any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get upset

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FelinePersuasion -> any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get upset (6/16/2007 6:06:09 PM)
about the lack of sex? We haven't had sex in over a month, I didn't really care, neither of us has felt like it, and I can honestly go months and months, and be ok, and lately these last three days I am like damn I wish I was having sex, and then I get whiney cause I want some and I am not going to get any, then the whineyness turns into tears and feeling sorry for myself. I don't understand how I can go months and months and be fine, then suddenly the thought of sex pounces me out of no where than I am sad I'm not going to get fucked anytime soon.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get ups (6/16/2007 7:12:19 PM)
try 10 months and counting - please don't ask how i remain calm about it either. oh i do have my days when i'm so seriously sexually frustrated that it makes me very upset/angry (especially before my cycle)

adoracat -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get ups (6/16/2007 7:17:57 PM)
it'll be 10 months in a week or so. frustrating as all get out, especially since i dont sleep alone. i have Sir, but i still love my husband too. satan and i were talking about it...and we decided that when you get used to not having sex, you dont miss it so much, but when you get it rarely, you miss it more. kitten, whose daughter has been satan since second grade catholic school.....

kittensmailbox -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get ups (6/16/2007 7:20:26 PM)
3 years here, by choice... i really don't miss it all that much either... As long as i get to suck cock time to time, i am happy, for me, sucking cock is fullfilling...

FelinePersuasion -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get ups (6/16/2007 7:20:39 PM)
I masterbated while he encouraged me over the phone it's helped some, but damn. I do not understand why all of a sudden it hits like a otnb of bricks, and then, I'm whiney.

playfulotter -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get ups (6/16/2007 7:21:04 PM)
Wow..that is amazing to me seeing what i have seen the previous posters post in the past few months and i don't know them at all and maybe i am missing something..hmmmmm.....i have been single for seven years after a 24 year relationship that ended in September 2000 with three one year relationships after that and have never gone more than six weeks without sex...but we all are different i guess.[;)]

FelinePersuasion -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get ups (6/16/2007 7:26:18 PM)
playful, It hits me all of a sudden, this need for sex, and then it's disapointing cause I am usualy not gonna get any for several more days lol. I guess after two days of nightmares about us, I just need to rebond perhaps.

HaveRopeWillBind -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get ups (6/16/2007 8:15:00 PM)
Feline, The sudden urges may be because you are crossing the path of someone giving off pheremones that your own body is reacting to. Is there someone at work or someplace you frequent who seems to smell really good? Either that or maybe you need to lay off the chocolate covered oysters. [;)]

slaveboyforyou -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get ups (6/16/2007 8:18:53 PM)
My record for going without sex was just shy of a year and a half. I had gone back to school full time and was working full time as well. I was constantly busy, and the opportunities to meet women socially were few and far between. I don't remember actually having a problem with it at the time, and I have a pretty high sex drive. My mind was preoccupied with other things, and I was exhausted anytime I had a break. So I didn't have time to worry about my sex life or the energy to pursue women.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get ups (6/16/2007 8:34:21 PM)
That's how it's been for Daddy James, he's here every week, but it's usualy after work sometimes as late as 1 am, he was really worried about finding a living space, having money for it, he was wore out tired preoccupied, and I really wasn't in the mood to much myself so I didn't press for sex, and then my depo shot needed renewed so last week we could of had a quick fuck, but the risk wasn't worth it. plus he was just about to leave. and we both wanted better than a slam bam leave me wet and unsatisfied. have rope, mmm no, he smelled fucking delicious af ter his bath last week, which made me want t o eat him all up, but I think just after so long a time I need to reconnect with him in that manner, my body misses his. Is there someone at work or someplace you frequent who seems to smell really good? quote: ORIGINAL: slaveboyforyou My mind was preoccupied with other things, and I was exhausted anytime I had a break. So I didn't have time to worry about my sex life or the energy to pursue women.

HutchGarahl -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get upset (6/16/2007 8:59:56 PM)
Of course. I've actually gone several years at a time without and it never bothered me. Then all of a sudden it's like getting hit upside the head with a brick. Now here I am again, sexless and becoming quite aggitated with it. [8D]

HopeLost -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get upset (6/16/2007 9:02:18 PM)
i wish i could go without sex or thinking about it or wanting it. i think my libido has ruined certain parts of my life.

HutchGarahl -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get upset (6/16/2007 9:10:51 PM)
Oh I can do without, no problem there. Just i'm at a point in my life now....kids are all grown and gone...dammit I want it now and ain't got noone here to fullfill me. :P Ah, such as life. Why is it when ya want something it's always out of reach, but when it's not wanted it won't leave ya alone?

FelinePersuasion -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get upset (6/16/2007 9:38:11 PM)
Murphies law, same reason why when I plan a nice dinner for daddy, and he's posta be off at 8 he's not off untill 10, then dinner's cold. and then when I have no special plans daddy is, if not earlie, on time. quote: ORIGINAL: HutchGarahl Why is it when ya want something it's always out of reach, but when it's not wanted it won't leave ya alone?

Minette -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get upset (6/16/2007 10:14:34 PM)
hmmm ok try this: I was with a man for 7 years and we had sex (no long sessions or foreplay, penis in vagina type of sex) maybe 10 times at the most in all those years.. We shared the same bed... at times it pissed me off, others, i didn't even think about it. Now, with MarkMinette, I can't think of being without for more than a day. Minette Happily owned

MarkMinette -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get ups (6/16/2007 10:17:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Minette hmmm ok try this: I was with a man for 7 years and we had sex (no long sessions or foreplay, penis in vagina type of sex) maybe 10 times at the most in all those years.. We shared the same bed... at times it pissed me off, others, i didn't even think about it. Now, with MarkMinette, I can't think of being without for more than a day. Minette Happily owned Give it two years and it'll be "Will you fuck off? I'm trying to sleep". [:D]

Pandamonum -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get upset (6/16/2007 10:38:29 PM)
I do. However, it is either for the reasons that slaveboyforyou stated or because the partner kills it. I mean they don't end it but they just over time, kill it till .....I guess, I can't lie to myself anymore or well, there it is. I don't get angry, I don't think. I haven't had this much free time in so long or not been so exhausted that for me, the trends are nervousness. Antsy. Attention span of a gnat. Not that I can't get it, I just know its going to be disappointing. Only because I take things much further in my mind than people are actually capable of. So, I invested in this box looking thing that holds batteries and you can check to see if they are still good, without licking them. It rocks. It was up at Linens 'n' things. Its been over 6 months since I have.

NoirUMC -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get ups (6/16/2007 10:40:53 PM)
In response to the initial question... No comment.

petdave -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get ups (6/17/2007 6:53:01 AM)
Yup... i don't know what triggers it, but after weeks or months of quiet, it can suddenly become all-consuming... it's very draining. [&:]

LaTigresse -> RE: any one ever feel like they can go months with out sex, do so, and then one day suddenly get upset (6/17/2007 7:11:00 AM)
Oh hell I can go for months without even seriously thinking about sex. I have no idea how long it has been since I have actually had it....well over a year, maybe closer to two. Weird but I just do not remember. And yes, I do at least remember the "who" part.[:D]

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