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ORIGINAL: Kinkypupper

agreedd to what was earlier "She decided".. is NOT the correct comment here.
YOU decide and she accepts is much better form..
If you have not decided and you both have accepted what it means to wear a collar by "your" mutual termanolagy then great.
In my termonology a collar is like a wedding band on steroids, the responsibility, the commitment , is also just as much on steroids then a "normal" marrage. she must accept that the collar is being locked on her neck for as long as YOU decide it is not removable like a wedding ring is. You also need to accept that depth of responsibility toward her care, training and wellbeing.
The word "no" as a reply to something she is told by you is just not done, the word "yes sir" is.
If you wish to go fuck someone and have her stand there and watch, is she ready do accept that from you, just as are you ready to accept any "damage" to her that might create.

Is she and are YOU ready for that depth of commitment and trust.