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DiannaVesta -> My Perfect Slave (6/8/2007 5:31:32 AM)

This was a post I made in a forum and wanted to post it here. This is the perfect slave for me. Perhaps the ladies here can relate and have a vision of their perfect partner.


As many articles as I have written over the years or post that I’ve made, I wonder if I ever truly described my perfect slave. I talk about the things I enjoy and these are ever changing through the years. Sexually I continue to evolve and as a woman I have obtained almost everything except “the perfect slave”. In my years I have literally experienced maybe 100’s of relationships both personally and professionally. Even my professional relationships had a personal connection of some sort. That journey introduced me to so many types of men and women, all types of scenes and experiences.



Gosh I hope I don’t get too winded here but I feel like this is the right time to make a very important statement.


It’s true that no one person will ever meet the complexity of all my needs. In 20 years I can count on 1 hand the men that I have allowed to penetrate me and the reason I make this confession is because sex on that level is extreme sacred to me. My perfect slave has reached that level with me and that is the marker I set for the title. There is a spiritual connection that truly does go above and beyond the whole femdom thing; however female domination really is the foundation for all of my relationships. My perfect slave understands this and never makes an attempt to be my equal. In fact he/she prefers the dynamic of female supremacy.


As already stated I don’t want to be treated as fetish object or pursued because I am Goddess Dianna Vesta. My perfect slave loves and adores the woman I am and supports all the different facets of my nature whether it’s hardcore bitch Domina or the woman that puts on cowboy boots & gives birth to baby pigs. When the tears fall from my eyes because an animal is hurt or an old lady falls down, they know that my compassion is also my strength. They see beyond the big tits and round curvy body into my spirit and honor the complexity of it.


Spiritually I continue to evolve and I don’t really have a name for what I believe in, however one thing that is always constant is my commitment to the Divine Feminine. My perfect slave is in touch with this and they too are always in service to this whether its honoring and serving me or the little things that do throughout their day to support this. Its not just the rhetoric they’ve learned from reading books but an energy I have learn to recognize in their spirit. They are 150% committed in serving me so that I can be all that I can be & complete my goals and dreams. I am on the next phase of my journey as Goddess Dianna Vesta and my perfect slave sees to it that I accomplish everything I need to whether its help with my health plan, emotional needs, sexual, financial, whatever it takes they are my right hand in life.


My perfect slave is conscious and aware of the world around them. They care about the environment, state of the planet and actively play some part in healing our planet. They are genuinely kind and not caught up in the drama of life. They see beyond the 1% and experience the vastness of the 99%. Endless possibilities, fearless and always seeking light. I truly dislike negative, passive aggressive people and to be honest there are far too many of these. My perfect slave wakes up with a smile, laughs every day and finds ways to make me laugh and smile.  



Their fascination is with me and not themselves. They truly do get a rush from the simplest things; brushing my hair, bringing me coffee, smelling my scent or even seeing my name. They are deeply in love with me yet they accept and honor the pain of jealousy, humiliation and the intensity of control that I can sometimes inflict upon them because they know I only share this part of me with those I truly care about. My beast is sacred and I have no desire to share it without a consensual connection with someone I love. I have an intensity that will either excite you or scare you. Trust me when I say I will challenge your entire being. I will allow you to get very comfortable just to see how you act before pouncing on you.


I will have other slaves and enjoy other people. Perhaps not the same way but when the need arises I will hunt what I need. My perfect slave supports this and will help me hunt my needs.
I’m open-minded and enjoy mental stimulation. I’m drawn to humiliation not because I need ego stimulation but because it’s truly fascinates me. I am also intrigued by the strength of a man that truly would do anything to please me & not because he’s a wet rag or stupid fool. He only acts like a stupid a stupid fool because he knows that it makes me smile, laugh and gets me hot. Laughter is very healing for me so I look for people in my life that enjoy making me laugh. I love the whole silly sissy thing, groveling slave, etc. but admit that there is a time and place for it; my perfect slave understands this and puts my needs first. Still there is a constant protocol I expect; never treat me like your buddy but as your superior, address me with respect, never touch yourself without permission, act like my property REALLY and just a general tempo I train my slaves. We can laugh, play, etc. but never ever forget your place. My perfect slave is someone I can bring around my family and friends without having to deal with stupid questions.


I enjoy golden showers. Maybe not daily but often. My perfect slave would definitely need to be into this. My perfect slave gets turned on because I enjoy things and never tells me no. My perfect slave has no limits when it comes to me. They trust me enough to know that I will always make the right judgments and consider my actions.


I am truly a natural born Domina/Goddess. I expect to be treated a certain way. My perfect slave literally waits on me hand and foot. I need daily massage, hair brushed, coffee in bed, cooking, cleaning and whatever else I desire.



My perfect slave is my friend, lover, servant, fool and consort.



I need someone that can truly go the distance. I am honestly so sick of flakey ass people that act so committed one day and within a week everything changes. I am sick of being lied to and my time wasted. My perfect slave knows that it’s a high mountain to climb but if willing to prove himself over and over. My perfect slave is a warrior and the strongest of all men even when he’s naked and kneeling before me. They support my work and endeavors without excuses.



Within the next few years I want to film a documentary and finish a few books on female domination. In my heart I know I need that perfect companion by my side. Maybe even two of them. This is by far the most important of all the work I have ever done and my final phase before I retire and go fishing every day. They are as important to the whole project that will be part of history & they know that it is their purpose. I sense that they are close and I know in my heart that these two people exist and that they are finding their way to me now. The door is open and the light is on.



Politesub53 -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/8/2007 7:20:43 AM)

Nicely stated Maam, im sure many hold similar wishes of finding someone who they could call a "submissive soulmate" or vice versa.
[;)]



GuidingLite -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/8/2007 7:58:00 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

This was a post I made in a forum and wanted to post it here. This is the perfect slave for me. Perhaps the ladies here can relate and have a vision of their perfect partner.


As many articles as I have written over the years or post that I’ve made, I wonder if I ever truly described my perfect slave. I talk about the things I enjoy and these are ever changing through the years. Sexually I continue to evolve and as a woman I have obtained almost everything except “the perfect slave”. In my years I have literally experienced maybe 100’s of relationships both personally and professionally. Even my professional relationships had a personal connection of some sort. That journey introduced me to so many types of men and women, all types of scenes and experiences.



Gosh I hope I don’t get too winded here but I feel like this is the right time to make a very important statement.


It’s true that no one person will ever meet the complexity of all my needs. In 20 years I can count on 1 hand the men that I have allowed to penetrate me and the reason I make this confession is because sex on that level is extreme sacred to me. My perfect slave has reached that level with me and that is the marker I set for the title. There is a spiritual connection that truly does go above and beyond the whole femdom thing; however female domination really is the foundation for all of my relationships. My perfect slave understands this and never makes an attempt to be my equal. In fact he/she prefers the dynamic of female supremacy.


As already stated I don’t want to be treated as fetish object or pursued because I am Goddess Dianna Vesta. My perfect slave loves and adores the woman I am and supports all the different facets of my nature whether it’s hardcore bitch Domina or the woman that puts on cowboy boots & gives birth to baby pigs. When the tears fall from my eyes because an animal is hurt or an old lady falls down, they know that my compassion is also my strength. They see beyond the big tits and round curvy body into my spirit and honor the complexity of it.


Spiritually I continue to evolve and I don’t really have a name for what I believe in, however one thing that is always constant is my commitment to the Divine Feminine. My perfect slave is in touch with this and they too are always in service to this whether its honoring and serving me or the little things that do throughout their day to support this. Its not just the rhetoric they’ve learned from reading books but an energy I have learn to recognize in their spirit. They are 150% committed in serving me so that I can be all that I can be & complete my goals and dreams. I am on the next phase of my journey as Goddess Dianna Vesta and my perfect slave sees to it that I accomplish everything I need to whether its help with my health plan, emotional needs, sexual, financial, whatever it takes they are my right hand in life.


My perfect slave is conscious and aware of the world around them. They care about the environment, state of the planet and actively play some part in healing our planet. They are genuinely kind and not caught up in the drama of life. They see beyond the 1% and experience the vastness of the 99%. Endless possibilities, fearless and always seeking light. I truly dislike negative, passive aggressive people and to be honest there are far too many of these. My perfect slave wakes up with a smile, laughs every day and finds ways to make me laugh and smile.  



Their fascination is with me and not themselves. They truly do get a rush from the simplest things; brushing my hair, bringing me coffee, smelling my scent or even seeing my name. They are deeply in love with me yet they accept and honor the pain of jealousy, humiliation and the intensity of control that I can sometimes inflict upon them because they know I only share this part of me with those I truly care about. My beast is sacred and I have no desire to share it without a consensual connection with someone I love. I have an intensity that will either excite you or scare you. Trust me when I say I will challenge your entire being. I will allow you to get very comfortable just to see how you act before pouncing on you.


I will have other slaves and enjoy other people. Perhaps not the same way but when the need arises I will hunt what I need. My perfect slave supports this and will help me hunt my needs.
I’m open-minded and enjoy mental stimulation. I’m drawn to humiliation not because I need ego stimulation but because it’s truly fascinates me. I am also intrigued by the strength of a man that truly would do anything to please me & not because he’s a wet rag or stupid fool. He only acts like a stupid a stupid fool because he knows that it makes me smile, laugh and gets me hot. Laughter is very healing for me so I look for people in my life that enjoy making me laugh. I love the whole silly sissy thing, groveling slave, etc. but admit that there is a time and place for it; my perfect slave understands this and puts my needs first. Still there is a constant protocol I expect; never treat me like your buddy but as your superior, address me with respect, never touch yourself without permission, act like my property REALLY and just a general tempo I train my slaves. We can laugh, play, etc. but never ever forget your place. My perfect slave is someone I can bring around my family and friends without having to deal with stupid questions.


I enjoy golden showers. Maybe not daily but often. My perfect slave would definitely need to be into this. My perfect slave gets turned on because I enjoy things and never tells me no. My perfect slave has no limits when it comes to me. They trust me enough to know that I will always make the right judgments and consider my actions.


I am truly a natural born Domina/Goddess. I expect to be treated a certain way. My perfect slave literally waits on me hand and foot. I need daily massage, hair brushed, coffee in bed, cooking, cleaning and whatever else I desire.



My perfect slave is my friend, lover, servant, fool and consort.



I need someone that can truly go the distance. I am honestly so sick of flakey ass people that act so committed one day and within a week everything changes. I am sick of being lied to and my time wasted. My perfect slave knows that it’s a high mountain to climb but if willing to prove himself over and over. My perfect slave is a warrior and the strongest of all men even when he’s naked and kneeling before me. They support my work and endeavors without excuses.



Within the next few years I want to film a documentary and finish a few books on female domination. In my heart I know I need that perfect companion by my side. Maybe even two of them. This is by far the most important of all the work I have ever done and my final phase before I retire and go fishing every day. They are as important to the whole project that will be part of history & they know that it is their purpose. I sense that they are close and I know in my heart that these two people exist and that they are finding their way to me now. The door is open and the light is on.



likes to service and wets her panties in doing it and has big ta tas.



DiannaVesta -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/8/2007 10:34:33 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Nicely stated Maam, im sure many hold similar wishes of finding someone who they could call a "submissive soulmate" or vice versa.
[;)]


Thank you.
You know I was talking to a man (paid phone domination by phone) and he just wanted to talk and ask questions. He has harbored submissive fantasies all his life but afraid to take the plunge because he feels that his life, as he knows it, will vanish and even though he has these sexual needs he also needs to be loved and cherished. There are so many misconceptions.
I think BDSM is all great and wonderful but female domination is more my thing and it really is about the relationship dynamic more then anything else. I have been passionately in love with slaves & I am sure I will again and again.
 
 
I have not seriously looking for a primary slave for some time. Now I am.



littlesarbonn -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/8/2007 10:41:13 AM)

quote:

I need someone that can truly go the distance. I am honestly so sick of flakey ass people that act so committed one day and within a week everything changes. I am sick of being lied to and my time wasted. My perfect slave knows that it’s a high mountain to climb but if willing to prove himself over and over. My perfect slave is a warrior and the strongest of all men even when he’s naked and kneeling before me. They support my work and endeavors without excuses.



For me, this is where the difficulty tends to come in. I've known you for a long time, and of all the women I've communicated with in the past, your take on things is about the closest to what I see as a desired reality. Now, I know I'm talking about me here, but I'd like to present my own response as a rationale for what makes it so difficult for so many others.

It's a lot like the chivalrous knight who spends his life fighting for the honor and attention of a particular lady. In the end, he has devoted his entire life to just that person, but when it comes to moving from devotion to presenting himself to her, quite often, the knight never makes that leap because he never knows when the devotion must end and, more importantly, HOW to move from one position in life to the other.

It was your line of it being a high mountain to climb that resonated with me, and this is where I think most sincere submissives probably suffer the same fate and disillusionment. Quite often, there's no way to recognize the task ahead, other than that it happens to be synonymous with the epic journey of climbing a high mountain. With a high mountain, you know you need to climb it, go around it, or avoid it altogether (and maybe vacation on the beach). With the synonymous, analogous nature of a mountain, it is sometimes really, really hard to figure out what someone wants from you in order to convince her that you are, in fact, the person who desires to climb that mountain. Sure, it's easier in nature to weed out the time wasters and the liars, because they weed themselves out of the process, but I suspect that there are probably a LOT of people who have been left by the wayside, unsure of where to go from here.

I often find myself in this quagmire. I know I will do whatever is necessary to do the right thing, but quite often the right thing is not all that obvious. Oh sure, we can have the one-wayists who post here come and say "communication is the answer" but we know it's much more than that. Ambiguity breeds ambiguous nature, and it often becomes impossible to surmount.



DiannaVesta -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/8/2007 11:15:07 AM)

wow D that's very reflective and I am sure many guys feel as you do. I call it the "moth to the flame" syndrome because some of you are so attracted by the flame you can't stay away and yet at the same time you can't seem to risk getting burned. Its a trap and until you take the risk it will always entrap you.



I don't even need to tell you how often I am approached. You know more then anyone, I think, the opportunities that present themselves to me. I am a really big fish in the world of female domination so it just makes sense that I would protect myself, however its also a big deterrent because some guys that might make great slaves won't take the risk. In fact I will tell you that its rare for a man to truly step up to my plate and strive to be my primary slave. Sure I enjoy spending time with various people on many levels but a PRIMARY slave is a major deal for me & I don't take that position lightly. I can count on one hand the people that have affected me that way. I can go years and year then the need begins to well in me and I send my desire to the universe. The Goddess always provides for me so I am excited and confident he/she will arrive soon. Actually I am sensing that this time its going to be a man & that is part of the journey I am now about to take.
 
 
 
You are not alone. Still I feel in my heart that if YOU sincerely wanted something then wild horses wouldn't stop you. You just have to be willing to take the risk and set your priorities properly.



Politesub53 -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/8/2007 11:32:00 AM)

Maam, maybe the fact that You are so high profile is the key daunting factor. Some guys may well be able to commit but in a more low key enviroment ?  Its hard enough for many of us to admit what we want privately, without the added pressure of someone being high profile within the lifestyle.
[;)]



DiannaVesta -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/8/2007 11:36:29 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Maam, maybe the fact that You are so high profile is the key daunting factor. Some guys may well be able to commit but in a more low key enviroment ?  Its hard enough for many of us to admit what we want privately, without the added pressure of someone being high profile within the lifestyle.
[;)]



Yes true but I still have a private life & many things are non disclosed. I am sure there are many wonderful gentlemen out there perfect for others. I know that my perfect slave will have to be on their toes, for sure.



frz411 -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/8/2007 12:23:44 PM)

You may be the perfect Domme



MuscleyandCute -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/8/2007 4:30:14 PM)

The perfect D/s is where the submissive is treated well and has high self-esteem, this will allow them to serve with the most desire and humility.  If not it will be little more than shallow fantasy.  We are all human beings and to think that a submissive is there to serve you whenever you want, however you want is delusional if you want to be loved.  This is why a Pro Domme I saw many years ago was practically on her knees for me telling me how pathetic her Ex boyfreinds where and dropping hints all the time.

If you want to be loved in a relationship and not just a fantasy then you need to put in as much as you get out.  If you do not the line of Dominant crosses over into the aspects of love and the submissive will either become a pushover, leave or anything not productive to a loving relationship.


You may have had 100's of subs Diana, but it is all about quality not quantity.


That is my advice, you may take it or leave it I do not care.



planomaid -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/8/2007 5:17:28 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

This was a post I made in a forum and wanted to post it here. This is the perfect slave for me. Perhaps the ladies here can relate and have a vision of their perfect partner.


As many articles as I have written over the years or post that I’ve made, I wonder if I ever truly described my perfect slave. I talk about the things I enjoy and these are ever changing through the years. Sexually I continue to evolve and as a woman I have obtained almost everything except “the perfect slave”. In my years I have literally experienced maybe 100’s of relationships both personally and professionally. Even my professional relationships had a personal connection of some sort. That journey introduced me to so many types of men and women, all types of scenes and experiences.



Gosh I hope I don’t get too winded here but I feel like this is the right time to make a very important statement.


It’s true that no one person will ever meet the complexity of all my needs. In 20 years I can count on 1 hand the men that I have allowed to penetrate me and the reason I make this confession is because sex on that level is extreme sacred to me. My perfect slave has reached that level with me and that is the marker I set for the title. There is a spiritual connection that truly does go above and beyond the whole femdom thing; however female domination really is the foundation for all of my relationships. My perfect slave understands this and never makes an attempt to be my equal. In fact he/she prefers the dynamic of female supremacy.


As already stated I don’t want to be treated as fetish object or pursued because I am Goddess Dianna Vesta. My perfect slave loves and adores the woman I am and supports all the different facets of my nature whether it’s hardcore bitch Domina or the woman that puts on cowboy boots & gives birth to baby pigs. When the tears fall from my eyes because an animal is hurt or an old lady falls down, they know that my compassion is also my strength. They see beyond the big tits and round curvy body into my spirit and honor the complexity of it.


Spiritually I continue to evolve and I don’t really have a name for what I believe in, however one thing that is always constant is my commitment to the Divine Feminine. My perfect slave is in touch with this and they too are always in service to this whether its honoring and serving me or the little things that do throughout their day to support this. Its not just the rhetoric they’ve learned from reading books but an energy I have learn to recognize in their spirit. They are 150% committed in serving me so that I can be all that I can be & complete my goals and dreams. I am on the next phase of my journey as Goddess Dianna Vesta and my perfect slave sees to it that I accomplish everything I need to whether its help with my health plan, emotional needs, sexual, financial, whatever it takes they are my right hand in life.


My perfect slave is conscious and aware of the world around them. They care about the environment, state of the planet and actively play some part in healing our planet. They are genuinely kind and not caught up in the drama of life. They see beyond the 1% and experience the vastness of the 99%. Endless possibilities, fearless and always seeking light. I truly dislike negative, passive aggressive people and to be honest there are far too many of these. My perfect slave wakes up with a smile, laughs every day and finds ways to make me laugh and smile.  



Their fascination is with me and not themselves. They truly do get a rush from the simplest things; brushing my hair, bringing me coffee, smelling my scent or even seeing my name. They are deeply in love with me yet they accept and honor the pain of jealousy, humiliation and the intensity of control that I can sometimes inflict upon them because they know I only share this part of me with those I truly care about. My beast is sacred and I have no desire to share it without a consensual connection with someone I love. I have an intensity that will either excite you or scare you. Trust me when I say I will challenge your entire being. I will allow you to get very comfortable just to see how you act before pouncing on you.


I will have other slaves and enjoy other people. Perhaps not the same way but when the need arises I will hunt what I need. My perfect slave supports this and will help me hunt my needs.
I’m open-minded and enjoy mental stimulation. I’m drawn to humiliation not because I need ego stimulation but because it’s truly fascinates me. I am also intrigued by the strength of a man that truly would do anything to please me & not because he’s a wet rag or stupid fool. He only acts like a stupid a stupid fool because he knows that it makes me smile, laugh and gets me hot. Laughter is very healing for me so I look for people in my life that enjoy making me laugh. I love the whole silly sissy thing, groveling slave, etc. but admit that there is a time and place for it; my perfect slave understands this and puts my needs first. Still there is a constant protocol I expect; never treat me like your buddy but as your superior, address me with respect, never touch yourself without permission, act like my property REALLY and just a general tempo I train my slaves. We can laugh, play, etc. but never ever forget your place. My perfect slave is someone I can bring around my family and friends without having to deal with stupid questions.


I enjoy golden showers. Maybe not daily but often. My perfect slave would definitely need to be into this. My perfect slave gets turned on because I enjoy things and never tells me no. My perfect slave has no limits when it comes to me. They trust me enough to know that I will always make the right judgments and consider my actions.


I am truly a natural born Domina/Goddess. I expect to be treated a certain way. My perfect slave literally waits on me hand and foot. I need daily massage, hair brushed, coffee in bed, cooking, cleaning and whatever else I desire.



My perfect slave is my friend, lover, servant, fool and consort.



I need someone that can truly go the distance. I am honestly so sick of flakey ass people that act so committed one day and within a week everything changes. I am sick of being lied to and my time wasted. My perfect slave knows that it’s a high mountain to climb but if willing to prove himself over and over. My perfect slave is a warrior and the strongest of all men even when he’s naked and kneeling before me. They support my work and endeavors without excuses.



Within the next few years I want to film a documentary and finish a few books on female domination. In my heart I know I need that perfect companion by my side. Maybe even two of them. This is by far the most important of all the work I have ever done and my final phase before I retire and go fishing every day. They are as important to the whole project that will be part of history & they know that it is their purpose. I sense that they are close and I know in my heart that these two people exist and that they are finding their way to me now. The door is open and the light is on.



Lady Diana,

As with many of your messages, this one was enjoyable to read, thought-provoking, and yet another window upon your inner self.  A BDSM relationship is often a tangled skein, but I like to think that if the partners are honest with each other, so many obstacles can be overcome.  I think what you are asking for is deeply rooted in everyone - finding that one true match of a person with whom life is fulfilling every day, even when its just crap. 

Thank you for sharing, and I hope you do find that special person you are looking for.



homedespot -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/8/2007 5:33:59 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MuscleyandCute
You may have had 100's of subs Diana, but it is all about quality not quantity.

Strangely enough i do believe that was the point that the Goddess was trying to make.
                                                                                                                                                                                It is rare to see a post that so succinctly lays out a position so clearly. i for one appreciated Her honesty.
While i cannot subscribe to female supremacy as a concept i truly believe Mistress to be superior to me, it is an indescribable feeling to serve that special person whom it seems can fill Your very soul. So many points rang true with me. i love the fact that Mistress can fix me with a stare that brooks no opposition and yet turns to me for support when She needs a shoulder to lean on. As the Goddess states, it is a spiritual experience and i have no desire to be Her equal: for that would be cheating both of us.
i smile as i think of the enjoyment i get from tending to Her needs. i love brushing Her hair, i laugh as i cant see Her face in the morning (Dommes don't always look perfect) as She groans under a mound of pillows while i serve Her coffee. i admire Her confidence as i catch Her square with a snowball and She returns the favour. In short i admire everything about Her both the evil bitch and the sensitive woman.
i would like to thank the Goddess Dianna Vesta for writing what She did. She layed out so many of my own feelings, allbeit from a different point of view.
Living and serving in a Femdomme relationship is something that cannot be compared to anything else and thank heaven for that.







jssubc -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/8/2007 5:42:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: homedespot

quote:

ORIGINAL: MuscleyandCute
You may have had 100's of subs Diana, but it is all about quality not quantity.

Strangely enough i do believe that was the point that the Goddess was trying to make.
                                                                                                                                                                               It is rare to see a post that so succinctly lays out a position so clearly. i for one appreciated Her honesty.
While i cannot subscribe to female supremacy as a concept i truly believe Mistress to be superior to me, it is an indescribable feeling to serve that special person whom it seems can fill Your very soul. So many points rang true with me. i love the fact that Mistress can fix me with a stare that brooks no opposition and yet turns to me for support when She needs a shoulder to lean on. As the Goddess states, it is a spiritual experience and i have no desire to be Her equal: for that would be cheating both of us.
i smile as i think of the enjoyment i get from tending to Her needs. i love brushing Her hair, i laugh as i cant see Her face in the morning (Dommes don't always look perfect) as She groans under a mound of pillows while i serve Her coffee. i admire Her confidence as i catch Her square with a snowball and She returns the favour. In short i admire everything about Her both the evil bitch and the sensitive woman.
i would like to thank the Goddess Dianna Vesta for writing what She did. She layed out so many of my own feelings, allbeit from a different point of view.
Living and serving in a Femdomme relationship is something that cannot be compared to anything else and thank heaven for that.

OOPS
Remind me not to post using Mistresses laptop without logging out   [:)]








LadyPact -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/8/2007 8:07:25 PM)

A very well written post.  Thank you for sharing it.
 
I have to admit, I have never put so much thought into the perfect sub/slave.  I've never considered perfection, because I don't believe perfection exists.  Not in people anyway.  A perfect moment, perhaps, but not a perfect person.  That doesn't mean that a boy hasn't done the right thing at just the right moment at times.  I was thinking of some of those examples just earlier today.  Those kinds of things make for wonderful memories.  Still, as wonderful as any of My boys were (when they were My boys) none of them were perfect, nor did I expect them to be. 



LadyHeart -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/8/2007 8:22:05 PM)

I am reminded of the woman who went to her therapist asking why she couldn't find the perfect man. The therapist asked what she was looking for, and she trotted out her "shopping list." When she was done, the therapist said, "Wow! He sounds amazing! Now tell me, dear, would he want to date you?"
So I look at your list, and I take it as a great incentive to me to be the person that my perfect slave wants as his Mistress....Thank you!
:))
LH



MuscleyandCute -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/9/2007 4:15:12 AM)

Sorry but I want to educate I plead, when a Domme gets so entrenched into the commercial aspects of female domination its often a shot in her own foot relationship wise.  I assume what a Domme seeks relationship wise narrows down to a man who wants to hold her hand, make her laugh and hold her in his arms and all the other things in that sense.  I know that for myself those things are more important than that she is a Domme yet I would want the person I love to happen to be also a Domme.


Those who have so much to give do not give it easily because the reason they have so much to give is because they are GREEDY and they want to GIVE A LOT to GET A LOT.  I am a very greedy submissive.  Not really, all I meant to say is that the more one has to offer the more one will require reciprocation.


The subs like this often tend to hold resent towards that which exploits them, I do not mean exploit emotively but I mean it as merely descriptively.  "Its just demand and supply" as they say.  The resent they often hold being emotive however.


I have been on the front line of this many years ago when a woman who manipulates the market for gain started to fall for me.  I could tell she would have been really a lovely girl and we truly loved each other yet but because of the circumstance..............................not in this life.


If you want to find a man who will love you look for the Pro Domme hater who has so much love to give but feels bitter at many Dommes for taking that for granted, but not that many would care anyway which comes round and re-enforces his hate making him appear to the naive that by virtue of his acidity he has nothing to offer at all.


Its the social environment of Female Domination.  We know that good subs are few and far between, subs who want to know and love a Domme for who she is not her whip.  This is something that many Dommes take issue with I know, yet on the other side there are few Dommes who want to know a male sub for who HE is.  On either side of the sub and the Dommes problem we have sex and money. 


However it is often that a male sub who takes issue with those who want his money will get extreme phsycological abuse, yet all he is doing is the same as the Domme in that he is complaining the Dommes do not want to know him for who he is, its parrallel regardless sex or money its all the same, sex the problem for Dommes, money the problem for subs.  


This abuse metted out on these subs is part of a social environment that will make it much harder for a Domme to find love. Much harder for a sub to find love.  Many who are either Domme or male subs dropping from the scene like flies to find love elsewhere among Vanillas.  The relationship people on these sites are RARE (femdom speaking) and I think it not likely that either Dommes or subs will find love on places in which the commercialization pushes out the relationship aspects.  Business and pleasure do not mix, yet in this case on a much larger scale in terms of social engineering. 


If you want love get the fuck down on your knees and apologize prefusely, its not just about D/s.


PS: Ive just noticed this post says its in reply to LadyHeart, its not I just pressed the reply button like that I dunno!!!  This post is a general address not specific to anyone, you do not have to listen to it or give it any credence it is entirely up to you.



MuscleyandCute -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/9/2007 4:32:51 AM)


Hello honedspot, I like your profile text you come across as pretty sincere and genuinely Dominant.  I notice your not fond of those who are looking to get "laid and whipped".  I guess that might be because thats not getting to know you as a person?

Same here except money not people wanting to get laid lol!  I think I could so serve you till your head explodes! lol.  Good luck finding someone I think you are more likely than many, just dont scorn 'em when they slate Pro's.

I spoke to a Domme as physically stunning as you a while ago and she told me that all the guys who she was interested in seemed to have a chip on their shoulder about Pro Dommes etc.  She was very confused that there was a correlation between the guys being of interest to her yet they had a chip on their shoulder about Pro's etc.  Poor girl, she thought it was a co-incidence but lol it aint!


I notice at the top of your text it says "most men responding are complete idiots!" says it all really (not about you Im sure your great!)


I like the "Beachcombing bit" in your likes list, good to have ones Vanilla interests written.  I think your profile doesnt have enough about Vanilla interests to be honest, I think it might help if you put some more stuff about what you look for in a partner not just a sub.


Well there you go, a sub who has made the effort to read your whole profile.  Apparently thats rare or so Ive heard.


If you hate me or dislike what Ive said I still think your are really cute and lovely.



MuscleyandCute -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/9/2007 4:56:51 AM)

One persons ignorance and bliss is anothers enlightentment and pain.........lol




Politesub53 -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/9/2007 5:27:22 AM)

Hi Muscley. The reason your reply shows to be to LadyHeart is if you use the box at the bottom it shows the name of the previous poster.

I dont disagree with your post except for the fact you seem to assume all Pro Dommes are the same, thats like people thinking all submissives are the same, which isnt the case.
While i can see that asking for money to " get to know Me " may well be a come on, i can also see the point about a Mistress being fed up of talking to guys who waste Her time. There must be some guys who actually enjoy spending their money in this way, and fair play to them.

i guess their are two sides to every argument and we can only do what we think is right for us.



MuscleyandCute -> RE: My Perfect Slave (6/9/2007 7:07:42 AM)

Thanks for your input Politesub.  Lets forget about the issue of whether there are Pro Dommes out there who are nice people, Im sure there are a few.  Im talking about social enginnering.  Lets also forget about whether this is Dommes and subs, pencils and chickens, trains and planes or whatever.


When the ratio is the proffessed 1:100 this will make it hard for the "100" AND for the "1".  People do not realize this though!!! Most see it as face value and think that the "1" will have it easy but this is not so. 


The reason for this is because ultimatly it is 1:1 in the recesses of everyones mind when considering a life partner, in some cases we have open understanding poly relationships too.


However the 1:100 make it harder becuase this causes a social climate in which the standards and expections of the 1:1 in the minds of the 100 and the 1, will make things nothing like they seem.  Causing the female Domination scene to be a complete mess in many ways.


If it was 1:1 then this would mean that Pro Dommes would have a better reputation, the ratio of good Pro Dommes would increase, it would be far easier for Dommes who want a decent relationship to find one, it would be far easier for subs to find a decent relationship, it would be easier for a sub to find a decent Pro, there would be more transparency to the whole female Domination dynamic, there would be a much better support network for the female domination relationship dynamic, relationship orienteted Dommes and subs wouldnt feel the need to give up, I wouldnt be abused for complaining about what in essence is everyones elses problem too when you really think about it, female Domination would be much more attractive to Dommes and subs entering, Angelina Jolie can finally have that stable of 3 hunky males to scrub her floors naked making them jelous and working them off against each other yet all sitting round their dinner table as one unit that she always wanted for Christmas then having her freinds round with their other slaves and race them on a track (on their hands and knees) competing to get their Mistress 1st prize for which he gets a piece of bread and she gets the champagne, ok he will want some too dont take the piss, lol.  We would all get along much better and so on.


but until then?...................no dice. 


Its like a volatile imbalance of chemicals casusing an explosion.   In the recent Big Brother show where there are 10 women and 1 man I heard a social sceintist say it will end up FUBAR in there.  Perhaps a PERFECT example!?  WATCH IT 'N' TELL ME WHAT YA THINK!!!!

*ahem*



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