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CreativeDominant -> RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy (6/7/2007 4:49:10 PM)
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ORIGINAL: octavia
It's about time I get a photo posted, so am having a friend (the only BDSM friendly person I know near me) take some "fun" pictures of me this weekend. As we sat chatting over coffee mulling over the various poses and moods to try (Yum!) he brought up that he has this fantastic collar at home that we could put on me for the photo shoot. Several things ran through my mind. Is it a bad idea for a single sub to appear collared in her profile photo? They are damn sexy and sure I want to know what it feels like around my neck, but is it a special thing that should be reserved for when it's "real"? Or am I just being a sappy romantic? Many other things ran through my mind as well, but that should be sufficient to bring out the flame throwers.
octavia
I am of the opinion that you should wear what you want to wear.
I am of the school that likes the way necklaces and chokers look. I once wore a short leather necklace with a Celtic knot on it, symbolizing the bends and twists that lead to a deeper relationship. The submissive that gave it to me did not own me, she was owned by me. She gave it to me to symbolize what I noted and because she liked the way men look in necklaces.
As noted, I like the fashion of chokers and necklaces. That is one reason I loved the late 60's and early 70's. I had chokers and loved them. I had a gold necklace with a beautiful Ankh symbol and I had a puka shell choker...and others. Hell, I even had...gulp...an Angel Flight leisure suit (There!...I finally admitted it)...but I digress.
Wear what you want and be comfortable. The collar of ownership you wear one day may look exactly the same as the one you wear in these photos...but I guarantee you that it will FEEL a hell of a lot different and symbolize something else entirely.
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