LadyHeart -> RE: "dry orgasms" in men (6/10/2007 9:30:37 PM)
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Dry orgasm and holding off are not the same. Someone who hasn't experienced a dry orgasm will really have little comprehension of what this thread is about, since it is something that cannot be willed, and is rather rare. It also happens in women from time to time, but again, if it hasn't happened to you, you won't have a clue what it's about. It's a bit like a "born again" trying to "explain" his experience of the divine to someone who hasn't been there. A man can have a full on orgasm, but nothing comes out, yet his balls are still full. It may never happen to an individual, and it can't be controlled or commanded. It just happens occasionally for no apparent reason. Sometimes it's related to the state of arousal but not always. It's more likely to happen when the body is aroused but the mind isn't. It's more of a physical state than a mental state, which is why it isn't under conscious control, and happens more in older men. I have met only two men who have experienced it, but they were clearly talking about the same thing. Both were sexually active, virile, and didn't have any erection or ejaculation problems. :)) LH
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