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MissBrat -> Married couples (6/14/2007 11:37:40 AM)

Hello, I am new to the forums but have been reading for many months. I am wondering if there are many other married couples in which the wife is Dominant and the husband submissive? We are both very new to this but are having fun learning.




MsKatHouston -> RE: Married couples (6/14/2007 11:41:10 AM)

Quite a few I would guess.  I don't know about here in the forums but I know a lot of couples with that exact dynamic in real life.  I started out with that dynamic myself but am now in a D/D pairing. 




LadyPact -> RE: Married couples (6/14/2007 12:01:45 PM)

I'm not sure of how many there are.  I'll chime in as to being at least two of the three.  I am married, and I am the Dominant of the couple.  I wouldn't exactly describe My husband as submissive, but he does bottom for Me from time to time.  We do not have a 24/7 D/s relationship.  We are what you might describe as poly, though We don't equal that label in all ways.  I have had submissives before, and during our marriage.  I do have to stress that he approves of My having/searching for a submissive.  Nothing is done without his knowledge.
 
Since you are new, probably a lot of the above is confusing.  (It may even confuse some who have been around a while.)  Feel free to contact Me on the other side if you have a question you'd like to ask.




blmtrsne -> RE: Married couples (6/14/2007 2:51:47 PM)

We are: my husband/slave is registered at www.slaveregister.com as 000-733-561. He's about 20 years my slave now.




undergroundsea -> RE: Married couples (6/14/2007 5:58:30 PM)

I know many such couples. Some of these couples began as vanilla and then transitioned to D/s. Some had the D/s dynamic from the outset.

Cheers,

Sea




thetammyjo -> RE: Married couples (6/14/2007 6:33:27 PM)

I'm married but Tom is NOT my submissive or my bottom for many years now. Our interests just do not overlap enough in those areas to make it worth playing even ocassionally.




LadyHeart -> RE: Married couples (6/14/2007 6:38:44 PM)

I am also married. I am a sexual submissive to my husband but Domme others. I also Top my husband from time to time, but that's not about D/s, more about giving him a sensual/sexual experience he desires to experience. Towards others, we are a D/D couple, but it can be quite fluid depending on the situation.
:))
LH




GADomCpl -> RE: Married couples (6/14/2007 7:12:34 PM)

Liz and I aren't 24/7 (yet anyway) but she is normally Domme to me.




onthenosetone -> RE: Married couples (6/14/2007 10:56:02 PM)

we're 24/7 13 years now........both happy too[:)]




Vendaval -> RE: Married couples (6/15/2007 12:56:51 AM)

Hello MissBrat, any combination you can imagine exists somewhere in the Lifestyle.
Stay around for a while and get to know people, you will find a wealth of information and insight.
 
Welcome to the Forums!  [:)]






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