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Seeing Master again - 6/13/2007 12:11:26 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I have just returned from my vacation in Florida.  I could not go with Master he had to work so i went with family.  I was away for 10 days and did not see Master for 12.  I just saw him yesterday for the first time in 12 days i mean how great is that!!! i missed him terribly even though he called every day,  We shall i say made up for lost time.

So my question is do any subs/slaves out there do anything extra special ot even just special when they are away from their Dom/Master for a period of time?  It was only 12 days but it seemed like a long time.

Do you do any sprcial things when he or you return?

Matt's littleone

Edited to add the last line

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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/13/2007 12:17:37 PM   
RCdc


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Special?  Depends what you mean by that...
I tend to just curl up and go to bed early - alot!
Or end up posting on here more than I really ought!
 
I do have a towel he gave me - when he isn't around to call or I can't be with him, I sleep with it.
It is dry but it smells of him.
 
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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/13/2007 12:30:04 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		The last weekend he was away I cleaned most of the apartment, went to a party, slept and moped.

This weekend he'll be gone again and I'm not sure what I'll do.

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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/13/2007 12:40:05 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		God I used to hate that!  Once my Master had to be away a lot during the holidays and I was totally alone, blizzards all about, shoveling snow every hour to keep from being snowed in and just there with my brain damaged, adult son, who was starting to stop talking then.  I had misunderstood Him when we had a conversation about a web site and went to it... but because I had a stalker, I wasn't supposed to go there.  So during this time I was being punished and not allowed to go to any chats or anything.  I was going crazy!

I did think a lot about a lot of things and made some real life changes soon after that, but missing Him was like a loss of sense of direction.  I just focused on what would please Him and did those things.  But it was real easy to feel sorry for myself. lol  But once He was back... it was heaven!

Now I am learning it from the other side and it isn't much different. lol  When you miss someone, you miss them.

Edited to clarify adult son

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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/13/2007 12:42:39 PM   
YourShyPet


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Status: offline 		I only see my Daddy every other weekend.....I can't say I do anything special... but sometimes I do wish I had something like Darcyandthedark's towel or like on another thread I read about stuffed animals that you can record voices in.

kittin

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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/13/2007 2:22:32 PM   
silvermuse


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Status: offline 		I'm the one who tends to do the traveling, so whilst I'm away I barely have time to remember how much I miss him. However, on the trip home, I start to feel that lack of his presence.

Once home we spend a lot of time just being together. Curled up. I have this need to remember what he feels like, smells like...


muse

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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/13/2007 3:08:06 PM   
sleazybutterfly


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Status: offline 		When I was away, I did miss M a lot.  We talked on the phone everyday, so we kept in touch pretty well.  I sometimes will wear his cologne just so I can have his scent close by.

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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/13/2007 3:22:10 PM   
MagiksSlave


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I just sent Master off yesterday with some friends he has a wedding to go to cross country and will be away till a week from sunday and even though we have set up every way possable to keep in touch I miss him already!!! I do have Master monkey (the above mentioned stuffed animal with voice chip) and even a pair of his PJ's that need mending but it is gunna be a hard week and a half and I miss him already!! That and everytime one of us has to be out of town the other persons life seems to start falling apart, like this time my Dog (my baby!!!)is very sick and I now have vet bills like you wouldnt beleave and my mom is rather sick and in the hospital and I start a new job on tues..... yeah bad timeing all around!!!

As for what we will do when he gets back... I forsee a lot of clinging and massive need for cuddles in our future!!! LOL

Magik's slave

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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/13/2007 3:28:16 PM   
slaverosebeauty


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Status: offline 		MJ is gonna be gone in Florida for 10 days, we don't live together, it still pushes back when I can come down and see Him or when He can come up here and see me, so its hard. Like He said though, their is always phone calls. Things get buisy next month, but, we are determined to make things work.  What are we gonna do, spend more time holding eachother, my ass will get red as often as He can make it, lol; we will work on getting our 'skills' up to par, cuddle, talk, I will make comments about His fantastic runner's body, lol, play, experiment and try a few new things. For Mj an I, our time together IS special; regardless of what we are doing.

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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/13/2007 3:48:28 PM   
Shantra


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Status: offline 		Master and I are apart very rarely these days, but this post does bring a recent special memory up for me.  OK, it is not long but we were apart for a whole night into the next afternoon recently when I had surgery.  When he could get to me, he spent a whole 6 and a half hours by my bed in hospital watching TV with me while I kept dozing off on him and hours the next day too.. that first day I was still throwing up.. so he would stroke and pat my back to comfort me.  That was really special to me.

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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/13/2007 8:17:05 PM   
freyjasdottir


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Status: offline 		I only see mine after week or 2, sometimes longer with work and family obligations, drives me to the point of insanity sometimes.

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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/13/2007 8:50:13 PM   
slaveangel2007


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Status: offline 		My Master and i live in two different cities..About 2 hours away.  Every time I go to see him(which is once a week) he gives me a gift. A shirt that has his scent on it.  We talk every day on the phone(for a few min.) and e-mail numerous times a day.  Sometimes I send him pictures of the things I do that please him(shaving, playing w/myself etc..) This makes it easier to pass the time that we lose inbetween visits.  I wear his shirts every night and wear his collar and marking every moment of my life..i know He is always with me as i am with Him.

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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/13/2007 9:21:26 PM   
Shantra


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Status: offline 		slaveangel that is so lovely.  To have something physical each and every day of each other.  When Master and I were an atlantic ocean apart before we got together in reality, he sent me his ring in the mail.  It was a very precious ring given to him by the woman who first introduced him into the lifestyle about 20 years previously.  He had worn it and worn it, it was old and battered, he sent it over 6,000 miles to me as a sign of his commitment and I wore it every single day till I met him.

Thank you for rousing that beautiful memory too.

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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/13/2007 9:47:40 PM   
slaveangel2007


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Status: offline 		  i was glad to hear that I helped you reminese of a beautifu story of love and devotion.  Thank you for sharing your story.  Any time you would like to chat, please, feel free to contact me.  I hope all is well with you Master and yourself. 

Sincerely slaveangel2007(lexi)

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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/13/2007 11:09:20 PM   
LadyHeart


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Status: offline 		From time to time, Master poses for a saucy calendar type picture for me. In some ways it makes his absence harder, but in other ways it helps. We use the electronic highway a lot - texts, emails and messenger - but after being apart the most important thing is just quiet time together, physically close, "debriefing" and reconnecting.
:))
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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/13/2007 11:15:56 PM   
winterlight


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Status: offline 		I don't have a Master yet but there are also picture frames that you can record a message on them.

winterlight

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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/14/2007 6:31:18 AM   
Rayne58


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Status: offline 		I had to go back to New Zealand twice for 2 weeks at a time when my father was ill, and when he died. I did have computer access so we emailed and PMed each other most days, and did manage to chat on msn a couple of times. I needed to hear from Him to put my mind at ease, because He has so many health problems. The welcome home though, was wonderful!

The times He is in hospital I do visit every day twice a day, but the nights are very hard to get through. I make a nest in our bed of our pillows and some of the clothes He has worn, and I sleep cuddled up to His pillow. I never seem to sleep very well when He isn't there......

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RE: Seeing Master again - 6/14/2007 9:23:46 AM   
smilezz


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quote:

Do you do any sprcial things when he or you return?

Thorns will be home for His two week break in:   47 days  14 hours 39 minutes 22 seconds.
I do not do anything "special" per say.  I do what is special to Him.   I have His house in order, He may have certain requests, i make sure those things are done or bought.

I have not seen Him since 3 January.  I feel like a lil' girl all giddy again.  I can't WAIT! for Him to be home.

Happy Thursday y'all!
~smilezz~ 


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