RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant)

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domiguy -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 10:35:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dawntreader quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy . ...It is a straight forward honest approach that has worked for me. .....And the Domidong. And where was the Domidong when i was on the cockworship thread? I was meticulously overlooking the preparation of a robe, sash and Pope's mitre hat to don upon the Domidong...Unfortunaltely the thread lost steam before the final touches on the hat were made....Needless to say the Domidong was breathtaking in it's new digs and well deserving of all and every sub's worship.

Emperor1956 -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 10:44:17 AM)
A fast reply and a politically incorrect thought and a daring, politically incorrect suggestion: 1. Why do "wankers" do it? I don't think it is because "it works". Indeed, if by "works" you mean a woman drops her clothing and indulges the "aggresive cam wanker", I don't think it "works" at all. First, look at the plethora of replies from intelligent submissive women who frequently post here who all say it doesn't work on THEM but "other girls" must give in-- why? Where is your evidence? Second, if she does respond then isn't she getting something she needs, too? Who's the wanker, and the wankee? I think much of the motivation is the same motivation as the predecessor to online Wank, the obscene phone call. The male aggressor is seeking, and receives, an angry or upset reaction from the female victim. THAT -- not naked pix -- hot e-orgasm talk -- or a phone number -- is what the (male) wanker seeks. 2. Politically incorrect thought #1: In assuming that "it works because of what the other girls do" aren't you ladies blaming the victim? How is the silly newbie who responds to "Show Me Your PUSSY NOW, Bitch" by turning on her cam and showing her naughty bits (and therefore it is her fault that she encourages the wank) any different that the woman who is raped walking home from a club on a late night dressed in provocative clothing? Obviously there is a difference in degree of harm, but aren't you saying both women are to blame for the bad male behavior? Considering 3 or 4 of the smartest women I read on here said they blame the "other girls" for the wankers...makes you go "hmmmmm". 3. Daring, Politically incorrect suggestion: To the OP. You tell us you had a rough week. You apparently fly into rage at the drop of an (electronic) hat. You are easily swayed by external events when you are feeling angry/depressed/down. So why do you choose to rant, whine and otherwise curse and yell here in your un-self-flattering, attention-seeking manner? Why not (gasp) TURN OFF THE COMPUTER instead? but then again, that's just me. E.

dawntreader -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 10:54:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy quote: ORIGINAL: dawntreader quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy . ...It is a straight forward honest approach that has worked for me. .....And the Domidong. And where was the Domidong when i was on the cockworship thread? I was meticulously overlooking the preparation of a robe, sash and Pope's mitre hat to don upon the Domidong...Unfortunaltely the thread lost steam before the final touches on the hat were made....Needless to say the Domidong was breathtaking in it's new digs and well deserving of all and every sub's worship. Picture?[;)]

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 11:02:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Emperor1956 First, look at the plethora of replies from intelligent submissive women who frequently post here who all say it doesn't work on THEM but "other girls" must give in-- why? Where is your evidence? My experience online. I've talked with TONS of newbies over the years who do it all the time. quote: Second, if she does respond then isn't she getting something she needs, too? Who's the wanker, and the wankee? Oh absolutely. quote: Obviously there is a difference in degree of harm, but aren't you saying both women are to blame for the bad male behavior? Considering 3 or 4 of the smartest women I read on here said they blame the "other girls" for the wankers...makes you go "hmmmmm". Other people are not to blame for bad behavior- even if they reinforce the bad behavior. A case can be made for ones mother raising the child with bad habits and that being somewhat responsible, but that's still a grey area and ultimately still up to the person themselves. quote: 3. Daring, Politically incorrect suggestion: To the OP. You tell us you had a rough week. You apparently fly into rage at the drop of an (electronic) hat. You are easily swayed by external events when you are feeling angry/depressed/down. So why do you choose to rant, whine and otherwise curse and yell here in your un-self-flattering, attention-seeking manner? Why not (gasp) TURN OFF THE COMPUTER instead? I would have tried that tactic as well, but her personal history suggests it being very unlikely for her to understand or follow through on that advice so I went the other route.

akisha -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 12:00:22 PM)
I agree with LA. I kow of more then a few subs online over the years that said "Well he's a dom and he said I had too." Sadly, common sense is not that common

susie -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 3:45:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy quote: ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty Relax, their are plenty of trolls around, just ignore them. It would be soooooo refreshing if you only could take your own advice. ROFL that has just made my very bad day so much better.[sm=banana.gif]

truesub4u -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 4:17:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Emperor1956 3. Daring, Politically incorrect suggestion: To the OP. You tell us you had a rough week. You apparently fly into rage at the drop of an (electronic) hat. You are easily swayed by external events when you are feeling angry/depressed/down. So why do you choose to rant, whine and otherwise curse and yell here in your un-self-flattering, attention-seeking manner? Why not (gasp) TURN OFF THE COMPUTER instead? but then again, that's just me. E. Yeah that was daring... and just totally screwed up on your behalf. I do not fly into a rage at the drop of a hat... the death of 3 friends in a span of 5 days is what got me upset. But then agin you not knowing me or anything about me... gives you the right to assume anything you want about ... now doesn't it. And it's ok for anyone else to come on here and rant about anything they want ... but just certain people are permitted to... in your book... correct? #1... He read my profile... my profile DOES NOT State I have a cam. Nor does it state that I will cam. He asked...during the course of conversation.. I said yes but will not be turning it on anytime soon. #2.. I'm not trying to flatter no damn body. And i'm not seeking attention from anyone. You're the one who responded. You didn't have to. So there for you are the one who gave the attention to someone whom you think is seeking attention. #3... I did turn off my PC... took my kids to the beach.. got sunburned.. but had a blast... came home.. took a nap... now chillin on the forums before dinner and having to get ready for work tonight. So trust me.... my life DOES NOT revolve around this stupid computer and the wankers on here. (Answering others here as well) #4... yes I've been on here since 11/05. I've ran across my fair share of wankers. I know how to use my ignore button. And use it often. I've been on here since 11/05 and have never posted a rant on wankers. Just ended up being the day that I did... big damn deal... LOL So now it will SEEM to some that i'm angered by the responses on here. Trust this one... i'm not. I find it quite humerous that when someone asks a question.. rants... it's time to jump on the flame wagon. Well if ya makes ya feel any better..flame away. Because yeah... it made me feel better to post my rant... then go to beach and continue on with my life and forget about that asshole. Finally...MHOO... loved your post... it in itself was priceless.. I'm quite sure you doms get your fare share of wankers as well. Hugsss to you...

truesub4u -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 4:21:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross [I would have tried that tactic as well, but her personal history suggests it being very unlikely for her to understand or follow through on that advice so I went the other route. LOL LA... about 9 months ago.. that would of bothered me... and you would of been right.... but people change... except you... glad to see you still know me all so well....

HaveRopeWillBind -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 4:52:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: truesub4u ... They think because they're a Dom.. you will jump. True, This is because during their last (and likely only) visit with a Pro-Domme she demanded and boy did they jump. Now they believe if they put on the "Dom" title you will do the same. I would suggest you limit your Cam time to simply providing evidence that you are really who you claim to be and if anyone needs to see you remove clothing on cam then ignore them. Nakedness should be reserved for face to face experiences.

DianeB269 -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 4:55:53 PM)
Lots of wanker subs here too... Diane

truesub4u -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 4:57:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HaveRopeWillBind quote: ORIGINAL: truesub4u ... They think because they're a Dom.. you will jump. True, This is because during their last (and likely only) visit with a Pro-Domme she demanded and boy did they jump. Now they believe if they put on the "Dom" title you will do the same. I would suggest you limit your Cam time to simply providing evidence that you are really who you claim to be and if anyone needs to see you remove clothing on cam then ignore them. Nakedness should be reserved for face to face experiences. Oh I agree. I got no problems turning it on to show i'm who I claim to be. But not doing that either after only just chatting for first time.. there's other things to get out of the way first.. LOL

tenderfootmaster -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 5:23:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: truesub4u Who ever told them that every sub should drop down and do what is demmanded because he THINKS he's all mighty powerful dom asshole? I'm serious.... someone had to tell them these things. Not all doms do this... so apparently someone told them they aren't suppose to. So where do these other idiots get their information from? Is there a club out there for wanna be idiot doms? Is there a book out there that illustrates how to be the biggest asshole you can be in the BDSM community? I really don’t think it’s the information that they received, but the lack there of… I really think that some of Dom’s are not that experienced with the BDSM lifestyle online or real life. They may just think this is the way you act.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 5:44:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: truesub4u LOL LA... about 9 months ago.. that would of bothered me... and you would of been right.... but people change... except you... glad to see you still know me all so well.... Well it's funny that when you were with that guy, your profile had something in it to the effect of "What they said about me before was true, even though I denied it. Now I'm learning to relax and be better at not sniping." I guess that disappeared along with the relationship.

happypervert -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 5:53:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: akisha I agree with LA. I kow of more then a few subs online over the years that said "Well he's a dom and he said I had too." Sadly, common sense is not that common That depends on your perspective -- if you're a wanker, that is good news rather than sad.

Griswold -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 5:55:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: truesub4u Clearly one takes the time to read a profile. They even question you about it when talking to you. But then they just dive right in. They see you state... no cam... but then demmand you turn on cam for pussy looking. They think because they're a Dom.. you will jump. Yeah I know there have been numerous threads on Dom barking and sub dropping. I get a great laugh out of these assholes. But sometimes it just hits ya wrong and it gets ya in a pissy mood. Of course when he demmanded I turn on my cam because he wanted to see pussy... I laughed.. told him to fuck off...and then clicked ignore. But I didn't feel better after that. I actually got angery. And it got me to thinking.... What modivates these assholes? Who ever told them that every sub should drop down and do what is demmanded because he THINKS he's all mighty powerful dom asshole? I'm serious.... someone had to tell them these things. Not all doms do this... so apparently someone told them they aren't suppose to. So where do these other idiots get their information from? Is there a club out there for wanna be idiot doms? Is there a book out there that illustrates how to be the biggest asshole you can be in the BDSM community? It seems the more you say No... the more you say no can do..the more they try to pressure you. (And that's before they start chatting with you.) It's like they see that in a profile and zoom right in and go for a fresh kill or something. I don't understand the modivation behind it. All it makes me do is try to come up with the most degrading comment I can at the time and slam them with it. Is this what gets them their jollies? Being degraded by a submissive? How in the hell can a dom find jolly in that? Wait... just answered my own question there... they're not a dom. THEY"RE WANKERSSSSSSSSSSSS..... Sorry for the rant.. been a rough week for me. But I still wonder what modivates these assholes. Well, I certainly can't speak for all subs who respond to profiles, nor do I at all understand "sub drop"...and I don't consider myself a typical asshole... (But I would be much more motivated if you sent me a picture of your pussy). Hey...I'm just saying...

juliaoceania -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 5:57:42 PM)
quote: 2. Politically incorrect thought #1: In assuming that "it works because of what the other girls do" aren't you ladies blaming the victim? How is the silly newbie who responds to "Show Me Your PUSSY NOW, Bitch" by turning on her cam and showing her naughty bits (and therefore it is her fault that she encourages the wank) any different that the woman who is raped walking home from a club on a late night dressed in provocative clothing? Obviously there is a difference in degree of harm, but aren't you saying both women are to blame for the bad male behavior? Considering 3 or 4 of the smartest women I read on here said they blame the "other girls" for the wankers...makes you go "hmmmmm". I do not see them as victims at all. Like I said, if females like doing this, and everything is consensual... go them... their kink is not my kink, but their kink is valid.

truesub4u -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 5:58:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross quote: ORIGINAL: truesub4u LOL LA... about 9 months ago.. that would of bothered me... and you would of been right.... but people change... except you... glad to see you still know me all so well.... Well it's funny that when you were with that guy, your profile had something in it to the effect of "What they said about me before was true, even though I denied it. Now I'm learning to relax and be better at not sniping." I guess that disappeared along with the relationship. Actually no, it didn't... and it was true LA. I'm not snipping now. My response to you wasn't a snip. It was a statement. People do change. Some see it... some don't...some refuse to change.. some refuse to notice. Simple as that. But Like I said.. i'm glad you know me so well... it wasn't a snip... it was a reminder that you do know me...from these forums...to know.. I use to be touchy when I didn't know something..understand something.. or when I thought I was right...because of what I had previously been told and learn to accept as the truth. I've learned alot of new things here on these forums... and from talking to people in E-mails on here... People like KoM... MHOO...MoGa... to name but a few. And yeah.... a few things from you as well. There are things that I still believe in..and some i've changed my beliefs in. Like I said....... people change. And it's still ok to be snippy from time to time... i'm not gonna change that about myself to pacify someone that passes by me on the forums and throws their flame my way. Things happen in ones life.... some have people to turn to.. or places to go and talk them out. And i've done that. So i'm good to go on that aspects. My little rant here may of been off the wall... childish to some... out of line to others... but others peoples rants...are also other peoples information. And some of the responses to this have been informative....as well as funny as hell. Life is NOT always serious... 24/7... I enjoyed my little rant.. it cleared me to have a wonderful fun filled day... and if snipping at me... helps you have a fun filled day... shit.. go for it.. who am I to stand in your way of having fun...... LOL

MHOO314 -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 7:06:18 PM)
hmm I am very surprised at you LA that was a low blow even by your standards---I believe this was a rant---designed to educate and share with people one's experiences since we have so many newbies here---I completely missed the role call for the judge and the jury and the permission to allow someone's past to be dragged before people here---if that is indeed one's past. I think we all need to remember here that We are human, we all mistakes, except perhaps for a few---and this is a forum to share--at least it wasn't a rant about shoving some pipe up someone's blowhole.

LadyHeart -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 7:14:08 PM)
When the internet was first emerging it was hailed as this amazing vehicle for education and communication. The reality is that it has become a super highway for porn. Most porn sites charge - big time. The smart wankers have discovered that on BDSM sites they can get it for free. It's not rocket science. And it's certainly not BDSM. :)) LH

tenderfootmaster -> RE: WANKERS!!!.. What modivates them????? (Careful here it's a rant) (6/14/2007 8:24:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHeart When the internet was first emerging it was hailed as this amazing vehicle for education and communication. The reality is that it has become a super highway for porn. Most porn sites charge - big time. The smart wankers have discovered that on BDSM sites they can get it for free. It's not rocket science. And it's certainly not BDSM. :)) LH I agree with that!

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