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goddessoflight -> RE: WHY ALL THE FAKE PROFILES (6/7/2007 6:18:48 AM)
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I can understand why people keep asking this. We get so tired of precious time wasted with someone that really has no intention of meeting. They ( what some would call the fakes) have nothing better to do with their time, or it's all a fantasy in their mind and they have no honest real interest in meeting with someone in person.
What I started to do is just be blunt and to the point. If I'm a bit interested I might move on to messanger or direct to the phone. Have the direct questions in mind and don't be afraid to just come out and ask it. Let them ask questions and be extremely honest. Look for flags and then if your interested just ask when you could meet. If they say, well I'm not able to actually meet in person , or I could meet with you in about a year...well guess what? Move on, don't let people take your time, it's already short enough ( well it is for Me anyway)
Then theres also the fakes you actually meet with. I met with someone who said he was a sissy maid. Well the cd/sissy part was correct. But he wanted it all to be about him and he was used to his ex doing ALL the housework and he had no idea what a maid was all about. He couldn't cook, wouldn't and didn't clean or even pick up after himself. Thats just an example of course and it could be the same with a Dom/me.
So I say you can narrow things down quickly, then phone then meet. I've met some wonderful and real people from on here and I'd say it was about 50/50% of those that I did meet with ,that we were on the more compatible side. The 50% that wasn't right for Me they tended to only want to be here to "get everything they could for themselves" . That doesn't make them fakes, just not what I'm looking for. So I think people use the term fakes meaning different things. They could be just out right liers, b.s.'ers, and time wasters.
..Go Ron Paul-for President!
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