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a definition please - 6/9/2007 8:55:13 PM

pleaseteaseswitc

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What does cuckholding mean?I always thought it was an old word that on one uses anymore that has to do with adultry but I hear it used around here a lot considering that I otherwise never hear it.

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RE: a definition please - 6/9/2007 9:27:16 PM

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from what i understand it means when one partner in a relationship forces the other partner to watch them have sex with someone else. i could be wrong but i believe this is the simple definition. Hope it helps.

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RE: a definition please - 6/9/2007 11:48:23 PM

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In plain English, a cuckold is a man who stands by and accepts his wife's infidelity, being sexually excited by her actions. He may have normal sexual relations with his wife part of the time, or he may accept that his wife has chosen another man to replace him completely in her sexual bed.

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RE: a definition please - 6/10/2007 12:24:17 AM

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I've also heard it described as a situation in which, for example, the male is restrained and is forced to watch his Mistress masturbate across the room. Wether or not this is accurate, I do not know.

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RE: a definition please - 6/10/2007 1:42:09 AM

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the definition from the oxford english dictioanry is simply
"a man whose wife has committed adultery"
any other conotations are purely from common usage .. all the business about watching it or taking pleasure from .. are not the true meaning

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RE: a definition please - 6/10/2007 2:26:38 AM

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The word actually stems from Cuckoo, in some species the female would leave her eggs in the nest of others, who would hatch them. This gave rise to the theory that the bird was unfaithful. The word Cuckold was mentioned in English plays and essays around 1300 from what i can gather... More useless information for a quiet Sunday !

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RE: a definition please - 6/10/2007 3:57:25 AM

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As a fetish cuckolding frequently involves the slave/sub/hubby watching his wife have sex with another, being humiliated with the knowledge that she is going out to find others to fuck, and/or the financial element of "You support me and I'm using your money to buy dresses/pedicures/shoes/what have you to go pick up other men." There is a wide variety within the cuckolding fetish, and some subs want to be cuckolded in a very specific way, others just want their Mistress to feel free to find other sexual partners as she desires.

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