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VioletWandMaster -> Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 1:09:12 PM)

Ok, Here goes,  I have been in the lifestyle for about 10 years now. I have recently come to realize that I am much more of a Daddy Dom than I am a strict leather Dom, However here is my delima. I do enjoy edge play Wax, Violetwands. Hell for that matter, I own an OBGYN table. The thing I can seem to figure out is how to mix the edge play activitys with the Daddy Dom role. Anyway any suggestions would be apprecated. Nasty comments will be ignored. 



earthycouple -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 1:13:08 PM)

you can mix anything you like.  While I don't care for the "daddy/daughter" deal myself...I know a couple who easily make it look HOT.  And he does lots of fun things...from bondage, and traditional spanking to hard core tossing around and hitting.

If you choose for the "reward" or "punishment" for "good/bad" girl behavior to be wax or violet wands then go for it! 

and by the way....violet wands rock!



VioletWandMaster -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 1:18:17 PM)

Thank you very much. I apprecate the input. It is much apprecated. :)



Merritt27 -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 2:15:35 PM)

Our relationship has taken more than a few twists and turns since we have been together.  In the beginning we functioned as a Daddy/daughter couple.  That served as a sort of springboard for everything else.  We have mixed quite a bit of edge play in with it and it has always been wonderful.  Communication was the key to that, just like it would be to add something new to a vanilla relationship.  Lets face it, there are just some days when you're mentally not up to it.  Thats where Daddy came in.  He was able to read the expressions on my face and my body language well enough to know that I was doing it because he asked me to, not because the thought of it turned me on at that moment.  Sometimes he would push forward and keep watching me closely, or sometimes he would switch gears totally and pull me up into bed with my bear and just hold me.  Either way, I felt loved and taken care of.  



salilus -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 2:20:24 PM)

I can't imagine why not... so long as both parties enjoyed it.

Daddy does quite a few 'edgy' things to me, including breath play and needle play. He's still my loving Daddy - he just get's nasty sometimes :D



VioletWandMaster -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 2:21:36 PM)

Very nice, Thank you for your reply. Its nice to see that there are other couples out there that mix it up as well. 



WhiplashSmile -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 2:25:06 PM)

You should be able to do Daddy Dom outside the bedroom, and be the Edge Playing Slave Master in the bedroom.  I see no problem in anybody being able to carry out both.  Hell you can even be a Sadistic Daddy if you want.
   




VioletWandMaster -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 2:27:47 PM)

You all have great responces. Its very nice to have a sounding board, thank you very much. 



imthatacheyouhav -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 2:27:53 PM)

While i don't have a "Daddy Dom" relationship with Master...we do have a VERY loving, and tender relationship...Master and i both want to "turn up the heat," so to say...and i, in noway feel that doing so will take away from the loving tender relationship we already share....in fact, it may indeed add to it.



lighthearted -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 2:52:18 PM)

we use the term Daddy in our relationship, not because of ageplay, but because of the feelings we have for each other.  we are both quite comfortable with the term, however, it doesn't stop him from being the sadistic, face-slapping, crop-wielding evil devil that he is...and that I adore...

we use labels in our relationship for our own convenience, not anyone else's [:)]



adoracat -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 2:53:21 PM)

i have a DaddyDom relationship with Sir, although i am his lil girl, and NOT his daughter.  nuh-uh, no way.

he also gets VERY nasty at times...bladeplay and biting, and leaving marks which i adore.

so absolutely whatever you wish in your relationship.

kitten, who is heatstressed



SimplyMichael -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 2:54:59 PM)

Remember thought that any more than 32.5% leather dom mixed with a high ratio of Daddy Dom results in a LEaddy Dom which is too heavy.



WhiplashSmile -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 3:10:27 PM)

I have to say it "Whips and Chains and Coloring Books!"  LOL..



PairOfDimes -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 3:43:37 PM)

I like violet wand use and wax play quite well, but I don't think of either as invariably heavy SM or edge play. This invariably informs my answer.

That said, one can do heavy pain and adopt a nurturing role. I've done that. With a little creativity and suspension of disbelief, you can integrate "high tech" toys (like electricity units) into more domestic or historical roleplays, too--I've done that, as well. One person I know has a pink teddy bear electrode for the violet wand to integrate ageplay and the violet wand, which I find both a touch precious and appealing. Parental ageplay isn't my thing, so I don't have personal experience integrating heavy SM and parent/child roleplay. However, I'm acquainted with a delighful couple who do both at once, I've seen them play, and it's hot, and it doesn't seem to raise eyebrows.

Of course, you can do the "daddy" thing and the "sadist" thing without doing them at the same time, too. I compartmentalize other roles, and adopt different moods with different people (and on different occasions) and it seems to work pretty well.

And, P.S. I envy your exam table!



Elorin -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 3:44:54 PM)

Sir and I do a LOT of edge play, including fire, cutting, piercing, temporary branding, and breath play, but we rarely do it in the Daddy/girl mindset. Although, I do have to say my inner little girl LIKES to have her toes set on fire, and definitely does NOT like devil's fire.

However, we are comfortably able to be Daddy and girl at some points in our relationship and he can still be evil sadistic limit pushing bastard in others.

~E



VioletWandMaster -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 3:52:46 PM)

Well this is all wonderful advice. By the way there was one comment on my exam table. So I will include a link to it. Once I find a partner..Ill be able to put it to use.

http://denverbound.net/wand/physicia.jpg
http://denverbound.net/wand/physicia1.jpg
http://denverbound.net/wand/physicia2.jpg




kyraofMists -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 3:56:14 PM)

I heard a Daddy in the Leather lifestyle say that the difference between a Daddy and a Sadist is the smile.  He had a wonderful smile too.  *s*

I think it quite possible for  a Daddy to enjoy edge play.

Knight's kyra



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 4:26:44 PM)

You're still daddy, just daddy doing things most other daddies don't.



ProfJoe -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 4:39:28 PM)

I don't see the problem. Daddy has a hard edge, y'know, that needs buffing occasionally. I assume many of us sort of take the edge with us when we move from place to place. Daddies can be sadist, too. (Gee, would that be a good bumper sticker?)

Respectfully, Prof. joe



adoracat -> RE: Do Daddy Dom and edge play mix? (6/10/2007 4:41:48 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile

I have to say it "Whips and Chains and Coloring Books!"  LOL..



*writes this down gleefully to tell Sir*

thank you! 

kitten, who is giggling



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