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Viciousbabe -> RE: Help me to understand your mind (6/18/2007 6:39:05 PM)
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I love canes, whips, crops, etc etc. Not because I love the pain that comes with it, though it does help to turn me on. Physical violence to me sounds more like you putting her head through a wall. I like the play, but I will not stand for abuse. Sound weird? Here's a better explanation:
I was with a Dom who regularly would use belts on me, whether it was for play or punishment. Of course, one hurt more than the other. I loved looking at the marks and realizing that I could get through it, and knowing all the while he was there for me. At one point, he was truly beating me and a mole was scraped off...he knew I was bleading and simply told me to put a shirt on and get in bed...but not to get blood on his sheets.
At that point in time, I went to the bathroom and finally got the bleeding under control in about 10 min...and if memory serves me right I went into my room and slept. I told him the next morning that what he did was in fact abuse and that if it was an accident and he really cared, he would have made sure I was alright. It was also then I told him I would be looking for another place to live.
*Edited because I'm a blond and it the ok button*
The moral to the story is to be careful when you do start inflicting pain that it doesn't cross the line.
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