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squeezemylemon88 -> Orgasm Training? (6/7/2007 4:53:16 PM)
Hey Readers, I am very new to the BDSM community here at collarme and in general. I have heard the words orgasm control mentioned, and I was wondering what this entails exactly. Furthermore, I was wondering, as a male, can this improve my orgasms?And if anyone is knowlegeable on the subject, what are some specific things I can do or new techniques I can use to improve my orgasms? -Corey

LadyHeart -> RE: Orgasm Training? (6/7/2007 11:32:46 PM)
That's a big topic! Have you tried the "search" option on the home page? You'll find a lot of previous threads that will answer your questions. Happy hunting! :)) LH

Lordandmaster -> RE: Orgasm Training? (6/7/2007 11:43:22 PM)
Why don't we ever get people searching for something NEW? Like whether it's dangerous to shove an orange up your sub's ass. Or who likes sex with arachnids?

mistoferin -> RE: Orgasm Training? (6/7/2007 11:45:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster Or who likes sex with arachnids? You're just not right....nope....not right at all!

Bluebird -> RE: Orgasm Training? (6/7/2007 11:54:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster Like whether it's dangerous to shove an orange up your sub's ass. Isn't that where "fresh-squeezed orange juice" comes from? quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster Or who likes sex with arachnids? I think that is Rumtiger [:D]

RealDom69 -> RE: Orgasm Training? (6/7/2007 11:57:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: squeezemylemon88 Hey Readers, I am very new to the BDSM community here at collarme and in general. I have heard the words orgasm control mentioned, and I was wondering what this entails exactly. Furthermore, I was wondering, as a male, can this improve my orgasms?And if anyone is knowlegeable on the subject, what are some specific things I can do or new techniques I can use to improve my orgasms? -Corey One of the techniques I use during sex is to think of work and although the sex is still good it quells the urge to cum, now after a few years experience I no longer need to think of work, I can hold off as long as I like, it just takes practice.. :)) Johnny Reble

MistressMarielle -> RE: Orgasm Training? (6/8/2007 8:30:38 AM)
In this more than vanilla lifestyle regarding one who submits, often males have the desire to be directed in this way, which lays a good foundation for control in the first place. They find it very exciting to wait for that "Now!" command. If orgasm is premature, external discipline is warranted and is naturally tailored to the individual. i.e. One would not whip a masochist for reasons of discipline. <winks> Then there are always equally tailored positive affirmations for a job well done.

slaverosebeauty -> RE: Orgasm Training? (6/8/2007 9:21:02 AM)
EVERYONE can do keagles, even men, you have the same muscles, if you work out those muscles men can postone orgams and even make them stronger and 'better' {for lack of a better term} as well as be able to cum more than once. My child birth class nurse told us about them adn how they can help men a LOT if they do them as often as they suggest women do them, daily, 3 or 4 times a day. The way to isolate and find those muscles - when you are urinating, just stop the stream aka 'hold it', that the muscles, they dont' suggest that women do that while they are actually urinating since it can lead to UTIs, etc. Once you know how those muscles feel and where they are located, you can do the same techniqe any time. Just 'hold' for 5 or 6 counts, release then repeated, do this in sets of 5, and do it a few times a day; work your way up to 'hold' or contracting the muscles for 30 sec to a min or longer. It takes work, but its great and you will feel the difference. Then, when you are about to orgams, you can 'contract' the muscles and hold off or make your orgasm stronger. Good luck.

CMastersen -> RE: Orgasm Training? (6/8/2007 10:26:50 AM)
When I was in collage, maybe about 20 (a College where we weren't even suppose to have wet dreams!!) I found a sex book of some sort at a yard sale. The only thing I remeber from it was an exercise for males, whcih I did for years, and still do occasionaly. you were to get just to the point before ejaculating, stop, and then let it go limp. do that 5 times before cumming. I morphed that into the same but not going limp, just hold off enough so that I could go back at it without cumming for another 5 minutes. then I would also hold it just at the edge where only a touch on the frenum area (where I jerk off) once every 30 secs or so would be dangerously close to putting Me over theedge. I have no idea, but it did seem that it increased the amount of cum.

onestandingstill -> RE: Orgasm Training? (6/8/2007 10:36:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster Why don't we ever get people searching for something NEW? Like whether it's dangerous to shove an orange up your sub's ass. Or who likes sex with arachnids? If having a big black tarantual crawling on your tummy & tits while you're layin on your back on a Harely Seat getting plowed counts I've done that one before. LOL we did it like that with snakes too. Geeze I'm showing my age, but that relationship was 26 years ago. suzanne

onestandingstill -> RE: Orgasm Training? (6/8/2007 10:43:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: squeezemylemon88 Hey Readers, I am very new to the BDSM community here at collarme and in general. I have heard the words orgasm control mentioned, and I was wondering what this entails exactly. Furthermore, I was wondering, as a male, can this improve my orgasms?And if anyone is knowledgeable on the subject, what are some specific things I can do or new techniques I can use to improve my orgasms? -Corey Usually in BDSM terms orgasm control just means you only cum when ordered or have permission. It's not usually about heightening your orgasm, except in the notion some times you wait so long the release feels magnified. There are tartaric arts that once you learn them heighten and extend your orgasm, but it takes a lot of effort, self knowledge, and relaxation of your mind to achieve a long lasting tartaric orgasm. LOL if you just want to make your orgasms more fun and different try holding a vibrator to your balls & rubbing it around them and the base of your shaft when you beat off. From the people I've introduced to that it seems to cause stronger excitements and stronger cum sessions for many men. suzanne

Emperor1956 -> RE: Orgasm Training? (6/8/2007 10:46:37 AM)
quote: And if anyone is knowlegeable on the subject, what are some specific things I can do or new techniques I can use to improve my orgasms? Try having one with a 14" long penis shoved inside you? Oh, and having one WITH SOMEONE ELSE improves the experience greatly. E.

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