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question for Mistresess who want female slaves and co... - 6/17/2007 6:03:24 PM   
openmindedslave


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Status: offline 		My question is exactly that..I have read that some Mistresses will clearly say that they are searching for a female slave or sub or switch..And then might say looking for a couple also? My question is simple... when it comes to a couple,does that mean ythat you are playing with a male, if he comes in a couple form?? Just trying to understand how amlae is okay  or is considerable if he comeswith a female? Or does couple mean only two woman??? thank you as always
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RE: question for Mistresess who want female slaves an... - 6/17/2007 6:24:18 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I am probably the worst example to respond, as I only look for unattatched male submissives, but I have been around enough to answer your question.
 
Quite frankly, single boys somehow end up left at the bottom of the totem pole.  Usually, it is the female who is most sought after, whether she be single or in a realtionship.  Females tend to be a lot harder to find, while supposedly, boys are more readily available.  Females are more desired, as it is generally more accepted for a woman to be in a poly relationship, rather than a male.
 
I hope this quick explanation helps, as an answer to your question.

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RE: question for Mistresess who want female slaves an... - 6/17/2007 6:45:55 PM   
PhillyBitch


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Status: offline 		Single males are everywhere.  Who needs to post a profile ASKING for them?  You can just walk outside and they start flocking.  Like flies on honey.

I'd accept a male if he came with a female partner because there are many useful things that a couple could do for me, and the male would never get it into his sex-crazed little head that I'd be his woman.

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RE: question for Mistresess who want female slaves an... - 6/17/2007 6:53:04 PM   
HypnoMistress


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Status: offline 		Well in my opinion... the only reason I only want female slaves... is because I already have too many male slaves :P a couple that is male and female is fine, but all these single guys... I have enough male slaves... for now :)

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RE: question for Mistresess who want female slaves an... - 6/17/2007 9:16:03 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I would like to have a female slave/sub, however I am open to playing with a submissive couple as well. I have a submale and we have talked many times about finding another couple to play with or a female sub to join us. So far neither have happened. The two female subs I interviewed wanted to be the alpha sub and put my male as second.  Sorry he was with me first and so he is alpha sub anyone else falls beneath him.

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RE: question for Mistresess who want female slaves an... - 6/17/2007 9:28:35 PM   
TinkerHell


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Status: offline 		My experience with couples (both online and in the community) has been... "Hey, you wanna top my sub while I watch?" or the odious "My master wants me to find a woman to train me, he'd have final say", or "You could be the Alpha"... 
 
A lovely, lovely boy would be wonderful (and by boy I mean under 30) to play with... but in the end nothing compares to the wonder of having a female slave.    For what I want, a submissive couple simply would not work.  
  

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RE: question for Mistresess who want female slaves an... - 6/17/2007 10:47:00 PM   
openmindedslave


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Status: offline 		So in away a male in a couple form, is really there because he comes with a woman.. Not  because they are a couple and might play with more energy or substance than  two single people of the opposite sex instead....In a sense  your accepting him becasue he brings with him a her...
So I guessI would ask, does that mean  if you really want her, sounds likethe male might feel left out  and being the third wheel that might stop  any more playing again. How do you handle that , if what you really want is a female to play with?? It's not pitty domming is it???

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RE: question for Mistresess who want female slaves an... - 6/18/2007 9:34:00 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Not in my case it wouldn't be, because I want to play with another couple. They would both have to be submissive. I will not deal with some alpha male attempting to tell me how to run my show, I'll throw his ass outside. Yes  I do want to play with another couple because I think it would be a lot of fun. However playing with a lone female or male along with my current sub would be fun too. I am open to options.

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RE: question for Mistresess who want female slaves an... - 6/18/2007 5:43:06 PM   
PairOfDimes


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Status: offline 		Perhaps they want to clearly note that they are okay with women who are in poly/open/nonmonogamous relationships and who already have at least one partner? I don't know--I expect you could get farther if you asked the people who list this in their profiles.

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RE: question for Mistresess who want female slaves an... - 6/20/2007 9:15:12 AM   
MistressMelissa


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ORIGINAL: openmindedslave

My question is exactly that..I have read that some Mistresses will clearly say that they are searching for a female slave or sub or switch..And then might say looking for a couple also? My question is simple... when it comes to a couple,does that mean that you are playing with a male, if he comes in a couple form?? Just trying to understand how a male is okay  or is considerable if he comes with a female? Or does couple mean only two woman??? thank you as always


Greetings,

I have a preference for female slaves for several reasons. I find the female form to be more pleasant to look at, women tend to embrace their slavery differently than men and women tend to be more service oriented. These are general observations and there are exception to every rule. My house is service first, kink second.

Since I seek slaves for service, one advantage of a submissive couple, whether m/m, f/f or m/f, is that hopefully they will get along with each other. That they will already have a bond. Since I most desire their service, I can use them to relieve each others sexual needs. There seems to be a much stronger need to control a males sex drive in order to obtain proper service. I'm becoming a strong believer in male chastity. A eunuch is beginning to look like a really good choice. Makes CBT difficult though.

While it is true that male "subs" are plentiful, I find most to be bottoms in search of kinky sex. I enjoy a good bottom to play with but I seek service orient slaves. Many men find it difficult to push off societies expectations and truly serve. There are some rare gems that prove this wrong, but again they are rare.

Men tend to be visual and women tend to be motivated by emotions or feelings. It's one reason foreplay tends to be more important to a woman than a man. Not being built according to the prevailing standard of beauty can also be a handicap. I've watched more than one pro domme undergo plastic surgery to keep her customers happy. I can create the environment that pleases many female submissives.

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RE: question for Mistresess who want female slaves an... - 6/20/2007 2:52:23 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I am not at all interested in a woman that comes with the male attachment.

For all the obvious, and many not so obvious reasons, I certainly prefer women. Much as MistressMelissa has already stated.


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