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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

I smile when called a bitch, even when the speaker intends it as an insult. Why?
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ORIGINAL: Elorin

I still react negatively when it's said from the wrong person, but Daddy can call me the most hideous things and I just get drenched.

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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

I smile when called a bitch, even when the speaker intends it as an insult. Why?
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I used to take offense to someone calling me a "bitch" ,"slut" and a few others...... I have since discovered the words coupled with the right voice take me to new heights.

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ORIGINAL: SirDominic

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I used to take offense to someone calling me a "bitch" ,"slut" and a few others...... I have since discovered the words coupled with the right voice take me to new heights.

What you are discovering is that intent and emotion behind the words is everything. You say you "used to" take offense. Wouldn't you still, if it was from a complete stranger? Guys whose first email uses such words just don't have a clue. They think it makes them sound domly, but it just shows that they don't really get what a Dom is.

But once the trust in a relationship is established, the caring you want is there, those very same words lose their bite. Imagine what it feels like when you can feel your heat rising, your intensity growing right now with that pleasure of being naughty with someone who knows who you are, and cares what you want. Even a harsh Master can leave you dripping when you know that at his core, you are what turns him on.

I'm not suggesting there aren't women who wouldn't melt being called those things by a complete stranger. But even with them, it would have to be the "right" stranger. One whose presence is so full of power and eroticism that you allow your defenses to be brushed aside. When you can feel that intensity raising the heat within your body, now with me I think that is when you can make an instant connection.

Namaste, Sir Dominic

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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

I smile when called a bitch, even when the speaker intends it as an insult. Why?
B eautiful
I ndividual
T hat
C auses
H ardons

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ORIGINAL: SirDominic

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I used to take offense to someone calling me a "bitch" ,"slut" and a few others...... I have since discovered the words coupled with the right voice take me to new heights.

What you are discovering is that intent and emotion behind the words is everything. You say you "used to" take offense. Wouldn't you still, if it was from a complete stranger? Guys whose first email uses such words just don't have a clue. They think it makes them sound domly, but it just shows that they don't really get what a Dom is.

But once the trust in a relationship is established, the caring you want is there, those very same words lose their bite. Imagine what it feels like when you can feel your heat rising, your intensity growing right now with that pleasure of being naughty with someone who knows who you are, and cares what you want. Even a harsh Master can leave you dripping when you know that at his core, you are what turns him on.

I'm not suggesting there aren't women who wouldn't melt being called those things by a complete stranger. But even with them, it would have to be the "right" stranger. One whose presence is so full of power and eroticism that you allow your defenses to be brushed aside. When you can feel that intensity raising the heat within your body, now with me I think that is when you can make an instant connection.

Namaste, Sir Dominic