Lockit
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I am so sorry to hear about your situation Lockit. I hope you prevail with your son, don't give up fighting. Many don't realize how bad and crappy the health care system is until something happens to them or a family member. I worked in long term care facilities years ago while I was in school, and people would be shocked to know the conditions that the employees work under that take care of their loved ones. I never worked days, but I always wondered how 1 person could wash and dress and get up 10-12 fragile and disabled senior citizens in about 2 hours or less. The trick is they don't usually wash them, I could tell you about 100 stories but I will spare you. Most people don't have a fucking clue. I pray when I go into a hospital, have surgery, etc. and I pray over the people that care for me and my loved ones. I have been lucky to have very good medical care overall, and I don't take it lightly or for granted. Good luck. [/quote] Mz Mia, Thank you! You know... to cover up what they did and protocal, they gave my son all sorts of medications that made him hallucinate. They wanted a lifetime commitment to a hospital where I was told, they wouldn't be able to care for him, so they would most likely tie him to a bed for the rest of his life. I fought hard... used force (proof of neglect and abuse toward my son) and got him out. Within a month I had him off all but one medication and soon after, that one. As soon as I took the medications away, he no longer halucinated! That was the reason they were going to tie him to a bed for life! He was just turned 23! Okay, some of the hallucinations were funny... like the race with Santa to be the new Santa and the time he was in a shower and talked of the two girls in there... I told him to shower with whoever he wanted to as long as I didn't have to pay for his dates... and then the kid riding a bike in a blizzard... dang it I almost fell for that one! lol But what I don't find funny is that my son was one of three in our city, in one month that I knew about! Tax payers are paying for the care of these people and lifetime in hospitals on this protocal of giving these medications! How many others are committed on the tax payers dime needlessly? I guess I am clueless... But I do thank you... we are doing okay... it's rough... but I just thank someone I was redheaded mother bear enough to fight to get him out of their hands. Besides... I take care of him for free at least until I am dead and that will save a bit of money for the tax payers.
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