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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/8/2007 7:58:50 PM   
HutchGarahl


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Welp...June is starting of on a bad note for me. Got a call from my boy yesterday...his new fiance has called of the engagement, says she's not ready to be engaged. Spent over an hour on the phone with him trying to calm him down. He's so devistated right now. On the good side of that, she still loves him and wants to continue dating....just wants to slow down a bit. I can understand that...I mean, the kids are young, she's fresh out of highschool. She just needs to grow some more. Welp, boy is finlly calm. Still upset...but he's dealing better.

My RLS has returned...and been having some rather wierd pains in my chest, so I think it's time for a new visit to the doc again. Chest pains have turned out to be too much stress on my heart, not to mention I can hardly breath. So...coffin nails had to go buhbuy. Haven't had one since this was posted in Master's....am breathing better and not coughing as much. Still having some pains, but not as bad.

Seems me and my girlfriend will be breaking up soon. Not sure what's going on with her lately, she hardly talks anymore, we don't go anywhere and when we do...it's usually shopping and it's rush in, rush out. Plus she rammed a nail in our relationship a couple weeks ago. Told me that my granbaby was not allowed to visit for a couple days again...last time she was here, she threw an attitude and punched the eldest dog (15 ears old) right between the eyes. But what do you expect from a 2 year old? They are gonna have their days. As much as I love my girl...I can't stay where my kids and grankids aren't welcome. They come first in my life. It's official. I am moving out. Gonna be sleeping in a tent at my mom's place. The only living quarter left will be getting occupied by my neice coming back home from New York. Her and her husband are divorcing. He told her he didn't like her son, didn't want anything to do with him and doesn't want kids. This comes after a year of dating her and getting her pregnat. No offense to the guys here...but men can be such worms. 

Not sure if me and my girl are going to continue on....she understands my leaving, yet she still wants to remain my girl and for us to do things together and date. But...I dunno. I find it hard to be with someone who can't accept my kids and grandbaby. She did tell me that she has been spacing herself from me because she knew I was looking for a new slave and figured if she spaceed herself, then when time came for me to move, it wouldn't hurt as bad. It ain't working with her. She now realizes I am serious about moving and seems to be getting pretty upset about it.

My meeting with my new potential fell through. While he did manage to make it close to me....he got detoured because of wildfires spinging up all over..so I told him to go ahead to see his brother, who wound up sick while he was there, so he extended his visit there to help his ailing brother, causing him to have to return back home asap as he had to get back to work. So...our meeting has had to been put off for a couple more months. :(

My youngest sent me a message the other day...she's getting tested for pregnacy. :( Lord I wanna cry on this one. As much as i'd love her to give me granchildren....just not right now! She's only 16. She should know in a couple weeks.
Haven't heard anything on my youngest as of yet except now she may be getting kicked out of the Job Corp. Seems she got into some trouble a few weeks ago and is supposed to go before board of reviews today. So, still waiting to here on that one.

One good thing for this month...my youngest is coming home for summer break at the end of the month. Haven't seen her since Christmas.

Hopefully as the month goes on, other happy things will come.

And the month continues on with bad stuff. Sister called day before yesterday. My youngest neice has had a miscarriage. Her and her man are very upset as well as her oldest boy who is only 4, but knows something bad happened to mommy.
 
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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/8/2007 10:50:25 PM   
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Liquidating the ranch, what a change!  Letting go of my life's work and so many dreams isn't an easy thing to do.  Lots of stress but excitement, too.  I can't wait for winter, the first winter in 25 years that I won't be feeding animals every day.

I'm planning to start traveling when everything's wrapped up.  Things will certainly be different when I'm out of the cattle bidness!

All is going well with manthing.  So far, so good.  I'm truly happy and hope it lasts.  If it doesn't, at least I'll have had one hell of a nice ride.

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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/9/2007 1:35:58 AM   
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Just finished up the Spring quarter with a 3.1gpa and the summer quarter is starting in 10 days, so yay for me. My mother is actualy coming to visit at the end of the month, which only happens when saturn and pluto are directly aligned with jupiter's 3rd moon (other words, has never happened in my life time). Brother is getting ready to move to Hawaii in Oct., leaving me with the decision to get a room-mate or to keep the place on my own.
Weather is finally starting to look up, and going to plan some camping trips for when the summer quarter is over in Aug.
Other than all this, nothing much new.

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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/9/2007 1:44:56 AM   
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Hi having a very relaxed month this month.  (hmm after rereading my post its not that relaxed lol)
Was a bridesmaid for my sister on the 1st  and it was such a lovely day , my boy went with me and looked absolutely stunning in his suit and I didnt scrub up too bad myself lol.
I'm very busy with my college work and am puppy sitting for my sister while she is on honeymoon which is an experience in itself lol they are soo soo cute though
Unfortunatly my maid has some pretty shite life stuff going on at the minute so we havent had time together for a few weeks and I know she is upset about that so I'm looking forward to seein her later this month.
My boy has been over for a while which has been nice and we are having an easy simple week with no real play going on, Its nice to have some "down time" and to see that our relationship works just great without the D/s being the main part of it.  I feel very secure in us both and its been lovely just being together.  Though I cant wait to tie him up soon
Ive not been feeling tooo great about myself the last few weeks with my apperance after a close(i say that with gritted teeth right now)  friend got dumped by her fella and decided to make herself feel better by putting me right down and being quite nasty, but ive finally got my head out of my arse about it and feel much better now.
I passed my counselling exams and am eager to start my next level in september yay only 3 more years of training to go

Went for a lovely 7 mile walk round the peak district on wednesday which I havent done for ages and completely misjudged the weather and am now sporting 2nd degree burns on my legs ouch ouch ouch have been very uncomfortable but it was worth it for such a lovely day out.
My um's bullying problem has been sorted out finally and the medical condition she has suffered from since being one has finally started to get so much better so I have a very happy healthy poppit on my hands now

Ive missed the roll call too its nice to see it and how everyone is doing have a great month ladies


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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/9/2007 3:55:28 AM   
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I'm going to try to get back to the forums and get past my previous embarrassment... like they say, pride goeth before a fall.
 
Anyway, we've been busy, busy, busy. Putting up a six foot privacy fence around the backyard. Neighbor has saplings that are starting to run around now and that scares the hell out of me since we have a pool and hot tub out there. Finally getting my bike painted!!! Can't wait! It should be up and ready for the Boogie next month!
 
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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/9/2007 4:26:12 AM   
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Hi all

Well my sub has been in the US for a little over 2 weeks with work and I miss his service with a smile.  My garbage hasn't been taken out!!. 

Went to Confessional a few saturdays ago at our BDSM Club here in melbourne, Abode http://www.bluafterglow.com:81/happenings.asp

Had a blast of a time doing some Japanese suspension bondage on a very, very pretty young man.  The boy was wearing rubber, so we needed soft rope that would not tear it, but was strong enough to take his full weight - a feat of engineering, kink and art if I do say so myself!!. 

Tomorrow is a private play party in Melbourne called Twisted Fuk which is "no holes barred", so it should be pretty confronting. I will be doing some needleplay if I can find a willing pin cushion.  The pretty boy from Confessional will be my escort ...lucky me :)

On the work front I have a full time job which is keeping me so, so busy!  I have been a student for the last 2 years so its lovely having some money again to shop, shop SHOP!!!!

Its freezing cold down here in Australia - its our winter.  We have snow in the hills already and violent storms and flooding.  After years of drought we can only shake our heads in disbelief.  Climate change looks pretty real from here.

Sorry I cannot get time to post like I used to. This forum really makes me laugh.  And I learn a lot at the same time.

I will be travelling to Europe in July which will be fun

Chat next month

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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/9/2007 8:30:43 PM   
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chia* here, just a few updates and important moments in my life,

i'm still breathing

i'm still a submissive, though lately i've had these really strange Dominant urges

i've been invited to a dungeon gathering later this month (will need more info to go)

i do possess a heart of gold underneath this scrappy exterior

i've been dubbed a dickhead by perhaps the least intelligent "other" i have ever met

i am still soooooo smitten with Diane

Well, guess that's pretty much it for now, besides the silly, sarcastic, impertinent,

obnoxious, boy with a set of balls, that i am and shall always be.

Hugs and Love, never to patronize, always sincere when offered.

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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/10/2007 1:09:36 AM   
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I am going to chime in.

A few months ago the company I worked for was merged into another, and while I am grateful I still have a job I suppose, the job leaves very much to be desired. My June goal is to find another, different job, possibly in a different line of work. At least get started, and bring a little hope back into my existence. I have yet to put much time and energy into this goal however.

I also was inspired by a thread about teaching Dommes and assignments, and I am going to try to pursue this further, although it does take two, and that is also a challenge. I would like to find an email Domme who would like to give me written assignments, and took an interest in the results.

  My job and other factors in my life have really got me down, and I find I am becoming increasingly isolated, as it just is not fun to share my life with other people right now. One reason I like collarme so much is that I can find fun and interesting people and I can escape for a little while from present circumstances. Everyone (well most) of the people here have creative points of view that are somewhat askew of the norm, which I enjoy. So, I hope to continue to explore on this board and to continue to meet people and exchange emails.

  I am thinking of working up the courage to go to a munch, but I am not quite there yet.

  That’s a paltry and non-specific post, but it will have to do. Perhaps in July I will be able to color in some more detail.


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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/10/2007 6:56:31 AM   
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I also want to add, that I have decided not to start threads here and
I will rarely be posting.
I don't come online to argue, and I really don't feel comfortable or happy posting
 here at the AskAMistress forum, any more.
I have found if you ain't happy many times, you have to "move on".
But, of course I will continue to read most of the posts here and every blue moon,
I will chime in.
I wish most of you well.

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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/10/2007 7:03:41 AM   
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Mostly work, only a little play. So I guess that makes me dull. So far the high point of this month is attending South East Leather Fest and hanging out with a friend who I met through CM. This month I plan to get more use out of my gym membership and perhaps try out some new toys.

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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/10/2007 10:04:12 AM   
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I have just returned from a lovely holiday in Turkey. Very relaxing, and I made use of the 4* facilities for a week! Mmmm that is where Bastinado originated from Turkey, and is still used as a punishment to this very day.

Regards,

Mistress Roug'e

p.s. The U.K. is sunny and hot, just how I like it.

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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/11/2007 4:47:38 AM   
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I am very busy, with many different projects.
I am happy with my new partner.
I plan to travel to Northern California next month to visit friends.
I am also planning on moving by the end of the year, when I buy my
first home.

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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/11/2007 5:41:18 AM   
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Well, I for one will miss your posts MzMia.  I am ignorant of the specifics that have led to this decision but I have enjoyed reading what you share with us.

I wish you well and do hope you will still come join us when it feels comfortable for you to do so.

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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/11/2007 12:17:25 PM   
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Jewel, it is lovely to see you back. I have missed you, Scooter and 2x.

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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/11/2007 8:19:05 PM   
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I am still around.   Don't know how much longer I will be on this site.  I wish, oh how I wish there were a better site. 

Regards, MissSCD

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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/12/2007 8:29:33 PM   
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Hi GoddessKai, a little tip from a corsetiere friend of Mine ... soft pink, peach, or flesh-coloured underwear is far less visible under white clothes than are white garments! Try it, it works!

I'll do My roll call later, gotta go to town now.
Maam Jay

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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/12/2007 9:14:41 PM   
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Dear LadyPact, Ladies and Gentlemen;

I have been keeping my feetie paws running all over the place.  My keyboard has missed me. You know when one is inactive, when there is something on the keyboard instead of aside the keyboard in the "To Do Pile."

My old HP Printer passed away.  So, I got a new HP Printer called a HP Photosmart C7180 "All-in-One."  Unfortunately, I have yet to figure out how to connect with it wireless with my HP Laptop Computer with Vista Home Premium.  My old PC is old and know it will die of old age one of these days.  So, I loaded up the printer onto the old computer and works like a champ.  I just wish that HP would put Vista drivers out there instead of having to download from a site on the Web.  I digress -- this particular printer was selected for many reasons.  Mainly, it is the only printer made that will copy Photo Slides (The old projector slides that were in the 1960's--all the rage when slide shows from a doughnut slide holder and image was on the movie screen).  In addition, it has an ability to make copies of pictures from a roll of film.  I believe it has to be 35mm film.  My father's many pictures can be reborn and perhaps can create a book from his many railroad, interurban, trolley and steam engines.  That was his passion and has a photo in a Railroad book.  Some pictures are rare as the railroad lines died out completely.  For example, the Arlington & Old Dominion Railroad --it stopped running in 1951.  Most railroad leaving the area of Washington, DC have historical ties to the past--to include the Civil War.  In World War I and II, many of the troops were transported to various training camps/boot camps.

It is also a time vampire, to sort through all these old model railroad kits.  Most have never been touched since they were bought.  Some kits are from the mid 1950's.  One kit I believe was 1944.  I think I may have to inquire with the gentlemen of Collarme.com to see if any are model railroad buffs as to get an idea as to the value of these wonderful 'to scale' models.  No plastic!  Mostly wood, tin and lead, in O Gauge.

I have been driving my Mum around to her many doctor appointments.  She will need a stint put into her leg as blood flow is only 40%.  It may be something all of us ladies need to be aware of.  Pain in the leg, tired legs, odd feeling in the legs--might not be just from working on them, standing on them and abusing them--it may be congested and or blocked arteries.  Doppler is used to find this status of leg circulation.  Might want to keep that in mind.  Broken veins--veracois veins--even more reason to be alert with leg pain--it may be a clot and or blood flow/circulation issues.

I attended a ClubFem-Virginia Chapter gathering at The Crucible in Washington, DC on the 9th of June.  I had a lovely time just resting.  I wear gloves, so it is often an interest to see if my gloves get soiled when I go through the buffet` line and self serve, then seat myself and eat--all with gloves on.  I do seem to have inquiries and impromptu inspections of my vintage gloves.  It really is a treat to share vintage gloves with the other ladies.  I did manage to help a first timer feel comfortable serving.  But, mostly--resting and away from care giving was all I really needed.

I will celebrate my 34th year in the Lifestyle this month.  Since I do not celebrate my birthday--I celebrate my life in a different way.

I hope the weather is kinder.  Heat, lack of rain--even the skeeters are holding umbrellas and looking to swim in some water.  Little brown ants are also coming into any moisture as possible.  Many houses have been invaded by these little pests.  Seem to like grease for some reason.

The "Domme-Mobile" has had it's fuel sensor replaced and now the Check Engine light is off.  I found out that if a Check Engine light blinks--shut it off immediately; if its on all the time--its ok to drive it but, do get it inspected.  Now I need to reload the many toy bags into the trunk to be ready for the many events in DC and private parties to come.

Being retired--I find myself working a bit harder than when I had a career.  No pay raises, sick days and such.  Darn!

Respectfully submitted with a bit of humor,
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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/13/2007 3:32:36 AM   
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OK! Might need to keep this short, close to dinner time now!

Tues 5th June I turned 51, and Master spoiled me all day! He made breakfast and dinner and We ate out at lunch! And He shaved me hooray! (See the shaving thread!). Sat 9th June Master and i celebrated having been together 24/7 for 3 years, and collared for 1! I was lucky enough to score a play sub for the weekend, he was great fun, someone I met through this site. Master and I put effort into finally unpacking the play equipment and toys and setting up a Dungeon in the shed. So on Sat, Jay played from 10-4pm, then Master had some grooming tasks to get me back into violet mode (manicure, pedicure and shaving Him!), then W/we went out for a lovely dinner. Sun 10th Jay had more fun with the sub!

W/we have also had some good finance news and so will be able to go ahead with some home improvements that W/we always planned with the new house here. Add to that ... it RAINED (parts of Queensland has been in severe drought for 4 years) - there was 70ml in Our rain gauge in just a couple of days. So Our tanks are all full again. We live out of town so rely on beautiful rainwater for the house and our bore for the garden. So rain is always welcome. However, other than that the weather is absolutely delightful. We're loving Our new abode.

So June is looking ... dare I say it ... absolutely FABULOUS!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/13/2007 9:04:29 AM   
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I just wanted to pop on and thank everyone who has been participating on the thread.  I very much enjoy having the opportunity to hear what is going on in everyone's world.  

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RE: June Roll Call, had to do it. - 6/17/2007 1:56:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
My 28 yo son's life has settled down after his divorce and child custody garbage. He gets to continue having the two terrors ( I say with much love ) for a good 60-70% of the time and things have settled down to a dull roar with the ex.....she is young, emotional and immature....this too shall pass.


Your son is very fortunate and blessed to be able to have that kind of time with his unmentionables, especially when so many fathers totally abandon them.  I hope that my battle is over soon to retain similar visitation rights with mine.  Things are clearly coming to a head in that regard now that I've retained new legal counsel following a year long plus struggle, lots of money having been spent, and little progress to show for it. 
 
It's well past time for this to have been resolved, so all will be free from from the stress of this transition in our lives, particularly my unmentionables who have lived in a world of anxiety from the unknown along with living with the constant anger that is expressed by their mother toward me in front of them.  One can't hardly sleep and clearly is depressed, the other has daytime potty accidents at 7-1/2 and spends far too much time living in a fantasy world inside her head. 
 
I'm thankful for the support I receive from Mistress and the many friends I have here on CM.
 
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