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For those of you who are either married or are in a serious relationship, are you currently:

Active within with your significant other.

40% (17)

Active without your significant other, who is aware of your activity.

19% (8)

Active without your significant other, who is unaware of the activity.

9% (4)

Non-active due to you significant other.

9% (4)

Currently searching for my significant other.

2% (1)

Currently searching for play partners.

2% (1)

Other?

16% (7)

Total Votes : 42

(last vote on : 8/12/2007 2:28:58 AM)
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For those of you who are either married or are in a ser... - 6/8/2007 12:18:01 AM

tenderfootmaster

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I have just told my girlfriend of 9 months that I have a CM account, and she actually was supportive and joined herself. We have been into bondage for quite sometime before this though. I just thought to ask this question.

For those of you who are either married or are in a serious relationship, are you currently:

Active within the lifestyle with your significant other.
Active within the lifestyle without your significant other, who is aware of your activity.
Active without your significant other, who is unaware of the activity.
Non-active due to you significant other.
Currently searching for my significant other.
Currently searching for play partners.
Other?

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 12:32:45 AM

MstrssScarlet

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Gee.....only FOUR VOTES???
Mistress Scarlet
(I'm sure you can guess which way I voted!)

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 12:41:07 AM

redsky

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im married, it sucks...but thats life! lol

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 12:44:35 AM

tenderfootmaster

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quote:

ORIGINAL: redsky

im married, it sucks...but thats life! lol

Your husband doesn't want to or support it?

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 12:45:46 AM

tenderfootmaster

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrssScarlet

Gee.....only FOUR VOTES???
Mistress Scarlet
(I'm sure you can guess which way I voted!)

Thank you for your vote and Im afraid to guess.

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 12:54:20 AM

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No big surprise on which way I voted. I put a lot of this information into My posts, if you have seen any of them. I was just answering an email earlier tonight about the most common question...... How does that work?

BTW, kudos to you and your girlfriend! I know what it's like to have "The Talk" with the signifigant other, and it takes a strong relationship to accept the idea of poly or additional partners. Lucky you! Lucky Me, for that matter! It can work. It might take some patience, a LOT of communication, understanding, acceptance, etc., but it pays off. Oh, and honesty. Never forget the honesty.

PS, caught you looking..... <laughs>.

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 12:57:19 AM

tenderfootmaster

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

No big surprise on which way I voted. I put a lot of this information into My posts, if you have seen any of them. I was just answering an email earlier tonight about the most common question...... How does that work?

BTW, kudos to you and your girlfriend! I know what it's like to have "The Talk" with the signifigant other, and it takes a strong relationship to accept the idea of poly or additional partners. Lucky you! Lucky Me, for that matter! It can work. It might take some patience, a LOT of communication, understanding, acceptance, etc., but it pays off. Oh, and honesty. Never forget the honesty.

PS, caught you looking..... <laughs>.

I was curious!

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 12:57:32 AM

redsky

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we tried it once...he laughed & couldnt take it seriously.... i dont whine or anything, i know there must be hundreds of other women out there just like me, stuck in a place right now that is impossible to get away from!

i do not cheat, i just read, blab & learn for later.

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 1:00:39 AM

tenderfootmaster

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quote:

ORIGINAL: redsky

we tried it once...he laughed & couldnt take it seriously.... i dont whine or anything, i know there must be hundreds of other women out there just like me, stuck in a place right now that is impossible to get away from!

i do not cheat, i just read, blab & learn for later.

Well, kudos for you. Even though I consider myself a very caring person, if my needs aren’t met I’ll do anything to get it.

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 1:01:35 AM

LadyPact

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They always are, dear... They always are.

Good re-vamp on your profile. I'm glad to see you took the advice given to you at heart.

If you want to contact Me on the other side, feel free. I know you have questions that you'd like to hear some answers.

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 1:07:03 AM

tenderfootmaster

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

They always are, dear... They always are.

Good re-vamp on your profile. I'm glad to see you took the advice given to you at heart.

If you want to contact Me on the other side, feel free. I know you have questions that you'd like to hear some answers.

I would love to contact you because I do have a few questions, although I need to get some rest for PT tomorrow morning. What I’m going to do is add your profile to my favorites and when I get some time Ill send you a message. Thank you for your support and help!

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 1:11:04 AM

LadyPact

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Anytime, dear. I know I was tough on you on the other thread. It should be tough. If it was easy, everyone would do it.

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 5:53:57 AM

earthycouple

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I am married. Very much in love with my husband. He is very supportive of my life outside of our marriage. (I have a live in slave).

He knew from the start who I was. It was either support me in who I am or find someone else. I never hid anything. He chose to love me and support me. We decided to wait a year before we involved others in our relationship to make sure we were happy and solid. When that happened we branched out and here I am. We always talk and know how the others feel.... and we have some "rules" that are very minimal and we each abide by them. Beyond that I do what I want, as does my husband.

I never in a million years would go against the rules we created because I love my husband and would never do anything to dissolve the trust and love we have.

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 6:14:59 AM

sweetnurseBBW

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What about those married to their Master or Mistress? I guess that is where the "other" category comes in.

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 7:49:57 AM

LaTigresse

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I chose other because if I tried to explain it would just get more bizare and confusing.......

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 7:54:59 AM

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quote:

Well, kudos for you. Even though I consider myself a very caring person, if my needs aren’t met I’ll do anything to get it.

Wow...that kinda says it all doesn't it...

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 8:04:56 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I chose other because if I tried to explain it would just get more bizare and confusing.......

Explain! Explain!.....(Domiguy sits back anticipating some grade-A wanking material to soon be divulged)

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 9:00:16 AM

LaTigresse

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Oooohhhhh domliest of all domi's, if it was juicy wanking material I promise I would tell you, but the truth, though stranger than fiction....... is boring as hell.

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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 9:07:54 AM

tenderfootmaster

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

What about those married to their Master or Mistress? I guess that is where the "other" category comes in.

I would think active within the lifestyle with your significant other.

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RE: For those of you who are either married or are in a... - 6/8/2007 9:08:05 AM

sleazybutterfly

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I am soon to be married to my Master, so I am very active with my partner. We aren't planning on bringing someone in right now, but we won't close off that door forever if the right girl came along. I really miss having a female in my life, as a friend and as a lover. I have always and will always be open with anyone I am with and I take the outcome of that, good or bad.

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Life is not a popularity contest, it's better to be hated for what you believe, than loved for a lie.

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