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meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/7/2007 5:47:09 PM

foothunk

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Hello,

just wondering if anyone has tried meeting non-pro dominant Women at a horse stable, where they may have their pony quartered? Does anyone have any ideas on what a sub male might do as an excuse to just sort of hang around the barn area even if you don't have a horse? Any thoughts on what you might say to a Woman at the stable to kinda break the ice, even if you don't know anything, like me, about horses? Also, what services might be on offer to make myself more useful to the horse Woman?

My thinking is that the more i can be around Women dressed in boots and carrying whips, the more i like it. Any thoughts? i've been lurking here quite awhile but i've never seen this topic brought-up, so maybe it could be a useful thread.

Thanks in advance.

submissive and looking

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/7/2007 5:49:25 PM

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I dont know of many dominant women that necessarily own horses... so youd be loooking for an extremely small subset of women. Good luck, but dont hold your breath.

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/7/2007 6:09:42 PM

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Umm... using a crop does not make you dominant. I ride horses and use a crop. Honestly I can't think of a single reason to hang around a stable if you don't own a horse. You'd probably look pretty sketchy and considering how much horses are worth, people would get suspicious. If you really think this will work, take lessons.

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/7/2007 6:23:46 PM

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I don't know about meeting dominant women at a stable, but when I stabled Kansas, 75%, of the horses were owned by women. I am still friends with and date some of them. Only one gave any indication of maybe being dominant, but she was young for me. I concluded that when I told her how well she trained horses, and she winked, and answered, "men too".It was exciting to watch her train her horses. I was wishing I was on of them. It is probably just a coincidence, but there are quite a few women on cm that have horses. If you want to meet women at stables, just show an interest in horses, and that you might like to learn to ride. If they clean thier own stalls, offfer to clean them for her in exchange for her teaching you to ride. One never knows. Good luck

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/7/2007 6:31:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

I dont know of many dominant women that necessarily own horses... so youd be loooking for an extremely small subset of women. Good luck, but dont hold your breath.

Hmm I actually wonder if the OP isn't on to something. Its a subset of women that derive enjoyment at least in part from controlling the energy of fairly intelligent creatures. Sound familiar?

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/7/2007 6:55:43 PM

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why not hang out at munches where at least some of the women are guaranteed to be dominant?

Frankly, I think your "plan" sounds desparate and hopeless.

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/7/2007 7:08:59 PM

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How about hanging around a human pony event?

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/7/2007 7:23:20 PM

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I wonder if that would make Saratoga Springs a hotbed of Dommes? If it is, I'm in my car at 7 am tomorrow.

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/7/2007 7:29:38 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ObedientYYC

quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

I dont know of many dominant women that necessarily own horses... so youd be loooking for an extremely small subset of women. Good luck, but dont hold your breath.

Hmm I actually wonder if the OP isn't on to something. Its a subset of women that derive enjoyment at least in part from controlling the energy of fairly intelligent creatures. Sound familiar?

Sounds like wishful thinking to me. Remembering the girls I used to ride with, there wasn't a greater percent of dominant or even alpha types. For us the pleasure of riding had little to do with controlling the animal but working with the animal and just the joy of riding, which really can't be explained except to experience it.

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/7/2007 7:43:12 PM

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How about trying a Merry-Go-Round?

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/7/2007 9:12:57 PM

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You might have more luck hanging around equestrian supply places and seeing who is testing out the crops on other people. I am only half kidding here, as we've bought some great gear in the horse shops, and my Master once made me try out a bit in the shop, hehehe. Ever seen "9 1/2 Weeks"? There's a great scene there where a crop is tried out in a shop in a very suggestive way. Go stand by the whips and offer your arse as a target....

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/7/2007 9:45:19 PM

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I'm thinking he'd get to offer to be a target about once before they threw him out.

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/7/2007 10:03:45 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: foothunk

My thinking is that the more i can be around Women dressed in boots and carrying whips, the more i like it. Any thoughts? i've been lurking here quite awhile but i've never seen this topic brought-up, so maybe it could be a useful thread.

Thanks in advance.

submissive and looking

I know you say you are submissive and I didn't flip over to your profile to see what you might have written there, but I am wondering if you are less on the submissive side, and more on the fetishist side? Nothing wrong with that, but you seem to want to hang about horse stables because that is your best chance of connecting with ladies who wear boots and carry riding crops. Do you want them to use the crops on you, or are you more interested in striking up a friendship with a lady who dresses in an exciting way? Because the manner of dress would really have nothing to do with whether or not she is a FemDom.
At any rate, if you think hanging out at the stables is the best way to get your fix, you should probably try to learn something about the horses and stables...maybe get a part time job shoveling. You can make a little money while you watch who comes and goes.

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/7/2007 10:17:45 PM

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hmm...i would love to hear how one might approach someone like this....

"Hey, I happened to notice you like horses. Lovely boots you have. Oh by the way, Im really kinky and..." you may make it that far.

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/8/2007 12:22:26 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHeart

You might have more luck hanging around equestrian supply places and seeing who is testing out the crops on other people. I am only half kidding here, as we've bought some great gear in the horse shops, and my Master once made me try out a bit in the shop, hehehe. Ever seen "9 1/2 Weeks"? There's a great scene there where a crop is tried out in a shop in a very suggestive way. Go stand by the whips and offer your arse as a target....

:))
LH

Well said, spoken like a true pony ...hehehe

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/8/2007 2:17:50 AM

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Something my brother used to say, when driving through the countryside our path would cross with young ladies out riding, bobbing lightly up and down in the saddle - "wasted on a horse"

Equestrian supply shops can be weird. I recall visiting one as a sales rep years ago and they had a dozen or so full size plastic model horses around the place. How is one meant to conduct negotiations with a horse standing behind, just catching one's eye from time to time?

To the OP; let me know how you get on? Be very interested to know whether you get charged with harassment, indecency or trespass.

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/8/2007 3:54:46 AM

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I would say is to get a part-time job working in the stables. This would give you an opportunity to meet some women.

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/8/2007 4:37:34 AM

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Go for a sample lesson---just like you would otherwise-, offer to learn about horses by being a groom----and yes it seems many of Us own, owned or ride horses----I guess that's just the circle I run in---

Boot cleaning, saddle conditioning, stall mucking are all things boys can do---and these last three years are the first times in My life I had a riding crop AND horses----smiles

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/8/2007 4:54:34 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHeart
Go stand by the whips and offer your arse as a target....

Here's another approach. Get a pair of pants and have a bulls eye placed on the butt to present a target. Stand by the riding crops looking at crops with your shoeslaces untied. When a woman comes and picks up a crop, say, gosh, my shoelaces are untied. Then bend over to tie your shoelaces with the butt towards her. As you tie your shoelaces, keep your fingers crossed on the hand you write with--it will bring good luck and, hopefully, take longer!

;-)

Cheers,

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RE: meeting dominant Women at horse stables? - 6/8/2007 8:13:26 AM

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Okay, I have to admit that this one is cracking me up.

I have spent my whole life around horses and I honestly cannot say that there is one woman I know that is dominant AND kinky. In fact, as I sit here with my mind racking thru names and faces I would say that conservative and more on the submissive side comes to mind. They tend to go for the cowboyish guys with a macho swagger.

The only benefit I can think of is that most of them are pretty easy if you are just looking to get laid.

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