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GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Honesty? (6/2/2005 3:01:38 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster
Ohhhh...you meant GUILT...not QUILT. I really had no idea what you were talking about.
Anyway, I don't believe it's a sin, and I don't believe that anyone who is married and has a partner necessarily has a guilty mind. So I can't really identify with much of what you've written here.
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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
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OK but what's the quilt? I just don't get it.
L&M,
He called it a "sin". quote:
Tom50:...it's a sin to be married and in this lifestyle. Calling anything a sin implies taking on some guilt. At least in my mind.
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kisshou: why won't he acheive the sensational?
To achieve what I call the "sensational" your mind must be guilt free. (see above reference to "sin".)
I took that "it's a sin" bit to be tongue in cheek. Tom50 is running into tooo many people who act as if "it's a sin" for him to be in the lifestyle when he is married. If he lies, which he does not wish to do, (other than a lie of omission, perhaps, if he can get away with it), then he is called out as a liar. If he is truthful, then he is called out as a "cheater". He thinks he is in a lose-lose-situation.
To clarify, I look at this profile and what he has written here, and put it together to mean that his wife does not know anything of his extra-curricular activies, he has pretty minimal interests, he cannot really take on a full time slave or submissive, and he really is mainly into couples for cuckolding activities.
He may have had a few jollies along the way with a couple or a willing female sub here and there who really don't care or bother to question his marital status. But he is running into more that cut off communication when it comes out that he is engaging in these activities without his wife's knowledge and consent. It looks to Me that he is not just playing online, which may end up being unhealthy, but within reason, can be harmless. When the ultimate agenda is to take it into a r/l scene, couples are not willing to go along. And many female subs are not willing to go along either. I am just trying to reason why this poster is having the problem he is complaining about.
Interesting that Tom50 has not been back to respond or clarify his own position here.
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