/19/2006
Status: offline 		I reiterate what I said on my origional post to you under the "Ask a Master" forum...sheesh

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RE: looking for info... - 6/5/2007 2:48:55 PM   
slaverosebeauty


Posts: 1941
Joined: 12/12/2004
From: Cali
Status: offline 		Liek eveyrone has said, its a posting thing, its for fun. hahahahaha On occassion you will see a thread that gets started when someone reaches a new 'level' and they want to share with others their excitement. Once you start posting that will change. The 'highest' lever is 4 paddles {looks around}, plenty of people on the boards with them.  I think I'm at 'corrupted.' 'Derranged' is where it stops, some people have 'custom' ones, I don't know how that happens, but once I get there, I'm sure LA or someone will tell me how I can change what it says.

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RE: looking for info... - 6/5/2007 6:13:42 PM   
proudsub


Posts: 6142
Joined: 1/31/2004
From: Washington
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quote:

and, does anyone know how to change the wording under your screen name?  I am not owned or anything so it shouldnt say "vanilla".



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RE: looking for info... - 6/6/2007 12:25:36 AM   
Masque66


Posts: 185
Joined: 5/4/2007
Status: offline 		Hm...don't know if I necessarily like having 'evil' as a rank.  But whatever.  I'm still indecent at the time of writing and proud to be so.

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RE: looking for info... - 6/6/2007 3:19:40 AM   
mstrjx


Posts: 2045
Joined: 11/27/2005
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Oh I would complain to the management.



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RE: looking for info... - 6/6/2007 5:39:46 AM   
Celeste43


Posts: 3066
Joined: 2/4/2006
From: NYS
Status: offline 		Read the boards. When you find that you are nodding in agreement with one particular poster most of the time, that's when you write that poster and ask if they would talk with you.

But it's no good you picking someone who recoils from humiliation if your particular fantasy is degradation. First: Know Thyself.

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RE: looking for info... - 6/6/2007 10:12:18 AM   
dawntreader


Posts: 3045
Joined: 11/23/2006
Status: offline 		i agree about the profile...i think you will get more hits on a swingers site~

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RE: looking for info... - 6/6/2007 11:14:43 AM   
Celeste43


Posts: 3066
Joined: 2/4/2006
From: NYS
Status: offline 		She's brand new, she wants to start with casual play and she's looking to learn. So far she's been told to change her sn so she pretends to be something she isn't and that she doesn't belong here. Aren't we jumping to conclusions?

If you have reasons to stay unattached at this time, then that's what you should do. If you want to be a pet and not a service slave, then openly express that. The fact that you want casual doesn't mean you want to swing, only you can decide that.

The best way to learn is to read here, at bondage dotcom if and when that site gets fixed, and castlerealm for online. Then there are books; Erotic Bondage, The New Topping Book, The New Bottoming Book come first to mind. Go look any one of them up on amazon.com and a bunch of related titles will also pop up. Read the reviews and then get the books that interest you.

Find a munch near you and go meet people and listen more than you talk. Search profiles for people your age and location whom you could become friends with, go out for coffee, go to clubs or munches with, or even possible play partners. Just talk to them to begin with and take it as slow as you need to.

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RE: looking for info... - 6/6/2007 11:19:32 AM   
slaveish


Posts: 1086
Joined: 2/19/2007
Status: offline 		Definitely read here, get out in your local community, figure out what ~you~ want, put on your toughskin outfit when you post, and stick to your own ethics. That's about it.

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You only lose what you cling to. ~~Gautama Sidharta

If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other. ~~Mother Teresa

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RE: looking for info... - 6/6/2007 1:54:55 PM   
MHOO314


Posts: 3628
Joined: 9/26/2004
Status: offline 		WTF???

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