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a simple idea - 6/7/2007 10:17:21 AM   
existanceisyours


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i would like to say before any of you read this that i am not against  pro dommes i do disagree with  ppl claiming dominance  and asking for tribute for talking to you but i would like to put forward a simple idea  of adding a  option of wether cash is going to be involved it would make things alot easier and save the ppl sending me a msg and then asking for money for having done so what do you all think
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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 10:19:42 AM   
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Or you could just ask them upfront about the pay to play stuff.

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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 10:21:55 AM   
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that would be fine but i am refering to the cold caller "dommes" who send you a msg then ask for cash

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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 10:22:58 AM   
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Yep. Seems simple courtesy to me. ProDommes exist because they fill a nitch, nothing wrong with that. If someone is going to expect payment, they should have the decency to tell you up front.

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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 10:27:00 AM   
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that may be against CollarMe Terms of Sevice

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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 10:28:19 AM   
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but to be fair can you class someone who sits behind a screen a pro domme the pro dommes i know have spent years gaining skills and knowlage so that they can charge for sessions and offer risky but safe play i am sorry if i offend but i wont call a 19yr old girl asking for cash because she sent you a msg a pro domme

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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 10:29:38 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: existanceisyours

that would be fine but i am refering to the cold caller "dommes" who send you a msg then ask for cash



read top to bottom and left to right here in the states.
there is a report button, right the fuck there........

if you are looking at a browser in japanese you will have to get support to tell you which way to read on that kind.  but I am sure there is an equivalent button on those screens.

Cold callers now, not invites.

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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 10:31:23 AM   
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Are you getting attached to these Dommes?  I don't see the problem.  They ask for money, you don't give it, encounter over.

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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 10:36:36 AM   
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the problem is simple i understand as a female it may be diferent but men dont use this site to be hastled for money from ppl who dont want to get jobs or are looking for a fast buck, no i do not have any attachment to these ppl but it sure as hell makes me wonder why i use this site sometimes

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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 10:37:15 AM   
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All you have to do is say. "No thank you," and ignore them. They're not going to go away any time soon, so you just kinda have to weed.

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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 10:39:38 AM   
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Obviously they wouldn't be here if some people weren't using their services (giving them money).
I don't understand why anyone would pay for an experience and/or relationship, but it takes all kinds to make the world a happy (or whiny) place.


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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 10:44:23 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: existanceisyours

the problem is simple i understand as a female it may be diferent but men dont use this site to be hastled for money from ppl who dont want to get jobs or are looking for a fast buck, no i do not have any attachment to these ppl but it sure as hell makes me wonder why i use this site sometimes


And women don't use this site to be hassled for one time sexual encounters from people too lazy to go to a bar and get fucked but I get those all the time too....

wah wah wah....get over it and move on

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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 10:46:04 AM   
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i make a comment and question and low and behold i get called whiney for it forget it do what the fuck you like 

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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 10:48:03 AM   
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Exactly!

No one here gets what they want in mail or encounters all the time. Suck it up!

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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 10:49:11 AM   
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quote:

forget it do what the fuck you like 


We will.  Because we don't allow strangers on-line to upset us.


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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 10:54:30 AM   
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hehe  I'm sobbing in my soda now....he got mad at me

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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 11:09:00 AM   
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If you've got a humiliation kink, no need to see a pro domme -- you can get that here for free!

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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 11:27:21 AM   
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He went from whiny to pissed off in 5 posts, not once straying from the official newbie bitchfest party line.

7.8

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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 11:30:45 AM   
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I don't care what your whining about but that is one motherfucker of a run-on sentence. 

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RE: a simple idea - 6/7/2007 11:34:22 AM   
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I think the original poster's goal was to get chastised on the thread. It's a source of pleasure for some people.



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