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RE: Where is the effort? - 6/9/2007 11:05:35 PM

EvilGeoff

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ORIGINAL: goodgirl85

Why is that most of the Doms that contact me, think simply because they are a Dom, that i will respond to "Hi, Im a Dom, wanna talk?" and ontop of that their profile is empty, or virtually so.

Truthfully?

Because, girl, most of the "Doms" that contact you, are not Dominants at all. They are horney net geeks who think they can get quick, easy cyber, phone, or real nookie by claiming they are a Dominant. They believe submissive = needy, stupid, easy.

Don't feed the pretend-a-be's.

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RE: Where is the effort? - 6/9/2007 11:11:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

My favorite is always the one liner..."Tell me a little about yourself".

How little can I get away with? :D

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RE: Where is the effort? - 6/10/2007 12:44:33 AM

Trampler

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Got a message from a sub asking for a session, and I asked him to write back telling what his bdsm interests and vanilla interests were, he wrote back saying "what would you like to knw" Duhhh!! self explanotory!

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RE: Where is the effort? - 6/10/2007 8:36:37 AM

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I get a few of those too. Haven't got 10 or 15 though.

Usually I do a little quick recon of my own to decide if Im interested enough to reply with more than a polite brush off.
I'll admit, I'm guilty at the quick check for a hot photo and a scan of the interests but mostly what im looking for is a feel. I think you can get a good feel about a person just by noticing what they select, what they write and what photo they choose to post or not post.

I guess I don't really expect tons of effort early on and frankly, to be completely honest, if a man puts too much effort into it, I get turned off.

Best odds of getting my attention (not that anyone knows they want it yet

) Is a short email in response to either something I've posted, hence your interest in me being genuine, or pointing out that we have something in common.

Interesting thing that rattles in my head however, is early on, I read somewhere that when a new sub comes into the scene, she will be overrun my potential Doms.. but the good ones will stand back and wait, not push themselves forward. Is it true? I dunno, but it has caused me to pay special attention to those men on the parimater.

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RE: Where is the effort? - 6/10/2007 9:54:12 AM

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I was referring more to the idea of the "type" of responses that would come from those that are less polite than you.
It's not that what they say in response has any power over me. I find the "efforts" of some men quite laughable to be honest.

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