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What is Y/your opinion on toy collections?

D: I have quite a set!

30% (16)

D: New person - new set.

5% (3)

D/s: Depends on the toy.

30% (16)

s: Hey, what've You got there??

11% (6)

s: I want my own. Mine!

22% (12)

Total Votes : 53

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RE: What is Y/your opinion on toy collections? - 6/8/2007 5:02:42 PM

shyinini

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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

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First off, Sir doesnt have multiple partners. I have learned the difference between a lying decieving snake and a man of integrity...

having multiple partners makes you a lying decieving snake??

as long as i know about it...whether its because i know its going to happen as part of the set up of a relationship or because he tells me he's going to do it...its perfectly fine...just because you are not poly oriented doesn't make the rest of the world so....

If you keep another's thoughts in context, you will not leap to a misconclusion of what another said. Is not clarification a better way?

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RE: What is Y/your opinion on toy collections? - 6/8/2007 5:12:15 PM

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"I'm the drunken high woman, that youre too scared to mention
I spend my cash on booze and hash 'cause I've anal retention
The devil take your whipping bench and kinky toy collection
From what you have you'll qualify for long legal detention"

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RE: What is Y/your opinion on toy collections? - 6/8/2007 6:35:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: hotwater07
So what is Y/your opinion? Is it okay to use toys on multiple partners, specifically sex toys?
(I'm sorry if I posted this in the wrong place)

There is no one way answer here. It really depends on the people, the types of toys and risks one is will to take.

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RE: What is Y/your opinion on toy collections? - 6/8/2007 6:54:44 PM

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Glad to see the other thread inspired an idea for a new one. I love all types of discussions on toys, even the safety issues.

The floggers, single-tail, canes, etc. I don't see any problem with using on more than one person. The crown jewel of My collection was $140.00, and I'm not replacing it for every new submissive that comes along. Huge difference between those and the insertables.

As far as insertables go, I don't see any issue if a condom is used and they are cleaned well. I've always instructed My boys on proper cleaning, and then they take care of it. If they are not comfortable with the toy having been used on someone else, they are free to purchase one for Me to use solely on them.

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RE: What is Y/your opinion on toy collections? - 6/8/2007 7:06:34 PM

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We use more condoms on toys than on dicks.
We encourage subs to have their own toys and their own lube, but for some it is impossible.
I also favour having the sub clean the toys BEFORE a session rather than afterwards, for their own peace of mind, and for better hygiene standards - more likely to be thorough if it's for yourself! And the anticippppation is increased...
We have play collars, but there are personal collars we don't share - they are not toys but possessions.
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RE: What is Y/your opinion on toy collections? - 6/8/2007 7:12:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: shyinini

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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

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ORIGINAL: shyinini

First off, Sir doesnt have multiple partners. I have learned the difference between a lying decieving snake and a man of integrity...

having multiple partners makes you a lying decieving snake??

as long as i know about it...whether its because i know its going to happen as part of the set up of a relationship or because he tells me he's going to do it...its perfectly fine...just because you are not poly oriented doesn't make the rest of the world so....

If you keep another's thoughts in context, you will not leap to a misconclusion of what another said. Is not clarification a better way?

would you be so kind as to clarify your initial statement, quoted in pink?

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RE: What is Y/your opinion on toy collections? - 6/9/2007 2:34:45 AM

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I wouldn't share toys ment for breaking skin, but I have and will again share my sex toys with people I was fluid bonded with, and who were std free. And yeah condoms are not only a good way to keep them icky stuff free, but easier clean up sometimes too, and sometimes I have reactions to material, but it's a great toy, and condoms keeps the offensive material from bugging me.

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RE: What is Y/your opinion on toy collections? - 6/9/2007 5:06:48 AM

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I grew up with the "condoms are your friends" stuff all through school so anything that gets put inside someone gets wrapped(when it comes to me at least)....condoms, gloves, dams whatever so in *theory* a good autoclave would mean I would share insertables....
Toys that draw blood would have to be for me and me only...
Given I am so uptight I think its fair I supply the toys

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RE: What is Y/your opinion on toy collections? - 6/9/2007 5:45:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: hotwater07
So what is Y/your opinion? Is it okay to use toys on multiple partners, specifically sex toys?

Some toys get re used <Floggers, paddles,non insertables, Nylon rope> others are used on only one partner <insertables, any blood contact toys like knives, needles, wurtenburg wheel, canes>

Once you take a blood borne pathogens class you start to get a bit paranoid. If it cannot be Autoclaved and comes in contact with body fluids it should be covered or a new toy used. Then again I also make sure I cover my cock between partners cause I really don't have a desire to autoclave it.

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RE: What is Y/your opinion on toy collections? - 6/9/2007 6:58:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

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ORIGINAL: shyinini

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ORIGINAL: chellekitty

quote:

ORIGINAL: shyinini

First off, Sir doesnt have multiple partners. I have learned the difference between a lying decieving snake and a man of integrity...

having multiple partners makes you a lying decieving snake??

as long as i know about it...whether its because i know its going to happen as part of the set up of a relationship or because he tells me he's going to do it...its perfectly fine...just because you are not poly oriented doesn't make the rest of the world so....

If you keep another's thoughts in context, you will not leap to a misconclusion of what another said. Is not clarification a better way?

would you be so kind as to clarify your initial statement, quoted in pink?

First off, Sir doesnt have multiple partners. I have learned the difference between a lying decieving snake and a man of integrity...
My Sir doesnt have multiple partners. I have learned by expereince that some men do have multiple partners and dont have the integrity to tell the other sub about them because they are lying decieving snakes. The boards are filled with such stories......
I hope my clarification helps you understand that I did not say...
having multiple partners makes you a lying decieving snake??

Sir's property, His ONLY property

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RE: What is Y/your opinion on toy collections? - 6/9/2007 7:01:22 AM

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earthy - I don't agree with part of your reasoning. A living thing like a finger exfoliates over time, shedding foreign dna and so on. A dead thing like a vibrator does not. Microfissures along the surface can pick up god knows what and hold onto them for a long, long time.

I am with HypnoticDan on this one.
I rather be safe, than sorry, especially these days.

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RE: What is Y/your opinion on toy collections? - 6/9/2007 7:15:31 AM

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earthy - I don't agree with part of your reasoning. A living thing like a finger exfoliates over time, shedding foreign dna and so on. A dead thing like a vibrator does not. Microfissures along the surface can pick up god knows what and hold onto them for a long, long time.

so I can't shove my fingers in two different people until I've shed all my skin? lmao Sorry just to funny a joke to pass up

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RE: What is Y/your opinion on toy collections? - 6/9/2007 7:54:27 AM

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I'm in the "depends on the toy" group. Insertables need to either be condommed, or kept to a single user. Even silicone can eventually develop micro-fissures. A toy like a Whartenburg wheel, however, that can be sterilized with confidence, can be shared freely.

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RE: What is Y/your opinion on toy collections? - 6/9/2007 7:58:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: shyinini
My Sir doesnt have multiple partners. I have learned by expereince that some men do have multiple partners and dont have the integrity to tell the other sub about them because they are lying decieving snakes. The boards are filled with such stories......

Not really (maybe chelle is though).

But I'll try this, we both agree that there are some people who lack integrity- both ones who are monogamous and ones who have multiple partners.

You specifically have been with people who lack integrity and cheated on you with other partners because of it.

Your currently partner is monogamous AND has integrity.

The way you put the two sentences together in your first response does make it sound very negative towards multiple partners.

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