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MstrJohnJ -> RE: Suggested reading? (6/14/2007 8:56:23 PM)
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Supernatural:
IMHO...
if you are trying to add an element of M/s to your life, the books are as good a place to start as any. Read, research, try, read some more.
And ask questions of whatever peer group you can find. CM is a good place as well as groups local to your area.
I don't believe you need someone to "show" you, you have to find the dynamic in yourself and explore it.
As you read, you will find as many versions and intrepretations of BDSM, M/s, pick your initials, as there are people.
My version of an M/s dynamic is different that yours, or anyones for that matter. That is one of the things I like about reading the posts here. It's all different, and what works for one person may not work for me, or it may just spark something I've never considered.
That being said... look in yourself to see what makes sense to you, talk to your partner and see what works for them and develop your own style, but never stop learning and exploring. I've been doing this in one form or another for 20 some odd years and the past 10 with my girl/slave/wife, and I never stop looking, reading and trying to find new things.
Good Luck
John
edited cuz I can't spell and type at the same time
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