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Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 4:42:29 AM   
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During last night's session, I introduced my sub to a "large" dildo of generous length & girth. She has never gone deeper into sub space, nor has she ejaculated such a massive quantity. It was amazing. This, with a combination of the crop & clamps, turned her into a mass of jelly. Do you enjoy such an intense fucking? Anything in particular in this realm that you prefer?  
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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 4:47:07 AM   
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Nah. I've found that I prefer skill to size. Skill and size are a good combo but there really is such a thing as too big.

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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 5:20:53 AM   
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Size matters.  To me.  Does it matter so much that i would make it a factor if i were seeking a partner?  No. 
 
I'm one of those freaks who prefers her pleasure to be incidental to her partners - and i do what i do just as well whether big or small.  But i'm always going to choose the big dildo.

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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 5:27:37 AM   
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Not really any different from wanting a tight pussy, is it?  Though if the pussy isn't tight enough there's always the other door.

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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 5:34:32 AM   
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Nah. I've found that I prefer skill to size. Skill and size are a good combo but there really is such a thing as too big.


I'll have to echo this.

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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 5:39:16 AM   
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I'm a size scaredy kitten.... I had a really bad experience once with a male that was a tad above average... now if it looks above average be it a nonattached toy or attached... I run in the other direction.


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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 5:43:23 AM   
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Nah. I've found that I prefer skill to size. Skill and size are a good combo but there really is such a thing as too big.


I'll have to echo this.

"Too big" is not the objective. "Full" is. As far as skill is concerned, you can manipulate a phallus that is not connected to your body, far more effeciently that one that is. Having said that, an artificial phallus can do things that a penis cannot, such as vibrate, and allow you to be in "two places at once".

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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 5:48:31 AM   
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Nah. I've found that I prefer skill to size. Skill and size are a good combo but there really is such a thing as too big.


I'll have to echo this.

"Too big" is not the objective. "Full" is. As far as skill is concerned, you can manipulate a phallus that is not connected to your body, far more effeciently that one that is. Having said that, an artificial phallus can do things that a penis cannot, such as vibrate, and allow you to be in "two places at once".



Well... yeah..

But you asked if we were size queens. I'm not. My reasons why is because you can get them too big and because extra skill is required to successfully use a very large penis/dildo.

Valyraen is quite skilled at using our dildos and jackrabbits on me (I'm completely spoiled when it comes to them - I only buy the vibes that cost 100+), but I'm still not a size queen. I don't buy them much larger then your standard penis, though we have done double pentration with them.

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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 5:48:49 AM   
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I'm not saying toys aren't fun. Believe me, my toy box is living proof! I just have never been comfortable with the "large" ones. They are painful to me. Also I have had rocking, screaming, "Oh my god" orgasms with toys - but yet they don't compare with the ones I have with him inside me.

To each their own :)

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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 7:34:43 AM   
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I don't consider myself a size queen, but I do have my standards and preferences.

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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 7:48:48 AM   
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I am in the category of they are all good but size can affect the experience and by this I do not mean good or bad but different and certainly as the OP wrote there have been times and places where getting stuffed by a toy or a real thing was heavenly.




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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 8:31:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MarkMinette

During last night's session, I introduced my sub to a "large" dildo of generous length & girth. She has never gone deeper into sub space, nor has she ejaculated such a massive quantity. It was amazing. This, with a combination of the crop & clamps, turned her into a mass of jelly. Do you enjoy such an intense fucking? Anything in particular in this realm that you prefer?  


I think a lot of this is an issue of having a correct match (I vaguely remember an Anais Nin story about a madame that was skilled at matching her clients with prostitutes that had vaginas of a corresponding depth and width to the clients penises).

I'm not remotely into being penetrated by artificial items (vegetables, dildos, or whatever).  I like my owners flesh on and inside of my flesh and as far as I'm concerned we have a great match under which I do prefer the hard, rough, and intense rather than a slower paced penetration thing.  But I'm definitely not a size queen (I'd run away from some of those massive penises) and I don't have an interest in being stretched.  Since I feel full with what I've got its all good.

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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 8:31:58 AM   
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I lost my virginity to a very large man so since then i do see most things as small, but to be fair the vagina is pretty amazing, it can be trained to be tighter or looser so its far more about how its used than anything else

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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 8:36:49 AM   
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subspace?......

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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 8:45:52 AM   
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Depends on where it going, whats its doing and if the person who is doing it knows what they are doing. Size has some relevance, mostly, its the other areas. What girl doesn't love subspace?! I got a small taste of it this past weekend, an I forgot how much I missed it.

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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 9:07:23 AM   
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I'm a size scaredy kitten.... I had a really bad experience once with a male that was a tad above average... now if it looks above average be it a nonattached toy or attached... I run in the other direction.


kittin


Just a quick question on this point.... What is considered average??

Until I was 26 I thought average was 7" - 8" only to be told it was 5" total shocker for me.

So I'm assuming that it's a relative thing to what a person has seem most often?

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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 9:13:44 AM   
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I am under the impression that around 6 inches would be avg....

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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 9:16:43 AM   
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Guilty as Charged... I strongly prefer 7-8"..   4-5" is an absolute deal breaker.. and I will definately run from 10"+


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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 9:17:50 AM   
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Guilty as Charged... I strongly prefer 7-8"..   4-5" is an absolute deal breaker.. and I will definately run from 10"+


i would agree with this....


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RE: Are You a "Size Queen"? - 6/6/2007 9:18:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: akisha

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ORIGINAL: YourShyPet

I'm a size scaredy kitten.... I had a really bad experience once with a male that was a tad above average... now if it looks above average be it a nonattached toy or attached... I run in the other direction.


kittin


Just a quick question on this point.... What is considered average??

Until I was 26 I thought average was 7" - 8" only to be told it was 5" total shocker for me.

So I'm assuming that it's a relative thing to what a person has seem most often?



I was going by medical research of aproximatly 5" to 6".

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