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RE: Has anyone ever...And how?? - 6/19/2007 6:32:23 AM

Stephann

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I'm with LA here. Get a professional. In fact, contact a service and explain the situation; a larger service will likely be able to ensure that someone appropriate for your situation is sent. In terms of time verses money, the 300 dollars (or so) would pay for itself compared to the 100 hours you could very well spend looking, calling, waiting, making arrangements, etc etc. Single, attractive women who want no strings sex with a couple are vastly outnumbered by the couples seeking them.

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RE: Has anyone ever...And how?? - 6/20/2007 4:24:50 AM

mons

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greeting

i see you want to do this ? if so then think on this very hard. i would not ask my slave to share with another i just do not like it at all. i can not gave you advice it is a hard limit for me .

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RE: Has anyone ever...And how?? - 6/20/2007 8:16:49 AM

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quote:

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greeting

i see you want to do this ? if so then think on this very hard. i would not ask my slave to share with another i just do not like it at all. i can not gave you advice it is a hard limit for me .

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RE: Has anyone ever...And how?? - 6/24/2007 8:52:41 PM

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I am actively BI and what I do see is her willingness to do this. What I don't see is enthusiam for it. If you really don't want this, if it is something you are doing only to please him then it will not be good for any of you. BDSM play/sex in a 3some can be great, but only when you are all into it.

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RE: Has anyone ever...And how?? - 6/24/2007 8:56:39 PM

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If you are looking for a strictly nsa threesome, and it doesnt have to be BDSM related at al, then adultfriendfinder, or even craigslist is descent. I know that the casual encounters section of craigslist is usually teeming with ads looking for someone to join a couple. For NSA, online hookup sites are best.

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RE: Has anyone ever...And how?? - 6/25/2007 2:38:47 AM

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Get him drunk, put a mirror in the bedroom, stand in front of it, and tell him he's got two girls.

Worth a try.

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RE: Has anyone ever...And how?? - 6/25/2007 7:37:34 AM

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I went through this scenario with my ex husband...I have been in a realationship with another woman before..so the sex with other girls wasnt a problem for me...it was a fantasy that he wanted, we discussed it, decided we would both be ok with it...went to the trouble of finding a girl to join us...had our weekend together, it was fun, we all enjoyed it, she went her own way and we went ours.

Several months afterward it was still causing problems between us and we ended up divorcing not long after. Ill never do it again.....

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RE: Has anyone ever...And how?? - 6/25/2007 8:36:09 AM

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yeah...i wouldn't.

my x dom/hub is still with the no strings woman we invited into our lives 5 years ago.

but since folks dont listen to been there done that and it dont do it, as a rule, i can off this advice. i would ask:

what does he want a third for?

he will say its my fantasy

you can then nod and wag your tail, or you can ask what about it turns you on? what do you need to happen? what is the goal behind the goal here? why am i not enough for you?

if he does not have answers, real answers, not penthouse forum answers, then i would tell him to wait until he does.

as his submissive you are sort of in charge of not letting him do stupid shit that will destroy the relationship.

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