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truesub4u -> RE: Just A Question... (6/16/2007 4:05:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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This morning he tells me things arent gonna work out, because he doesnt think I can follow directions. 

Respond that he's correct.  Things won't work out.  Because he's a ....... wanker




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I'm wondering if it's the same wanker that I was refering to...LOL



KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Just A Question... (6/16/2007 5:31:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

This morning he tells me things arent gonna work out, because he doesnt think I can follow directions. 

Respond that he's correct.  Things won't work out.  Because he's a ....... wanker




[sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif]

I'm wondering if it's the same wanker that I was refering to...LOL


He just might be.  Or one of his many clones.  -walks off giggling-



asubmissiveheart -> RE: Just A Question... (6/16/2007 5:42:32 PM)

You list your age at 21 and he thinks you are young, stupid and gullible.



KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Just A Question... (6/16/2007 6:13:29 PM)

lol Well I guess I proved to him that although I am young, Im neither gullible, nor stupid. 




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Just A Question... (6/16/2007 6:35:48 PM)

in agreement of everyone else who replied that you did the right thing with this wanker ...he was merely looking for a free show nothing more or less



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Just A Question... (6/16/2007 7:39:10 PM)

Isn't it wonderful that some wankers reveal themselves early on, and save you the trouble of wasting your time, thoughts or energy upon...sighs...life is good!..Tempting



DeviantlyD -> RE: Just A Question... (6/16/2007 11:29:44 PM)

pudpounder??? *LOL*

Oh my...I've had my share of those! It gets pretty stale after a while. I tend to think, as others have mentioned here, that this guy was a wannabe. Sheesh!



LadyHeart -> RE: Just A Question... (6/16/2007 11:51:09 PM)

Just because he says he's a Dom doesn't make him one. He is more likely a wanker who is too cheap to pay to download porn. Smart guy! Why should he pay to see naughty bits when suckers are prepared to show him theirs for free?
:))
LH



KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Just A Question... (6/17/2007 5:26:11 AM)

Uhm LadyHeart, I sooo wish I had seen your quote line sooner.  I would have loved to have told him that...



marine87 -> RE: Just A Question... (6/17/2007 5:47:56 AM)

I would like to know how can a sub go about finding out if his Domme is really who she says she is I'm in a bit of a dilemma right now and asked her to give me a call on cell, yet she hasnt returned it for over a few days, dont know how long I should wait until I follow my gut decision and walk away I'd really appreciate any feedback through a personal message if possible.

Thanks, Morgan



eyesopened -> RE: Just A Question... (6/17/2007 5:53:48 AM)

Since i am looking for a real life relationship, not play partners or cyber Doms, i don't do the cam thing and especially don't show "naughty bits".

i do understand that some men want some confirmation that the person they are chatting with are biological females.  Others seem to want to make sure that all sexual activities are a go before they ever meet in person.

For me, what the heck, life is an adventure and i have met several Doms in person that the minute i meet them i know it's just not going to work out.  i don't consider that a waste of my time, money or energy but a necessary part of finding someone compatible.  But then my goal is to meet my LAST Master not just someone to play with.

Since my goal is to meet in person, i don't think that cams help any.  For a lot of guys it's just so much easier to log on, get off, and go away.  Cams help even the curious to get complacent.  i agree that cams tend to equal free porn.  Cams are great for adding connection to an established relationship that may be a long distance one, but to perform on cam to someone who is basically a complete stranger??  Unless you get off on that activity yourself, why bother?



subsfaith -> RE: Just A Question... (6/17/2007 1:50:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

Why do some Doms feel that because they are labelled as such, that all subs/slaves must fall to their lil knees and what not. 



Replace the word 'Dom' with Dim... and the answer to the question appears in the question.

Faith
:: smiles ::



DeviantlyD -> RE: Just A Question... (6/17/2007 3:14:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: marine87
dont know how long I should wait until I follow my gut decision and walk away


That says it all to me - your "gut decision". Something is telling you there's something wrong with this picture and there probably is. On the other hand, there is nothing stopping you from just leaving the door open, but continuing on and exploring a possible relationship with someone else, true? Perhaps that would be the best option.



KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Just A Question... (6/17/2007 7:13:37 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: marine87

I would like to know how can a sub go about finding out if his Domme is really who she says she is I'm in a bit of a dilemma right now and asked her to give me a call on cell, yet she hasnt returned it for over a few days, dont know how long I should wait until I follow my gut decision and walk away I'd really appreciate any feedback through a personal message if possible.

Thanks, Morgan

yay! My first thread got hijacked!!! -happy dance-

Sweetie, gut instincts are always a good thing to go with.



KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Just A Question... (6/17/2007 7:16:49 PM)

subsfaith, and everyone else, thanks lots for your personal feedback! 'twas greatly appreciated.

eyesopened, i as well have been looking for that whole real life relationship thing too.  at the time of the first half of the incident, i was on cam...from like cleavage up i think?  all completely harmless.  i personally get on cam a few times a week and have a friendly pow wow with friends and acquaintences in a conference while they kick back a few beers and whatnot. 



sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Just A Question... (6/17/2007 7:53:20 PM)

Some idiots think because they call themselves a dominant that it means every submissive will submit to them. Wrong! He is an idiot, ignore him and move on. [:D]



joiduvie -> RE: Just A Question... (6/17/2007 10:12:34 PM)

Not owned, it is the only time you can really draw the lines and make the rules.  His attempt at manipulation later, was a last ditch effort, it works on many I believe, or at least on enough to get him to try it.  He is not worth your time, and most likely has no more concept of what D/s is than any other three year old who wants his own way.



Areflectionofyou -> RE: Just A Question... (6/18/2007 4:46:40 AM)

its all about them getting free porn



trainedobedients -> RE: Just A Question... (6/18/2007 5:59:10 AM)

I read your question to Master and he says you are right. Until he is your Master you have always the right to say NO.

Never go beyond what you feel comfortable with, only a Master can take you beyond your own boundaries.

Have a nice day,



slavegirljoy -> RE: Just A Question... (6/18/2007 6:25:09 AM)

Before becoming the property of Master David, this slave said to numerous men, who contacted me online, that " things aren't gonna work out" for various reasons.  One of the surefire ways for a man to get that response from me, along with being blocked, was to be insistent on seeing me on cam or wanting picture after picture of me in certain poses.  The men who are fixated on seeing a woman, they have never met, in very graphic and erotic poses on cam and/or in pics, instead of being interested in learning about my personality, character, values, experience, etc., isn't looking for a relationship.  He's looking for free views of a naked woman, who he has no obligation to. 
 
Anyone can ask (or demand) anything they want from anyone online.  They've got nothing to lose by asking.  If they ask enough times, chances are someone will finally give them what they want.  You don't have to give them anything, not even the time of day.  That's for you to decide.
 
The first thing that made this girl realize that Master David was different than most of the rest was that He didn't ask me for cam-to-cam or for pics of me (He had already seen the pics i had on my profile).  In fact, He sent me some nice pictures of Himself in His email to introduce Himself to me.
 
slave joy
Owned property of Master David

quote:

ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

So its like this.  A dom contacted me here we chatted.  He asked me to do a few things on cam.  I declined because Im not comfortable showing nawty bits on cam to anyone.  This morning he tells me things arent gonna work out, because he doesnt think I can follow directions. 

I am of the opinion that since he is NOT my Dom, I can say no as much as I please and it shouldnt matter.  Im not collared and I dont have to answer to anyone but myself.  Apparently this fruitcake thinks otherwise.

Why do some Doms feel that because they are labelled as such, that all subs/slaves must fall to their lil knees and what not. 

Or am I just a cranky bitch? lmao...



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